11 SECRETS OF LEADERSHIP SPIRIT

11 SECRETS OF LEADERSHIP SPIRIT

First and foremost, what is leadership spirit all about?

Leadership spirit is an innate skill or capacity of insights a leader have either learned or inherited from God on or before the creation of the world. It could be learned anyway. But a true leader's spirit is to have influence  and endurable characters over others attitude positively.

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A leader is said to have the spirit of leading if he has the insight of taking his people to a new dimension of development and enlightenment towards his people both young and old. And known and unknown.

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A leader has the spirit of leading if his actions and belief systems can be able to inspire and motivate others to great heights both in war or in peace.

According to John C. Maxwell who said; "All leaders are followers".

I guess what he meant was that, a true leader never fails to have counselors and enlighten beings around him. It is through his associations that would tell the type of hero he is.

Below are the eleven leadership spirit detailed or explained by Agu C. Stanley the author of "OHE ANYI UTURU - Early Home of Igboland in a seminar presentation as of 2022.

1. A LEADER IS ONE THAT PRODUCES OTHER LEADERS

The speaker has been into leadership and truly understands that leadership is all about serving other people who may be lower than you in intelligent and or otherwise. He knew that leaders work is to build and produce other leaders that could take over the mantle of societal challenges when they arrive and must be a capable  being who would stood there for the masses.

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2. A TRUE LEADER IS NOT MEASURED BY WHAT HAPPENS IN HIS PRESENCE BUT BY HIS ABSENCE

The speaker knew within him that many leaders are respected in their presence and gossips and abusive words at their backs. Leaders are good spirits dwelling in good bodies and they believe in helping others to grow in all round of life.

3. EVERYONE HERE IS A SEED BUT YOU ARE PLANTED AT THE BACKYARD

The speaker is referring to the masses who don't know their capabilities of what they can do or have  or be within selves. Yes, we listeners and readers are great spirits who stayed in the village and confusing towns with little or no education on who they can become with their potentials if developed.

But, due to lack of money, education or mentorship and other societal problems associated with life we are unable to accomplish our big goals.

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4. WHAT IS LEADERSHIP?

The speaker defined leadership as the hardware inside of you. Meaning, that innate abilities inside of you. Your talents and gifts in life came from God who is the first Leader of all other leaders in the world.

The speaker is aware that leadership cannot be carried out by anyhow person rather leadership is that inner call to serve and help, that's the total surrender and committment to lead within your soul.  He must be inspired to see the unforseen wars and rumors that faces his lovely people without discrimination.

5. INSIDE YOU THERE'S A SPIRIT TO LEAD YOURSELF BUT YOU THINK YOU ARE NOT A LEADER

Yes, many people think that they are not capable of leading themselves to the height they want to attend. Agu C. Stanley is revealing to the masses that they are leaders and great people. They can lead themselves but because of fear of not trusting their instincts, self doubts and leading themselves safely to their destination set to depreciate.

6. YOU ARE BORN TO BECOME A LEADER BUT THERE'S A PROBLEM

We are all leaders but the problem is, we want it now, now. The speaker knows that every being is born to become a leader in his own destiny. But due to our inability to have patience until the leadership spirit in us mature through our dedication of studying our environments, reading signs and working on ourselves, we would rather prefer to want it fast which always fails.

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7. LEADERSHIP IS NOT OVER PEOPLE

Leadership is not leading other people but knowing who you are. The speaker is trying to tell us that, we are leaders if only we are confidence over our actions and abilities to leader ourselves through the dark roads of life.

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8. MY BROTHER CHINEDU, BEING A LEADER IS NOT ALL ABOUT PEOPLE FOLLOWING YOU BUT DISCOVERY YOURSELF AND MAKING AN IMPACT

The speaker is directly talking to the program organizer who may be thinking that being a leader is about having followers. But today, I have grabbed that being a leader is about making an impact to the lives of the people who may be looking for their savior's in human form.

9. WHAT MAKES THE LION THE KING OF THE JUNGLE?

He asked this question because he knew lions are brave animals and fearless in nature. It is their inner strength that gave them the boldness to fight bigger and strong animals in the forest that make them the Kings of the jungle.

10. YOU DON'T NEED TO BE SMART TO BE A GOOD LEADER

The speaker is saying to be a good leader, you need to know who you are and the people you want to lead if only you need to be at the front row. 

It is through discovery yourself as a leader that makes you smart. Leaders are self disciplined and self controlled. They are insightful and endurable, consistent  and and understandable by inheritance.

11. NOBODY IS BORN USELESS

Nobody is born a follower. We all are born great leaders. This simply means, we all have equal rights to be either a leader or a follower.  A good leader and ready to learn  leader or a bad leader who would bring his ignorance out for the people to make jest of.

AccordingC. Maxwell, the author of 360 degree leaders who said; " All leaders are followers". Leaders are followers because no great leader can succeed in life without having great advicers.

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11 SECRETS OF MAKING MONEY

11 SECRETS OF MAKING MONEY

Making money has many secrets. And anybody can be as rich as  Robert Kiyosaki and Donald Trump  the United States of America president currently.

These are  plans to follow in order to make excess money. Having money is good. But making money in a wrong way is not normal. If one makes money the wrong way, it leads to spending the money with wrong motives like, being greedy at almost everything that surrounds oneself even at the point of someone's death.

This eleven simple secrets of making money is dependent on individual differences. In the sense that as many have seen making money as a game there by involving themselves in a do or die affairs just to have money not minding the penalty after the wrong choice.

Here is are simple ideas on how to make good money and enjoy spending it without fear and judgement.

1. IDEAS INNOVATION

Brain storm your money conciousness. Be creative and frugal in nature. Do not spend your money unnecessarily to activities that don't motivate the survival and advancement of human kind.  

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Proverbs 13 : 11 said; Dishonest money dwindles away, but whoever gathers little by little makes it grow.

2. HAVE A REALISTIC DREAMS IN LIFE

If you can dream of money every night in your days please make it an imaginable one in real life. If you are only talking more on how to make money and not doing anything to materialize it, that where the wrong perception of money set in. If only you can be money concious, more money will be added to your subconscious mind. And it will manifest.

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"Remember your dreams and fight for them. You must know what you want from life. There is just one thing that makes your dream become impossible: the fear of failure" - Coelho paulo 

3. PLAN YOUR LIFE ACTIVITIES

You need to plan your way out of the masses minds. Put things together in your mind. First do the organization in your mental world. 

An old adage says; " he who fails to plan plans to fail". 

To be successful in life we need to think on personal potentials and then accept that money is the life blood of every achievement made in the pursuit of life fulfillment.

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4. FOLLOW A FOOT PRINT OF SOMEONE

Another great point is this, follow a foot prints of those you are looking up to be like. Imitate others in their business secretly. Copy ideas that are beneficial to you from mentors and add your initiatives to make it a difference. 

Joe Osteen said; " when someone is rude, keep a smile on your face. When you stay on the high road and keep your joy, you take away their power."

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5. LOOK FOR MONEY CONCIOUS TEAM MATES

Having plenty of money is all about having plenty of friends who are money concious in everything they do. Ask people who had made alots of money how they started and what's their secrets. "It's not how much money you make, but how much money you keep, how hard it works for you, and how many generations you keep it for." - Robert Kiyosaki

6. PAY MONEY TO RECEIVE MONEY

To make money, you must be ready to invest more in yourself and in your business. You must be ready to pay professionals to teach you more on how to make enough money with what you are doing. You must be ever ready to learn new strategies. Niels Bohr said; " An expert is a man who has made all the mistakes which can be made, in a narrow field".

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7. KNOW HOW TO MANIPULATE EVENTS

To make enough money , simply find an event you like then go ahead in designing it and carving out ways of bringing it for the public. Find a problem in the state and provide a solution. 

See what Caleb said; " I've been doing this a long time - manipulating people to get my way. That's why you think you love me. Because I've down and built you back up to believe it. It wasn't an accident. Once you learn this behind... you 'll see that." 

8. RECOGNIZE THE MOMENT

Recognise the moment you are in. Are you in the new age era? Are things going on globally online or offline more than expected? Can you fit into the masses minds of doing things? What do you really want when it comes to money?

These are the truthful questions one needs to ask himself when it comes to making enough or excess money as demanded by many people in the world market today.

Look at what Jeremiah 29:11 says; "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD "plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future".

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9. SELL MANY PRODUCTS

You need to know how to sell behind your competitors. You need to learn how to operate in world market. You need to invest your time in learning how to sell online and build customers who are nowadays called followers. 

Don't allow the fear of loss to be greater than the desire of gain. Learn online marketing and distributions to have enough money in your bank account.

10. BE TIRELESS

To make money , you must be serious with your products. You should be serious working all day and have plenty of time been invested in your businesses. Energise yourself from within. 

Learn self healing therapy to be spiritually built. Back yourself up with prayers and meditations. Ann Landers said; opportunities are disguised as hard work, so most people don't recognize them".

11. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

To make money believe in your hustle. If your hustling is not working out, don't hesitate to try another one. Believe in God Almighty who blessings the truthful and upright in nature. 

Money is not everything but it can help you solve a lot of problems. Remember, it is not how heavy the load is, but how you carry it that matters. 

It is our too much of money conciousness that money is everything that causes many people not to ask for wisdom. 

In the higher scheme of spirituality, money is not as important as inner peace of mind. To have peaceful mind is to be self-containment, to have haven and wisdom.

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4 CAUSES OF JAMB AND WAEC FAILURES AND THEIR SOLUTIONS

 4 CAUSES OF WAEC AND JAMB

 FAILURES AND THEIR SOLUTIONS

To succeed in JAMB/WAEC examinations, one must know some strategies JAMB/WAEC are using as well as be more open to his/her books and past question papers. 

Failing in waec is not by stupidity nor is it lack of reading, no. Rather by intelligent design on how to answer questions in a constuctive manner.

The four causes and its remedies are written below.

1. UNPREPAREDNESS OF THE MIND 

Many students don't prepare their minds before going in for exams especially during waec and jamb periods.

Students should get ready through studying their books, researching questions that may likely come out, rather than watching comedy videos, telling and listening to gossips, involving themselves in football national league competition matches and going for irritating activities.

Why? 

Because all these actions occupies some relevant space in one's memory or brain. But many jambite have said it's nothing, that's it won't be a cause of failure or not doing well in their results.

See, allowing environmental influences reduces mental power in academics especially during examination times.

To be free from these available influential diseases, one needs to get ready before waec/jamb approaches not minding how hard environment  hits on him. The fact remains that, get yourself prepared mentally and avoiding social distractions from your mind is you duty.

2. OVER CONFIDENCE IN ONES MIND

This beliefs has failed many intelligent students because of that, they take waec to be like their school management examinations. They feel like, oh! Even if I don't read much am sure am going to pass. Thinking good hand writing can do anything.

Many forgot that one or two vital subjects can disappoint the unlucky students. What if what you knew didn't come out? What the next option?

Be obedient and submissive to yourself and bend down to study according to instructions. Stop being over-confident in your ability and live a sober life until your results are out and good. Be strong in learning new things. You have a big vision with big brain.

3. EXAMINATION MALPRACTICES/EXPO

Modern students believe in expo nawadays. Many trust their hearts in runs and it is  wrong. So, it is the rearrangement of this erroneous thinking that leads many students to believe that examination malpractices is a good thing to do. To think of expo is like to inject the wrong medicine into the body system which is your brain. 

Young minds can record a lot of information within a short period of time but it depends on one's retentive memory and meditating abilities. That's  the strength to push out what is good out of one's mind in academics.

Examination malpractices can or may help you in making your waec results but it won't help you from real life examination.

To free yourself, avoid following and listening to friends who share expo procedures. Hearing expo stories can change your mind and drain out the little you know.

Remember, you and I are the future leaders of tomorrow and it start today. Study.

4. RICH MENTALITY

Some students even said, whether they make it or not, they can have anything they want in life. Yes, it may be true but, it is not certain. To pass your waec and jamb exams results successfully, you must eradicate money conciousness while in school. I know many would argue this.

Get your education qualifications when you can first. If you keep combining money mindset and making your results at same time, please think again and think deep. To make it, learn to exercise and engage the mind in reading and memorizing practices.

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20 EXCELLENT SOLUTIONS TO YOUR WAEC/NECO RESULTS

20 EXCELLENT SOLUTIONS TO YOUR WAEC/NECO RESULTS

To make waec/neco results in this present school environment and system of education, one needs to be extra careful in chosen friends and been serious in building personal career. 

Many students who face waec/neco as an external examination do the mistake of comparing waec with that of internal school examinations. Growing students need to be more aware of what to do to overcome waec questions and its strategic ways of setting exams.

Here are the 20 excellent solutions to your waec and neco results. Know everything about these solutions it would be a big help in making your result a good one.

1. READ AND STUDY PAST QUESTION PAPERS

 Your work as a student is to study past question papers and develop the habit of reading and researching with your text books including related waec topics.

Remember, past questions help you to know what external exams looks like. You can do it.

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2. LISTEN TO YOUR TEACHERS

Your teachers would always want to help you. But, if you want to help yourself, learn how to ask your teachers questions and listen to their advices. Don't forget, you are your own best teacher.

3. DO NOT FOCUS ON FRIENDS IDEALOGY

It is very common that many have wrong perceptions when it comes to waec/neco results making. 

No matter the road your friends want you to follow, don't forget to focus on yourself and know the power of your mind. You can do anything.

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4. CONCENTRATE ON ONE IDEA

The only idea you need to concentrate on is on how to make your result. Though it is not a do or die affairs, but you need not to look away from this one idea - making a good result.  

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5. READ AHEAD OF PAST QUESTIONS

You would not die in studying past questions rather read above past questions. Believe in reading and memorizing. Draw if you can, practice the exam before its dates. Look into the difficult ones and try your strength.

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6. STOP SHARING AND TELLING STORIES

Stop entertaining anything called stories or gossips during exam periods. Stories easily dorminate your mind and takes away your good reasoning to nothing. if you must tell a story, let it be for the growth of your academics in veiw.

7. ENVIRONMENTAL INFLUENCES

To succeed in your NECO exams you need to be aware of your environmental influences which may not seem important but it's essential you disconnect yourself from outside distractions especially the closest ones who would not add anything good and focus on the inside of yourself.

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8. TRY TO BE WITH INTELLIGENT MINDS

During exams you need to be around intelligent students, sharing ideas on what may or may not come out. Many atimes, what you imagine may come out because you don't know the power between like minds imagination. 

That's the magic intelligent students have over others. Discuss with yourself or go to others for exam discussions only.

9. ASK QUESTIONS

Yes, you need to learn how to ask questions to your fellow students without being ashamed. Ask those students who knew your answers. 

Look for the answers of any confusing questions you seem not to understand. Asking questions increases your knowledge.

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10. KNOW WHAT YOU WANT

Yes! The first thing to have in mind is to know exactly what you want to achieve. You should know how important your result is for you so that you do not deviate from what you are pursuing.

11. DON'T BELIEVE IN EXAMS MALPRACTICES

Do not think examination malpractices is good or bad, talk more of believing in it. Believe in yourself that the secret of success. Read your books God will help you to overcome your dreams. You will be guided inwardly.

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12. STOP PLAYING GAMES

Stop playing football often, stop playing bets for exam runs, stop playing with girls or boys, stop playing in class, stop playing with yourself.

Staying aware from these things gives your mind the power to excel in meditating and recording and memorizing the needful information. Start listening to your inner guardian during examination times.

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13. STAY AWAKE BEFORE OTHERS

To do well, you need to do what others are unwilling to do. You need to stay awake from  time to time studying. Look around you, do that which you observe others are not doing in order to outshine them in everything.

14. DO NOT TRY TO USE PHONE

Using browsing phones during exams is distracting. It shift your attention from learning exactly what you need that moment greatly but you won't know it. If you can avoid it, please do.

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15. DO NOT COMPLAIN TO OTHERS

Do not complain. Why should you complain? You are going through the hard process together. It is how you carry the laod that makes it difficult not the load.

Trust yourself. You can do it. Others did it years ago why won't you. Remember, what you put your attention on get bigger. Complaining will put fear in you but, calming down gives you confidence.

16. MEDITATE WITHIN YOURSELF AND OTHER LIKE MINDS

Working and befriending like minds is another great solution for you in making a nice waec or neco results. Know that ' two good heads are better than one'. 

So, let your association be only for the sharp students. Remember, iron sharpeneth iron.

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17. DO NOT TRY TO HELP OTHERS

Do not help others when you are not free yourself. Do the little you can for those who ask for it and do not allow the problem of others to weigh you down. Settle yourself first during the practical examination days. Count yourself first.

18. DO NOT ALLOW DISTRACTIONS

Do not give in for distractions from anywhere or they will weigh you down or out of you normal feelings during practical examination days. 

Watch the environment, the teachers, and other students and control all in your mind before they get you in the net of confusion. Some people would want to distract you intentionally. Be aware. Be vigilant.  

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19. TALK LESS DURING PRACTICAL EXAMINATION DAYS

This does not mean you will not talk to anyone around you. No. Rather, it does mean you need to be in charge of yourself and others. 

If you can hide, please do and reappear like a spirit in the hall and go straight to your seat and wait. 

Remember, to avoid discussions that can raise your angers. Angers push you out of balance. Everything you know may escape.

 Only you matters during exams days. Yes! That's what I mean.

20. PUT YOUR TRUST IN GOD

Yes! You need to trust God and also trust yourself. You can't trust God when you are empty within yourself. 

You trust God only when you are loaded with definitions, methods, terms, effects, and functions of what you are taught in the class. Thank you for reading. Wishing you a great success.

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THREE THINGS REAL WOMEN WANT FROM A MAN

THREE THINGS REAL WOMEN WANT FROM A MAN

To be a man is not a day job. The same way, to be a woman is not a day job. To be a man is one thing and to be a responsible man who handles situations appropriately is another thing. 

This is why many women put these three things into consideration before going into deep relationship with any man talk more of going into marriage. These are:

1. VISIONARY IN NATURE

Every real woman wants a man who is vision oriented. She wants him to be a decision maker who really knew where and what he wanted in life. 

Real women know that a visionary man is likely to overcome many obstacles in life at the long run of life unseen. Women knew what they want. 

Women need a man who will be encharge of any child bearing and training, controlling family crisis at the long run, not willing to look back inspite of  friends influences and can be patient and tolerable at all times.

2. STRONG IN BODY AND SOUL

No real woman would like a slow, dull and mentally deterred man. All real creative women would like a man who is strong in body and is spiritually in control of the spirit self.

Men who are active in body but are weak in the spirit are not complete in the sight of real women. Women love real men who are more spiritual and very sound in what they are doing about the future.

No man would be active in the spiritual realm without physical strength. If you need women to love you wholely, kindly learn how to do push up and read your books of wisdom.

3. OPENNESS AT ALL TIMES

Real women love  deeply and mostly of men who are open hearted at all times even when they suppose to pretend.

There are men who like lying about their true personal identity, money in the bank, and business associates everywhere. 

Real women need men who are open always and can pour out truth about their real selves on their claimed lovers.

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7 THINGS TO KNOW TO BE UNBEATABLE IN ANY COMPETITION

7 THINGS TO KNOW TO BE UNBEATABLE IN ANY COMPETITION

To be unbeatable in any competition, there are certain strategies one must not play with. Such strategies are open for everyone but only the few first class winners make use of it as of when due.

These are the seven things if put to practice will make one unbeatable in any competition one may involves himself.

1. DRESSING

Let's start with your dressing. You should know the type of competition you are going and know some of your competitors strength.

Though you are not bragging but your appearance create the first fear in the eyes of your challengers and the judges can be lured into attraction simply because of your attire. Know the best suits to be on  or ask your manager questions about your dressing code.

2. FOLLOW UP PROCEDURE

You should endeavour to know the phase or structure lay down for the competition and moreso, ask questions or watch related or previous events before hand.

Failure to acknowledge the procedure set up can lead to your dismissal or reduction in marks.

3. TRUE IMITATION OF ROLE MODEL

Yes. In any competition, your actions and reactions before your judges matters much. If you have someone to imitate, kindly do all you can do to make it real about the person you are role modeling. 

Remember what you are imitating; hair style, attire, voice presentation and pattern of body gestures.

4. BOLDNESS TO PRESENT YOURSELF

Boldness alone is a mark. Be bold enough to present yourself including your eye contacts, your walks and voice control for singers.

All these tends towards revealing who you are from within inspite of your dressing, and imitating abilities. 

Try to show who you are, what you are and how good you can become if declared or selected as the bearer of the golden cap before the judges.

5. BEAR IT IN MIND - YOU ARE NOT ALONE

Sometimes in tough competitions, your judges judge based on people's reactions and how correct you trust your intuition. 

So, whether you are good or not, others can uplift your sensible calculations during performances. Besides, trust God who will make you shine in the eyes of your watchers.

6. BE ON THE KEY

You need to be at the master key. You need to know exactly what the competition is made up of. The does and don't of the organizers. What actually are you expecting not to do in the cause of performing or displaying your skills.

7. YOUR MISTAKES STAYS WITH YOU

Don't dear to fear your mistakes. Without mistakes, there will be no corrections. Failures are nothing but pillars of success. 

You fail a particular race challenge is not enough reason for you not to go for another phase of dragging competition. 

Infact, the more mistakes the more chances of becoming unbeatable challenger before your competitors. And from too many mistakes and triyals, you become perfect and unbeatable. 

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ONE HIDDEN PART OF EVERY WOMAN

ONE HIDDEN PART OF EVERY WOMAN

Generally speaking, women like one thing and it is common among married and aged ones. I am not accusing women of their infidelity behaviors rather am emphasizing on a particular part that is most dangerous to men but advantageous to women.

It is not right to say men are free of this one thing. But, women are highly engaged with it.

Don't be surprise if you know this one hidden part of a woman and don't try to abuse it unnecessarily in a common embarrassing way.

Many women like secrecy. 

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In the beginning of any relationship with a woman or a young lady, it is first started from the heart admirations and physical eyeing. 

Some men would approach a lady without waste of time once they discovered within themselves feelings and even if it's fake attractions. 

Many other men would have feelings for a particular beautiful lady without shifting their love and there by keeping to one woman for a very long time.

Men tends to be more spiritual lovers connected than women, that's why when a woman breaks the chain of love in between, men lose control and can even be unstable mentally for a while.

One thing is sure, young ladies who are single and educated knew the love of men that came from the heart. They felt it and dreams of it when it comes.

All the behaviors that came from insightful single ladies who need a strong love not minding how rich or poor a man is, came from a secret corner of their hearts which means secrecy to them. It's after the knowledge that bold ladies can testify of his love to her friends. It is said that; "its takes two to tango".

Secrecy is an action every woman possess even the ones that are not considered educated widely are hiding something from a close relationship.

A lady can only be proud of a man when he has undergone the test of love set for him by her. Though they say; " faint heart never won a fair girl". This unknown test is also done as secret.

Insofaras a man's heart admires a lady  from the inner side of his heart, the man would do anything both physical and spiritual to click and follow her heart test set for him. 

No matter the test a woman set for a man, deception can be attached at the back of the man's heart who claims to love her from the bottom of his heart. This too, is a secret kept.

Therefore I suggest, women should maintain their secrecy until a man truly proofs his real love for her through his commitment of all kinds. Giving, sacrificing, paying attention and being present when needed.

Women are highly secretive in nature and it's suppose to be so. 

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FOUR WAYS TO IDENTIFY YOUR NATURAL GIFTS

FOUR WAYS TO IDENTIFY YOUR NATURAL GIFTS

Mark Twain an American writer and humorist said that; 'You cannot depend on your eyes when your imagination is out of focus'.

The four beautiful ways of recognizing your natural gifts by God are listed below. 

This an idea and an inner inspiration from the writer.

1. YOUR NATURAL INNER DESIRES

We all have personal instinct or intuition that always wispers to us on how best we are to live our lives here on earth.

Truly, earth has a principle or laws that must be followed in order for us to survive greatly.

It is our attentiveness to our inner and natural desires that would help us identify our callings as gifts of God to each one of us.

Listening and obeying our natural heart and spirit is of paramount.

Your body is physically designed according to your earthly works destined for you from the beginning of time.

It is our refusal to follow our heart that changed our form for the first place. Though, it can as well be for our own good if we can obey.

2. YOUR NIGHT DREAMS

What dreams do you see yourself often?

What are your night dreams telling you?

When God wants to show us something deep about ourselves, He does that through our dreams.

It is us who don't follow nor read meanings on the revelation of what God has revealed to us.

Many of us have received our true callings and gifts directions through our dreams but has given it no meaningful thought and research. 

Our dreams sometimes are what we need to learn from and followed.

3. PROPHETIC LANGUAGES ON US

What prophecy are we receiving from men of God?

What signs have we received from God?

What questions are we asking our innerselves? Or, are we acting based on our own strength and powers?

How righteous and true are we to ourselves?

How prepared are we towards our natural gifts and or talents?

What are we doing in order to manifest the gifts in us for the world to enjoy?

How have we ask for help from God to send us our destiny helper and solutions to our desires and visions? These questions can help us realize our true selves if answered correctly.

4. CHECK YOUR BODY

This is important. Your body is needed when it comes to the fulfillment of our natural gifts and talents.

God can't bless you with football and allow your legs to be disfigured except when we allow fears to penetrate our heart towards our visions. Even if you are a footballer with a disfigured legs, when you examine closely, you can see that you can be a coach in the field of football. Just don't give up on God.

Check your body very well. If you are disfigured from childhood, look around you will see what God has left for you as blessings.

That which is there can serve your purpose.

It is our foolishness that make us think that; our disfigured hands, legs, mouth and or eyes have affected our brains to perform heroically for the world.

Look at what the great Carl Jung said:

"Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside awakens".

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Batholomew Obienyi

A Creative Writer and Motivational Speaker

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6 SECRETS ON HOW TO BOOST TALENT

6 SECRETS ON HOW TO BOOST TALENT

Being proud is a sure sign you have discovered your talent and gifts before the whole world. 

And know you this; one good idea can change the whole world in a twinkling of an eye and it could be your own ideas.

"Artistic talent is a gift from God and whoever discovers it in himself has a certain obligation: to know that he cannot waste this talent, but must develop it" . Said; Pope John Paul I I  

These are the secrets that can help anyone to boast his or her talents within days if followed.

1. HAVE A MENTOR: 

To boast your talent, you need to have a mentor. 

Who is a mentor? 

A mentor is one who has more knowledge than you and has been in the field before you. 

Though you can boast your talent without a mentor but it going to be by trials and errors which may take several attempts and persistence.

2. HAVE A ROLE MODEL

Another way of boasting your talent is by having a role model. 

Who is a role model?

A role model is already made person that you want to be like him or her in that of your chosen career. 

You imitate all about him and watch and follow all his actions and movies including reading his books.

3. BE WILLING TO DO WHAT YOU CAN DO

Yes. You need to be proud in doing whatever it is you are called up for. 

If you are not willing of being a gospel singer, how can you be the next Corlinus Benjamin.

If you are not proud of being a teacher and writer, how can you be the next Bob Proctor in the line.

If you are not proud of your creativity, how can you be the next Wright Brothers talk more of becoming the great Edison who failed 999 times before light bulb surface.

4. BE READY FOR TRAINING

To develop in your best area, you need to be ready and prepare for non stopping training.

That means, you need to be consistent in all you do concerning that of your talents.

To become a known footballer like Kalu Nwankwo, you need to keep training like him. 

You cannot become known like Roman Reigns without constant body training on weight lifting. 

Infact, you can't succeed until you start doing something consistently.

5. DON'T THINK OF MONEY FIRST

In the cause of fulfilling your inner core destiny, seek for happiness and self-satisfaction  rather than money and fame.

You need to test run your gifts. You need to be confirmed by people. You need to be tested and approved before money can come in. 

Yes. The Bible says; the gifts of a man make way for him. At the same time it says; because you have received free, therefore give freely.

When you are ripe, fall. When you are ripe, people would demand you and pay for your services and time.

6. BE SMART

You need to be smart by learning how to protect your gifts and talents very well against humanity manipulation and mislabeling. 

Be careful about prophetic misinterpretations about who you are not.

If you are not smart and intelligent, you can be called or given a wrong identity.

Look within you, you will see your true identity of who you are called up to represent. You are gods! the bible says. But you will die like a mere man.

But know it too well, you are a super human if you discover yourself and live your world.

"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart" said, Helen Keller.

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Batholomew Obienyi

A Creative Writer and Motivational Speaker

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