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Monday, February 24, 2025

THREE THINGS REAL WOMEN WANT FROM MEN AND THEY WILL BE SATISFIED WITHIN











THREE THINGS REAL WOMEN WANT FROM MEN AND THEY WILL BE SATISFIED WITHIN


To be a man is not a day job. The same way, to be a woman is not a day job. But, it's hard to be a man than a  woman. To be a man is one thing and to be a responsible man who handles situations appropriately is another thing. 

This is why many women put these three things into consideration before going into deep relationship with any man talk more of going into marriage that would last for a long time. 


These three things real women want from men to be satisfied in marriage or in a relationship are explained in details below: 


1. VISIONARY IN NATURE

Every real woman wants a man who is vision oriented. She wants him to be a decision maker who really knew where and what he wanted in life and how to go about it.

Real women know that a visionary man is likely to overcome many obstacles in life at the long run of life unseen. Women knew what they want. 

Women need men who will be encharge instead of being fearful of their children including the training, controlling family crisis at the long run, not willing to look back inspite of  friends influences and can be patient and tolerable at all times. That's what makes a real man in the eyes of every woman.


2. STRONG IN BODY AND SOUL

No real woman would like a slow, dull and mentally deterred man to be around her. All real creative women would like a man who is strong in body and is spiritually in control of the spirit self in him.

Men who are active in body but are weak in the spirit are not complete in the sight of real women. Women love real men who are more spiritual and very sound in what they are doing about the future.

No man would be active in the spiritual realm without physical strength. If you need women to love you wholely, kindly learn how to do push up and read your books of wisdom.


3. OPENNESS AT ALL TIMES

Real women love  deeply and mostly of men who are open hearted at all times even when they suppose to pretend.

There are men who like lying about their true personal identity, money in the bank, and business associates everywhere. 

Real women need men who are open always and can pour out truth about their real selves on their claimed lovers. This is a reason in many families today it seems as if women are running the activities. If men can wake up to peak courage to face their lives, women would be as sumissive as talked about in the Bible. 




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7 THINGS TO KNOW TO BECOME UNBEATABLE IN ANY COMPETITION





7 THINGS TO KNOW TO BECOME UNBEATABLE IN ANY COMPETITION



To be unbeatable in any competition, there are several strategies one must not play with in a competition. Such strategies are open for everyone but only the few first class winners make use of it as of when due.

These are the seven things if put to practice will make one unbeatable in any competition one may involve himself.


Here are the seven things to know to become unbeatable in any competition in details:



1. DRESSING

Let's start with your dressing. You should know the type of competition you are going and know some of your competitors strength.

Though you are not bragging but your appearance create the first fear in the eyes of your challengers and the judges can be lured into attraction simply because of your attire. Know the best suits to be on or ask your manager questions about your dressing code if you have. But bear it in mind, there's nothing more dangerous in a competition like dressing badly and uncomely.


2. FOLLOW UP PROCEDURE

You should endeavour to know the phase or structure lay down for the competition and moreso, ask questions or watch related or previous events before hand.

Failure to acknowledge the procedure set up can lead to your dismissal or reduction in marks. 


3. TRUE IMITATION OF ROLE MODEL

Yes. In any competition, your actions and reactions before your judges matters much. If you have someone to imitate, kindly do all you can do to make it real about the person you are role modeling because failure to make it real attract discomfort.

Remember what you are imitating; hair style, attire, voice presentation and or pattern of body gestures any one.


4. BOLDNESS TO PRESENT YOURSELF

Boldness alone is a mark. Be bold enough to present yourself including your eye contacts, your walks and voice control for singers.

All these tends towards revealing who you are from within inspite of your dressing, and imitating abilities. 

Try to show who you are, what you are and how good you can become if declared or selected as the bearer of the golden cap before the judges.


5. BEAR IT IN MIND - YOU ARE NOT ALONE

Sometimes in tough competitions, your judges judge based on people's reactions and how correct you trust your intuition

So, whether you are good or not, others can uplift your sensible calculations during performances. Besides, trust God who will make you shine in the eyes of your watchers.


6. BE ON THE KEY

You need to be at the master key. You need to know exactly what the competition is made up off. The does and don't of the organizers. What actually are you expecting not to do in the cause of performing or displaying your skills.


7. YOUR MISTAKES STAYS WITH YOU

Don't dear to fear your mistakes. Without mistakes, there will be no corrections. Failures are nothing but pillars of success. 

You fail a particular race challenge is not enough reason for you not to go for another phase of dragging competition. 

Infact, the more mistakes the more chances of becoming unbeatable challenger before your competitors. And from too many mistakes and triyals, you become perfect and unbeatable. 





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ONE HIDDEN PART OF EVERY WOMAN NOBODY WILL TELL YOU



ONE HIDDEN PART OF EVERY WOMAN NOBODY WILL TELL YOU


Generally speaking, women like one thing and it is common among married and aged ones. I am not accusing women of their infidelity behaviors rather am emphasizing on a particular part that is most dangerous to men but advantageous to women.

It is not right to say men are free of this one thing. But, women are highly engaged with it without mercy.

Don't be surprise if you know this one hidden part of a woman and don't try to abuse it unnecessarily in a common embarrassing way.

Many women like secrecy

How do you know what a woman wants in a relationship or marriage?

In the beginning of any relationship with a woman or a young lady, it is first started from the heart admirations and physical eyeing which may include many gifts.

Some men would approach a lady without waste of time once they discovered within themselves feelings and even if it's fake attractions many called lust.

Many other men would have feelings for a particular beautiful lady without shifting their love and there by keeping to one woman for a very long time.

Men tends to be more spiritual lovers connected than women, that's why when a woman breaks the chain of love in between, men lose control and can even be unstable mentally for a while if not years.

One thing is sure, young ladies who are single and educated knew the true love of men that came from the heart. They felt it and dreams of it when it comes.

All the behaviors that came from insightful single ladies who need a strong love not minding how rich or poor a man is, came from a secret corner of their hearts which means secrecy to them. It's after the knowledge that bold ladies can testify of his love to her friends. It is said that; "its takes two to tango".

Secrecy is an action every woman possessed even the ones that are not considered educated widely are hiding something from a close relationship.

A lady can only be proud of a man when he has undergone the test of love set for him by her. Though they say; " faint heart never won a fair girl". This unknown test is also done as a secret.

Insofaras a man's heart admires a lady  from the inner side of his heart, the man would do anything both physical and spiritual to click and follow her heart test set for him without grudges.

No matter the test a woman set for a man, deception can be attached at the back of the man's heart who claims to love her from the bottom of his heart. This too, is a secret kept by men.

Therefore I suggest, women should maintain their secrecy until a man truly proofs his real love for her through his commitment of all kinds. Giving, sacrificing, paying attention and being present when needed.

Women are highly secretive in nature and it's suppose to be so. There are special women with special knowledge who cares not how a man treat them but, pay much attention on faith and change in time to come even as though they believed men to be of the same kind.





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