THE THREE MOST NEGLECTED THINGS THAT DISTRACT OUR YOUNGER ONES

 

THE THREE MOST NEGLECTED THINGS THAT DISTRACT OUR YOUNGER ONES 

In the world today, many unreasonable things are happening in the lives of the younger ones without the intervention of parents idealogy. 

The mind is a spiritual thing. When it is not directed and guided within the soul, what the eyes sees controls the mind if not carefully neglected and gives it shape to develop. Minds actually don't easily get attracted to things unwanted unless the ones repeatedly occuring in its presence. 

It is always like that, minds magnets like virus. It is contagious in nature. Many times, it is the negative vibes that magnet easily because of its repetitive ocucurances in the society today especially with the phones in our hands.

Though, positive vibes that motivate the soul is hardly seen in the environment or in most social gatherings except in the area of churches and few motivated seminars many refused to attend. Being aware is better than  being ignorance. 

Below are the most neglected things that distract our younger ones:

1. HOME EDUCATION 

Yes, the kind of knowledge shared at home by most parents and senior brothers. Home suppose to be the beginning of all good especially from parents and elderly ones 'if' they are good people full of positivity. Go to many homes today, parents are misinterpreting each other while senior colleagues are busy misdirecting those children that supposed to be learning from them.

Many things are destroying the education system worldwide especially the ones from home. What about the playing ground? The playing ground should be a place of learning new stories that touches the heart through its constructive happenings. 

When we were young, stories are told generally for future references.  Nowadays, stories are told from another angel of education. Children are taught how to make quick money and start learning from hand held phones without a second thought.

To stop this nonsense, every thing parents and senior brothers are doing in the face of the younger ones should be informative and educative even though they grow to learn the evils themselves.

2. SEX

This is another dangerous character that's destroying our younger ones unnoticed and uncontrolled. Many young girls have dedicated their efforts in teaching sightless boys the evil way of development. It is not easy with young girls as well because guys of wicked heart are there too to mislead.

Sex has occupied many minds destructively, taking the reasonable heart out of shape. Destiny are quenched because of the involvement in the act of sexual intercourse among the younger ones who are suppose to be the future hope of the nation. The unwanted pregnancy and the risk involving in the abortion process are all ways of loosing one's vision in life.

Almost everything youths are practicing today are learned behaviours from either explicit videos or from corruptive minds that dwell among the people of the universe.

To stop this sexual attitude, attentions and exposure of the risk involved in sexual intercourse among youths need to be handled seriously by matured minds of intelligent through constructive ideas of impact.

3. ALCOHOLISM 

This type of attitude has led the bright future guys to stupor and many more to poverty. Alcoholism has been in the blood of men from the beginning of the world. Even the bible did not condemned alcoholism. It is the abusive attitude of alcoholism that makes it seem to be bad.

Nevermind, young ones are seriously learning the evil ways of their parents without minding the effects on their brain. Fermented substances are done in many ways but mind you, you have a destiny and purpose of coming into this world.

Don't be distracted by the things of the world and forget yourself and your greater future ahead of you.

It is through alcoholism that many learn betting. Nothing is bad in this universe except the ones that distract you from your life purposes. What are the things?

Think twince in your doings and make sure you are following the nice friends even if it involves making new friends as brotherhood individuals do. Nevertheless, follow your bliss. Don't be deceived. 

FOUR SECRET MESSAGES MANY WIVES USED ON THEIR HUSBANDS TO TIE THEM DOWN TO THEIR WHIM

FOUR SECRET MESSAGES MANY WIVES USED  ON THEIR HUSBANDS TO TIE THEM DOWN TO THEIR WHIM

Many wives today do not know these simple and powerful four secret messages they can use in holding men's love to them. They have forgotten their power of words on men. Because of that, lots of women are having issues with their beloved ones. Women have love and voice influences on men though few men may be difficult but not so long if she continues.

My own woman have used many tactics of voice influence on me and get through many of the time. Nevertheless, these four secrets messages women used on men are powerful but is not a sure way of controlling every man and it still depends on the individual level of awareness both in reasoning and acceptance of characters portrait by most women at home.

Below are the four secret messages women used on men to tie them down to their whim:

1. "YOU ARE MY ENDLESS BUNDLE OF JOY. KNOWING YOU IS THE BEST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO MY LIFE. HAVING YOU AS A LIFE PARTNER IS MY GREATEST GIFT FROM GOD. I LOVE YOU".

There's no man you sent such message that will play with you as a wife, mind you - it is not guaranteed full time. Women open their hearts up for men who won't play with it. Men who want lasting love and happy homes appreciate their wives without compromise.

In truth, women hardly reject their life partners no matter how poor or bad the situation may seem. But for a woman to reject her man whole heartedly, it means he has broken the inner heart of her love.

Women pray to God for a good husband with an understandable attitude who would help unlock the gift they have inside.  As a true wisdom man, saying thank you for such beautiful message is highly recommended. Replying ''I love you too'' is much necessary.

2."SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPENED TODAY. WE SHOULD NOT BE DOING THIS. PLEASE FORGIVE AND FORGET".

Normally, only modern women of intelligent knew how to use the word "sorry, forgive and forget" in marriage. It is of a good character to use such words especially when crises arises.

Intelligent women use text messages to reach out while the unintelligent use mostly words and loyalty in puting the man in her whim. It is ethical for men to reason well in times of trouble especially matters that's concerns home management among spouses.

It is true, it is written for long, that the best revenge is to forgive and forget. But how real is it in the heart of humans? Men should let go and continue the process of building a happy family world-wide. When you get a gold, please do well to treat it like a gold.

3. "AM SO HAPPY TO KNOW YOU ARE MINE. I AM GRATEFUL TO THE MOST HIGH FOR GIVING YOU TO ME AS A HUSBAND. I LOVE YOU TREASURE".

If most women were grateful to the kind of men they married, the world would have been a changed and better world. It is an expected thing that man and woman should appreciate each other and be grateful for such togetherness.

If blames, suspicious and confusion filled the houses of men, how then can the children learn from such conditions? 

Gratitude should be the watch word of every member of the family in order to make a new progressive world. When we appreciate what we have with high esteem more shall be multiplied. Creating a happy home is in the hands of men and women who came together as one body from the creation of the universe.

4. "THANKS FOR YOUR LOVE, CARE AND UNDERSTANDING. MY STRENGTH, HERO AND KING".

When a woman or anyone else sent love and motivated text messages to your phone, as a man please do well to keep the fire burning. Don't allow the rolling ball to stop. Love finds it strength in communication and thanks giving to the Most High. But it started with insight and ends in practice.

It is only in thanks giving can we get more of the things we are grateful for and appreciate so much in our lives. The strength of love is openness, confessions and forgiveness. No love last without proper understanding of human heart.

It is the duty of man to study and know the strength and weaknesses of the woman he's staying with. When a woman shows your love, there's no need to doubt the love even though as things changes from moment to moment. 

In conclusion, only God can show men true love without compromising on how well or material riches he has. God's love is unconditional and has many impact in the lives of the people all over the world.