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Thursday, March 26, 2026

8 HIDDEN THINGS REAL WOMEN NEED FROM MEN BUT HIDE THEM

 




8 HIDDEN THINGS REAL WOMEN NEED FROM MEN BUT HIDE THEM


Real women need alot of things to uphold their dignity but rarely would they open their mouth to mention them before men. A real woman is she who opens her heart for her husband without hidden agendas.

Generally speaking, women tends to test men of their love through demanding material things even when they knew their men are financially challenged. Almost in every family, few women open up for their men while many are less concerned as long as their children are receiving their daily bread and basic training in education and other life endeavors.


Here are the 8 things real women need from men but hide them away in details:


1. COMMUNICATION 

Almost everywhere, even in relationship of young people nawadays, communication is of paramount. Married couples need it most. Many families today are in danger due to lack of communication skills and how to apply it.

Women wants effective communication from men. When men lack the charisma to talk to their wives, sudden family challenges tends to develop more. 

Sometimes, it is difficult for real women to expose or argue with their men when it comes to leading the family ahead. Men supposed to know their work when it's involves issues with their family members.


2. EXPOSURE 

Another thing real women want from their men is exposure. Women like to experience new things, go new places, visit new countries, even go for new hotels for swimming pool outings and also like visiting amusement parks for knowledge and enjoyment sake.

Hardly will a real woman opens up for traveling but the truth is, she wants it bad. Women naturally love travelling together with their families. No real woman in her innerself would not like to travel to a new place for enjoyment and realization of a new way of loving his man. It takes a real man to expose a real woman without grudges in heart.


3. PETTING 

No real woman would not like petting. Another name for women is petting. No matter how mean and determine a woman seems, if there's no petting from side ways, she tends to worn out. Women like petting and need it from their men. It takes courage for a woman to tell her man to pet her for more inner strength.

Women who receive petting from their men either in a relationship or in marriage, gradually builds up inner muscles for growth and success including in their characters. If a man can develop petting habits with his woman, hardly would misunderstanding arises from such a great relationship.


4. NEW UNDIES 

Real women no matter their pretence need new undies but will never tell you as a man. They want men to discover their wants. Men who are much caring understand that women need new things. To click the right button is to buy her new undies without her requesting for it.

Nevermind what they say, do what touches their heart's because it's a real woman thing. No matter how hard it is for a man, if he's not buying for her happiness, he has not started loving. To real women, they never push anyone to buy for them because they can manage. But always know that real women hide their feelings.


5. AVAILABILITY 

You can't be in love with realistic women and be so far to reach. They love available men who take charge of them the way they want it. Real women imagine the unimaginable that's a reason they can stay with all men the first time.

To be a real man in the eyes of a real woman, man must work smart with himself and reason like a co-worker with God he has born to be. Imagine Adam and Eve in the beginning of creation. What could be Adam reactions towards his wife when she is dull and sick?


6. NEW HAIR STYLES 

No real woman would not like new hair styles from time to time. Women generally love plating their hairs with costly hair style materials. It takes a real man to maintain that part of her life style. Even the so called fake women know that changing hair styles is a credit to themselves. 

Real women believes that changing hair styles is a credit to their men. Nevermind, men who know the secrets of real women make a good step in fulfilling all their hearts desires even though as it is difficult to satisfies them. Real women prefer to look good than to have money and be dirty. No matter your religion as a woman, you need to look good all way round.


7. TOLERANCE 

Real women love men who can tolerate their nonsense all the time. No matter how real a woman claims to be or appear, she knows within herself that there's a fault laying unnoticed about her. Every woman pray to have a tolerable man, a man that can endure and even to accept errors when they occur likewise men.

It is not easy to be at the range of real women who almost knew all the things men wants from women. But, if a man can tolerate a woman in all her fuck ups and messes, the real woman in her can easily boast out to benefit the man the more.


8. STRONG MAN

Whether fake or real, no woman would like a dull brain and strengthless man to be with. Women generally love strong men who appear to be physically and emotionally and mentally fit. 

There are men whose worth are high not because of their money rather because of their commitment in loving their wives and living their lives purposes with their families. Real men understands everything relating to women and their secrets.

Sometimes, it is even men who lack the knowledge of not being able to know that they are with real women. These real women love men who are unstoppable in accomplishing their goals. 

If you want to try a real woman's power start pushing your live dreams and get her involved with it. Upon playing your smart game with her, still know that she's a woman with her own little strength and support.







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Sunday, March 8, 2026

UTURU LAND IS THE CENTRE OF KNOWLEDGE FOR TOMORROW BOTH IN ART WORKS AND EDUCATION















UTURU LAND IS THE CENTRE OF KNOWLEDGE FOR TOMORROW BOTH IN ART WORKS AND EDUCATION 



Truly, Uturu is the centre of knowledge for tomorrow both in art works and education because of its cool environment in accommodating many institutions in various forms and levels.

Come to think of it, many years ago more than 250,000 thousand years, when the white men invaded Uturu at its earlier stage as virgin lands. When the people are still in their timidity, still believes in their craftiness of their fathers and to make use of what they have in general as a common thing, like; rivers and forest revenues.

What do they have in common? Yes, Uturu have vast spaces of lands that can accommodate almost half billion parents and their children including their future investment and buildings just to say in minimum.

In the mean time, they started dashing it to the white men who came to them as helpers and teachers of knowledge of the universe and God. Because of how enlightened our parents are then, they accepted the white through donating their lands. That's how Western education penetrated Uturu land in the beginning of existence in good faith which liberated the children up to date.

I will not venture into the history or the origin on how Uturu land started to be important to the world at large, rather I would be talking about the development Uturians have made in education insofar as knowledge for tomorrow is concerned.

In the beginning of it all, education stopped in standard six. If you are trained up to standard six, you are there to go and be anything as in profession. Those who stopped in the standard six system of education as of then, are seen as our past heroes who tried their best in investing more energy in impacting to their children through adoptation of new educational system from the government of the white. 

In a nutshell, then and then, great Uturians cope very fast in learning and as well as very strong in manual laboring. The white men found out that Uturians are naturally gifted and decided to explore more in the land and lives of Uturu people and that mark the beginning of Marist journey up to today.

As time passes by, in struggle and insight, impactful Uturians who are spiritually alert started allowing more forms of education in its entirety through building of Nursery, Primary and Secondary schools for its children for enlightenment.

Uturu people develop fast in anything they set their eyes and mind to do. Few schools as earlier as before the war in Uturu were managed by Uturu people as head masters and head mistresses. That's how we have come to grow from then on.

To cut all history short, Uturu has two great universities now which are; Abia State University Uturu widely shortened as ABSU. While the second newly created or built is Gregory University Uturu widely known as GUU.

Nevertheless, there are more lecturers, professors, widely known writters, politicians, clergymen, great artists, world marketers, local and international engineers, all are trained in the institutions built in Uturu land for development and support of self growth.

I don't need to tell you the history of ABSU because the university has passed several challenges through cutists activities which are seriously tackled and defeated. The impact ABSU has left in the lives of many people all over the world are incomparable and with different imput in the development of this universe are coming from ABSU past students. My mother told me, to forget my struggles and focus on the gains. That's what ABSU is doing. Facing development in education and enlightenment inspite of the unforseen circumstances ahead of her.

GUU on its own has started where ABSU stopped. Currently, GUU is training much students from all over the world in different field of studies be it, doctors, engineers, agriculturists, pharmacists and many other unmentioned, all in the land of Uturu. Truly, Uturu is the center of knowledge for tomorrow both in art works and education.

What about the secondary schools in Uturu that scattered all over the communities and corners of the land? Not just secondary schools, they are filled with growing youths who are ready to learn from all field of human development and self discovery in all round. Most secondary schools in Uturu are filled up in populations with boys and girls, only one boarding school is for boys only which is Marist Brothers Juniorate as missionary school since 1962 up to date. 

Many other secondary schools in Uturu like; Marist Comprehensive Academy, Uturu; Holy Cross High School, Uturu; Achara Central School; Uturu Central School; Assumption Model and Technical Secondary SchoolDicksons Vocational College; International Secondary School; All Saint Methodist Secondary School; and other unmentioned schools in Uturu serving secondary purposes. Many of them are boys and girls while there are high hopes of having other boarding schools in Uturu.

In Uturu recently, there are few government schools with assorted private owned secondary schools all over the corners. Many of the secondary schools in Uturu are day schools while few are boarding schools.

Inspite of these schools in Uturu, many more Uturians travelled to other states to study and it is not made compulsory where one should attend his or her secondary school. All that matters to parents is getting the useful knowledge for tomorrow challenges and insight.

There are many others as well who do not go to school due to lack of money or a wrong decision made as a result of wrong self perception they stopped either half way or did not even start for the first time. It is a challenge to parents to train their children in the school system of education no matter the poverty level or background. Those who have more money make it a point to train all their children up to the university level.

It is a common adage in Uturu "that nobody knows the womb that carries a king".

It is true, there are assorted nursery,  primary and secondary schools in Uturu land today with different levels of school fees, uniforms, environment and styles of games e performances. It is not made compulsory to finish in one school one started with, even though as it suppose to be mandatory.

There are many who can start schooling but later in life dropped out as a result of not having enough money, connection or a helper in the community.

In Uturu land today, schools are managed like business centers or organizations to many people. Once you have what it takes to open either nursery, primary or secondary schools, who cares, you are free to start it as long as you gain approval by the government. And, why won't one get approval?

The government needs money to run its daily activities and seek help from individuals who can offer it in any forms. 

One big thing about some school management in Uturu is that, security personnels with different forms of guns are available within the choosen premises. Though, it is God who guard and protect His people always.






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