THE THREE MOST NEGLECTED THINGS THAT DISTRACT OUR YOUNGER ONES

 

THE THREE MOST NEGLECTED THINGS THAT DISTRACT OUR YOUNGER ONES 

In the world today, many unreasonable things are happening in the lives of the younger ones without the intervention of parents idealogy. 

The mind is a spiritual thing. When it is not directed and guided within the soul, what the eyes sees controls the mind if not carefully neglected and gives it shape to develop. Minds actually don't easily get attracted to things unwanted unless the ones repeatedly occuring in its presence. 

It is always like that, minds magnets like virus. It is contagious in nature. Many times, it is the negative vibes that magnet easily because of its repetitive ocucurances in the society today especially with the phones in our hands.

Though, positive vibes that motivate the soul is hardly seen in the environment or in most social gatherings except in the area of churches and few motivated seminars many refused to attend. Being aware is better than  being ignorance. 

Below are the most neglected things that distract our younger ones:

1. HOME EDUCATION 

Yes, the kind of knowledge shared at home by most parents and senior brothers. Home suppose to be the beginning of all good especially from parents and elderly ones 'if' they are good people full of positivity. Go to many homes today, parents are misinterpreting each other while senior colleagues are busy misdirecting those children that supposed to be learning from them.

Many things are destroying the education system worldwide especially the ones from home. What about the playing ground? The playing ground should be a place of learning new stories that touches the heart through its constructive happenings. 

When we were young, stories are told generally for future references.  Nowadays, stories are told from another angel of education. Children are taught how to make quick money and start learning from hand held phones without a second thought.

To stop this nonsense, every thing parents and senior brothers are doing in the face of the younger ones should be informative and educative even though they grow to learn the evils themselves.

2. SEX

This is another dangerous character that's destroying our younger ones unnoticed and uncontrolled. Many young girls have dedicated their efforts in teaching sightless boys the evil way of development. It is not easy with young girls as well because guys of wicked heart are there too to mislead.

Sex has occupied many minds destructively, taking the reasonable heart out of shape. Destiny are quenched because of the involvement in the act of sexual intercourse among the younger ones who are suppose to be the future hope of the nation. The unwanted pregnancy and the risk involving in the abortion process are all ways of loosing one's vision in life.

Almost everything youths are practicing today are learned behaviours from either explicit videos or from corruptive minds that dwell among the people of the universe.

To stop this sexual attitude, attentions and exposure of the risk involved in sexual intercourse among youths need to be handled seriously by matured minds of intelligent through constructive ideas of impact.

3. ALCOHOLISM 

This type of attitude has led the bright future guys to stupor and many more to poverty. Alcoholism has been in the blood of men from the beginning of the world. Even the bible did not condemned alcoholism. It is the abusive attitude of alcoholism that makes it seem to be bad.

Nevermind, young ones are seriously learning the evil ways of their parents without minding the effects on their brain. Fermented substances are done in many ways but mind you, you have a destiny and purpose of coming into this world.

Don't be distracted by the things of the world and forget yourself and your greater future ahead of you.

It is through alcoholism that many learn betting. Nothing is bad in this universe except the ones that distract you from your life purposes. What are the things?

Think twince in your doings and make sure you are following the nice friends even if it involves making new friends as brotherhood individuals do. Nevertheless, follow your bliss. Don't be deceived. 

FIVE SIMPLE ACTIONS THAT TRIGGERS A WOMAN'S LOVE INTERNALLY NOT EVEN MARRIAGE

 

FIVE SIMPLE ACTIONS THAT TRIGGERS A WOMAN'S LOVE INTERNALLY NOT EVEN MARRIAGE

Women generally are soft hearted beings who can be easily moved or pushed about to do a particular thing by men or their children. It is not weak point as many have attributed it to be, rather it is a kind of Gene that runs in women's blood from the Creator of the Universe.

Internal love is equivalent to unconditional love. If women are moved easily, it means they are connected to conditions that affects men and their children deeply as God do. Some people even take God for granted because of His forgiven heart towards sinners.

You knowing these five simple actions that touched women's hearts greatly does not guarantee abuse in anyway, be warned for too much use of anything weakens the power.

Here are the five simple actions that triggers women's love internally:

1. SOFT WORDS

Women in their natural state of being are soft and easy going. It is the love of a man through his words that make a woman's love to over flow from within her bossom like a river and in harmony to her growth around happiness causing her to love with all her heart without evil thought.

Harsh and hard words never perform any wonders in women's hearts rather it get ticker and stronger in hatred and jealousy. If the man continues to use the other side of his voice on a woman, her love tends to shrink back causing her pains and sorrow which can easily affect a man's creativity and success in many ways.

2. UNEXPECTED GIFTS

This one is heart stolen. When a man shows unexpected concern through gifts, birthday wishes card and money, women dear not to reject such attempt. This action alone make women to fall in love more deeply no matter the kind of man it is.

Women don't know whether a man is ugly, fine, rich or poor, what they care most is caring and heart touching man. Women like gifts and love the giver of the gifts. 

You need to know that gifts triggers women's love. And so does it to any human being on Earth. The Bible says that; "the gifts of a man maketh a way for him". Learn how to give precious gift no matter how little.

3. DEFENDING HER

Another point most women won't like to tell a man is their protections. They allow it as a test. Women will test a man to know how truly a man cares. Safety is their first priority.  

When you defend a woman in public even when she's wrong, her love developed more for you. Publicly defend a woman, her love runs up for you. Don't kill yourself for a woman before you agree you love her. Always play it safe.

4. FEEDING HER

Showing a woman caring through provision of food triggers her love. Women don't play with the man who feeds them, provide for her anytime any day. They knew that you should not bite the hands that feed you. When you feed a woman, she would give all her respect to you always.

5. EDUCATING HER

When you educate a woman, it makes her to fall in love without a second thought. Women like to be exposed, they like to know everything from scratch. If you can provide that education for her, she's there for you. Good women like and respect their teachers and those who tends to correct them when they are wrong easily.

To be a woman is not easy. There are many unmentioned challenges women pass through in their lives. Only men who could be able to fulfill and meet up with their challenges can they trust fully with their hearts of 💓 heart without being judgemental. Thank you for your understanding. You are great and precious.

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HOW SOCIAL MEDIA HAS INFLUENCED PEOPLE'S PERCEPTIVE AROUND THE WORLD BOTH MALE AND FEMALE.

 

HOW SOCIAL MEDIA HAS INFLUENCED  PEOPLE'S PERCEPTIVE AROUND THE WORLD BOTH MALE AND FEMALE.

The word social media explains itself. If anything is social, it means versatile and around the world. It involves expansion. The media is a way of communicating to the world. Therefore, social media is an online gathering of people both positive and negative personalities. Because it is worldwide, it involves relevant and irrelevant communications from dual mentality of good and bad people.  It is a way of combining the literate with the illiterate using application platforms such as; Facebook, Instagram, Tiktok and other unmentioned applications.

This social media technology invention has truly created a new set of world in existence. It is an influencial power that only the strong in heart, mind, and the insightful in nature can withstand. In this era, if the wise is not carefully constructed from within, foolishness will swallow him from side ways unnoticed.

Now let's see the good impact of social media influences around the world.

Here are the four impacts people have gained from social knowledge since its invention in details:

1. NEWS UPDATE

Social media truly has served a crucial part in reaching out news to people who are far away. It has served a very big purpose in information discimination around the globe. Without social media invention, the world by now would have been a very difficult place to stay. It has contributed alot even in politics, education sector, commerce and religious institution in awareness creation from far continent. If not social media, news wouldn't have been easy to spread out. But, due to the involvement of social media applications and platforms in different dimensions information communication has been a first hand awareness in view. 

2. RESEARCH PURPOSES

The introduction of social media as a way of  communication into the world has brought new history to its exposure. It has served students from all level including other scholars for easy retrieval of facts beyond human expectation.

It has brought hidden facts out of their sealed packs. Researchers easily connect to underneath the world in bringing updated news to the world. There are influences around the world today due to the availability of technical machines that can study the past and the present of human characters. 

3. BUSINESS EXPOSURE/ADVERTISEMENT

For business experts around the world, social media has make it fast and reliable both in delivery of goods and other services within expected desired date. Without social media involvement in business and politics today, so many businesses would have been death by now and by so doing, it would affect individuals, companies and countries leading to hunger and frustration among continents. War too, would have been rampant because of land conflicts.

4. HUMANITY ADVANCEMENT

In a nutshell, social media has helped the world in fast development of human minds. Many people around the globe have noticed that they can use their craft, gifts or talents from God to create tools, machines or even robots that can perform human works perfectly and even to make money without travelling far. This shows that, we human can co-create with God the originator of all things and be like Him but not him. Social media has brought a new system of operations in the mind of the people today and tomorrow.

Now let's see the bad part of social media influences around the world:

1. BRAIN DISABILITY

This is one of the destructive effect of social media influences to our youths, brain damage, misconception of many things. It doesn't not give room to experience the future without doubt due to the availability of wrong information here and there. Mostly, human abilities are now sometimes equate to that of machines causing devalue of mind power.

2. DISTRACTION FROM UNKNOWN SOURCES

This includes sad stories, fake news we heard and read from platforms displays from different friends who may be staying in different part of the world. The feeling one felt, the bloody pictures, posts and write ups that distract attentions. All the bad news that social media channeled to our head can drastically change ones focus, mislead and  misdirect in a particular business or personal development. Sightless beings hardly recover from this misconception of robotic world creation.

3. SUDDEN CHANGE OF DESTINY

Because of friends influences on most platforms and associates, destiny can be changed from better to worst. A true talents can be humiliated by a friend who may be a worker of the devil. It is on social platforms that good people learn how to be bad. Good personality can be mentored to be bad in order to have a flash car or live on frivolous life style.

 

4. IT WASTE TIME, ENERGY AND MONEY

Social media specializes in wasting people's time, energy and money without mercy of giving it back to them. Money and time can be wasted. People are addicted as if they were charmed by unnoticeable force they can not control. These are inflences of social media to the world that only few can benefit from it. 

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FOUR UTURIANS FOODS THAT MAKE THEM STRONG IN EVERYTHING

 

FOUR UTURIANS FOODS THAT MAKE THEM STRONG IN EVERYTHING

In Uturu land today, food is also a major challenge for the people. Nevertheless, from the beginning of their origin they are created strong or rather I would say, they inherited strength from their forefathers.

Uturians today believed that the type of food one eat contributed alot to the kind of strength he or she has. If you must work hard for survival, make sure you are eating strong foods that can last in the body because strength of the body is also strength of the mind.

Below are the four special and  powerful foods Uturu people don't play with:

1. FUFU (AKPU) 

Uturu people like fufu so much. Why like fufu? Because it is a strong food that last longer than any other food during performing hard works either farm work or building work. Such hard works include; mixing of concrete, clearing bushes for cultivation, tilling of hips and other unmentioned hard works.

Fufu is gotten from cassava roots and one needs to pill it, washed it and put it into big bucket or butter for it preparation of decaying. After four to five days, it becomes ready for eating once cooked. Fufu is a carbohydrated food which is the main energy food that produces glucose in abundance.

To cook fufu as food, the preparation depends on individual method. It has many methods. Fufu can get damaged but there are also a way of preserving it from decaying.

In the time of making choices, out of hundred, nitty eight percent would choose fufu out of gari its substitute. This is not all about fufu. Fufu is relevant to several people in the world today. It can be preserved if cooked for weeks if not months. If eaten with nice soup, you can be as strong as stone with a smooth nourishing body.

2. YAM (JI)

Yam is another strong food in Uturu land today and tomorrow. Yam due to its relevant is being celebrated as Uturu New Yam festival every year as a big ceremony around August to September down to October. As history tells, Uturians don't use to eat yam until they tested it with faithful indigens who lived at Onuzo community.

Yam can be prepared with beans and in many other methods as food. You can prepare yam as in; roosting, boiling, pounding it to form fufu kind of food and preparing it as pourage yam. It has its associate such as water yam, Coco yam, and Unna as in my native language but non can be compared as yam itself.

Yam is as important as fufu in the body system and the cultivation start around February till  May. People also plant yam around June and July as late planting. If you plant late, you don't expect big harvest and your harvest would be late as well.

Almost all tribes in Nigeria are cultivating yam in large quantities though the quantities depends on capital and strength investment. Much capital investment, more harvest. Yam can be preserved up to a year without decaying. Though alots of it in the yam bane may decay without signs.

3. PLANTAIN (UKAM)

Plantain is also a strong food in Uturu. But it's a kind of food that one must mixed it with another type of food before it can become a strong food. The combination of plantain and beans as in pourage, the roosting combination with yam and other vegetable ingredience for nutrition or by boiling plantain with red oil, and it can be fried like yam and be eaten with pap or fried plantain with jellyoff rice.

So, plantain is a strong food for Uturu people. Though, you can't compare it with fufu or yam. Many people would choose fufu or yam out of plantain if presented as a choice food.

It has been said that plantain has more nutrients but I think it depends mostly on the ingredients one used in preparing it. Plantain can be eaten either when ripped or unripped and be enjoyed.

4. BREADFRUIT (UKWA)

Ukwa is usually inherited as a planted tree from forefathers. Unlike other types of food I have mentioned above, they are all planted with season and time but, ukwa has been there as an inherited food. And it is very sweet if prepared very well.

To tell you how important is ukwa, it is only in big men occasions can one see prepared ukwa served. Few individuals don't like it because they have not inherited it and know not about the food. While many more are falling in love with its taste.

Ukwa is very scarce to get because of its value in the chain of Uturu food distribution. There's no season it cannot bear seed. This ukwa normally grow as huge trees and can last on the soil more than four hundred years without dying. It can only be cut down when a higher need arises. You can fry it and eat it with coconut. 

Sometimes, the choices of food depends solely on the individual. But as for me, I prefer the food I have listed above to be my best selected foods in Uturu because they make me strong any time I eat any one of them.

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HOW TALENTED PEOPLE FEEL WHEN NOT KNOWN IN MUSIC WORLD INTERVIEW

HOW TALENTED PEOPLE FEEL WHEN NOT KNOWN IN MUSIC WORLD INTERVIEW

Unnoticed artiste interviewed locally at the backyard of great stars building 2018. I have brought out precious time to intervene on the private success of this unnoticed artiste named Eweke Christian Nkemakolam (stage named - Kotex, Street Lover boy and Nwa Abia) from Nigeria down east side near Abia State Uturu.

When I was interviewing him, he tried his best not to deny his personality rather he shows how trustworthy he has in himself and trust in God Almighty. 

Here is the interview carefully arranged for upcoming young artistesade by Batholomew Obienyi and Eweke Christian the unknown artiste: Here it comes..

Chinedu 

Why do you go into music the first time? Is it for the money, the fame, popularity, or helping the poor or just that you think you have a message to pass across the world?

Christian

Music is in our linage from my forefathers. It has been long in our blood. Then, I have a message to pass across to the world.

Chinedu

What type of message?

Christian

To inspire the poor who thought there's no other hope. There's hope for everybody because God bless everyone. My songs are inspiring by nature and I love it.

Chinedu

What do you do if others try to follow your songs pattern?

Christian

I changed it. But I will not change my intro and what I use as my logo like; I normally use - sail on and the street lover boy. It because anywhere either featuring others, if you hear it you will recognize the voice. That a secret some of the upcoming artistes do not know.

Chinedu

What are the problems you encounter and why didn't you quit?

Christian

Lots of problems. I don't know which one to talk about. Is it money to produce, family setbacks, lost of love ones and others. It's many. I remained in music because am ready to work with God who encourages me spiritually.

Chinedu

How did you believe in God?

Christian

Ha! My brother, if no be God I don't know where I for dey. Because I don't even understand what is going on in my life in the time of troubles but God who knows everything saved me and shows me the way of his enternal blessings. I don't bear grudges in mind and not been envious in other people's success because I knew it is their blessings as I have mine too.

Chinedu

But, who has really helped you out in your songs so far?

Christian

If I am to say, it is my producers. Because many atimes they are the ones who gave me much inspirations to voice and revoice without giving up on me till I make a meaningful song(s) that only bears my name. Producers are the main source of my power because without them directing me - I don't know where I for dey.

Chinedu

What could be your advice to other upcoming artistes?

Christian

They should remove enviness and jealousy and do their own thing their way.

Chinedu

Can you teach someone how to sing even if when singing is not his talent?

Christian

I can teach anybody and he becomes successful. One thing you should know is, not everybody that sings is a musician and not everybody that isn't a singer is truly not a singer. Some singers sing while some other talented self made singers don't sing. The reason is that, not everybody is called up to shine. Shining is the work of God. Because of that, even if you are not a singer I can teach you how to sing and you become perfect. But know that most songs learners stop singing after releasing either blown songs or not sellable because they are not called up singers from the beginning of their creation except by persistency of their own hearts.

Chinedu

What could stop one from becoming a singer after learning it?

Christian

Shame and unnecessary styles of stage performances and imitating others. Another one is not been concentrated on a particular type of songs or lack of self trust and or dry pocket.

Chinedu

Wow. But as the thing be now, what is your fear in the music world?

Christian

My fear? Hmmm. Well, atimes its talking about myself in crowd. I prefer singing and jarating on stage than talking only. But am working towards it's eradication.

Chinedu

How is people close to you view your life as a musician especially as a street lover boy singer? Any idea?

Christian

Yes. Always. I have little idea. Not even my close people also the publics. I noticed those who don't value me through their gossips, tricks, blind communications and unmotivated eye looks on me. Though, I don't actually know because many that I don't expect to hurt me - do hurt me while many I thought hate me sometimes show me love. So, it's by His grace I live life.

Chinedu

Well, in everything I believe you are going to help people as so many prophecy has revealed your abundances to be too numerous.

Christian

Yeah man. By God grace. You know, with God all things are possible.

Chinedu

What type of songs or music do you play?

Christian

Na wao. Hmmmmm. I love to call it hip-up-reggae or hipregg but it seems so many people don't understand it. It's a kind of combination of hip up songs and reggae and I believe they are good to those who listen to my songs everyday. That why I never give up in playing it to the world.

Chinedu

Thank you for your time.

Christian

You are welcomed.

This the end of the local interview. But it's a revelation to upcoming artistes who fear the music world because of selling of souls to the unknown claimed good people of the universe. To live is to reign I would always remind myself. It is a remarkable adage for heroes that, stars only shines in the darkness. Yes, you must pass through hard processes for an upliftment to follow.

 

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TEN UNBELIEVABLE REASONS ROAD ACCIDENT OCCUR MOSTLY IN RURAL AREAS

 

TEN UNBELIEVABLE REASONS ROAD ACCIDENT OCCUR MOSTLY IN RURAL AREAS

There are many unnoticed reasons road accident occurs mostly in villages and developed towns. Some people relate road accident as signs of rituals by evil men or bloody suckers of the dark world or spirits that enters or operate through human being knowingly or unknownly.

Others believes that road accident can be caused by the recklessness of some rough drivers who might be under an influence. Still, when we don't know the root of a thing we don't need to tell stories that affect even the unseen world. Laying blames where there's no blame can be misleading.

Down here are the ten unbelievable reasons most road accident occurs without mercy.

Here they are in details:

1. OVER SPEED

Too much speed can cause a fatal road accident. What could cause over speeding? It could be as a result to meet up for something or just the enjoyment of over taking other vehicles without a second thought of what might happen after.

To control or prevent it, young drivers at heart should think of how precious life is, so that it could not be easily lost.

2. BREAK FAILURE OR ABSOLUTELY NO LIGHT IN THE CAR

This too can be a reason road accident occur by sudden. What could cause break failure? Well, it could be shortage of highdronic oil around some places that needed it and greasing not enough. It could also be lack of vehicle maintenances when necessary. Light is another factor that can contribute in road accident.

To stop this, properly check up on the break, light and see if they should be maintained by drivers without giving flemsy excuses.

3. BEING IN THE INFLUENCE OF DRUGS OR ACHOHOLISM

Some drivers don't know their gage and because of that, they even think that being in the influence would help them drive well. But this is not true. Some even take it as pleasure to be under the influence of drugs while driving. It is not acceptable to be drunk and be on the steering because of the way innocent people who know nothing are dying out of carelessness of drunked drivers.

To stop this, drivers should always drive with passion and caution without been under the influence of too much intake of toxic liquor into the body.

4. STRESS OF THE BODY AND MIND

It is true that people over stress themselves in order to meet up with demands of their services. Due to too much stress of the body and mind at the hours of work, tasks not finished, bosses sending errands and all that's reasons many lives have been wasted.

It is advised dear, when the body and mind are weak, please rest. You can take the horse to the stream but you can't force it to drink water. Likewise, you can manage to take your body to the seat but you can't handle your mind. What is mind if not under the control of a concious man?

5. DARK SUPPER NATURAL MANIPULATIONS

Many drivers have claimed after an accident that it is a super natural manipulation on their steering. They blame God for allowing it happen on them. 

Drivers should know that their beliefs can affect their entire lives, so be intelligent both physically and spiritually to avoid costly road accident. Your inner world controls your out world. Be warned reckless drivers.

6. PHONE CALLS WHILE HANDS ARE ON THE STEERING

This particular one has damaged innocent souls who are drivers. There are drivers who have doudged all other road signs and instructions of things that can cause road accident but have fallen victim to this one - phone calls while driving.

To prevent it, avoid answering calls even if you are looking for directions while driving. Pack to a place and finish your calls for your safety and others too.

7. ROMANTIC INFLUENCE

Careless drivers do romance girls in their car while driving. They take it to be a chance to touch a lady romantically knowing fully well that some girls would close their mouth just to reach to their destination. 

Such idea is not ethical in a developed country. Save your life and help others for a true service of humanity.

8. WICKEDNESS OF THE HEART

There are some drivers who are naturally wicked and arrogant. They rather allow an accident than to give way for over taking.

Wickedness can not make one get what he wants fast nor improves on the peace of mind, please avoid arrogancy and love one another.

9. UNABLE TO CONTROL TIME

Time has been another serious factor road fatal accident happens. Due to rush and hurry to meet up with a sheduelled appointment many have fallen victim. There have been people who are in a hurry to meet up with flight ticket and finally did not meet up due to unprepared time concious. 

Stop been in a hurry to go to a place either with your car or legs. Always prepare in the mind before setting up the moves.

10. BAD ROAD

The last but not the least is bad road.  Bad road has contributed much of the accident in the process of traveling long distances. Another point is errossion, gallops and unnoticed damaged bridges on the way. But in all, road accident occurs when it is not expected.

It happens mostly to drivers who are under influence, wickedness of heart, romantic engagement, phone calling while driving, stress of the body or mind, break failure, tire damage, time run out and sometimes from  super naturally dark manipulations.

Road accident no matter what the cause may be, can be prevented through carefulness of the drivers, thoroughly checking car up before taking off and avoiding all other road  signs not observed. Prayer can still stop unwanted and unprepared accident. As the Bible told us to pray without season. Road accident is one of the biggest reason why we should pray without season because of our dear precious gift of life.

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HOW I HAVE COME TO KNOW THE SECRET by Rhonda Bryne

 

HOW I HAVE COME TO KNOW THE SECRET by Rhonda Bryne

The secret is working! The secret is the law of attraction. The law says; whatever you think about and talk about you will bring into your experience. Likes attract likes.

The story you are about to read now is an experiment I have done the moment I realized there was a secret on how to live the lifestyle you want on the face of the universe. The other phase looks like saying; earth has a principle to live in it.

I started browsing about the secret around 2012 with my small Nokia phone having no idea that there was a book called the secret. I just dive in with my mind, pressing the buttons until the word - the secret came to my mind and I decided to try it. Today, I'm telling a story about the secret knowledge I discovered myself. Read my experience.

I understood that my thoughts are very important when it comes to worldly and spiritual achievement.

I have a friend who is a copper member from Yoroba land. I have told Abel about the secret movie even as I have not watched it. I told him to download it for me that I would pay him. 

Sometimes, our lack of knowledge can greatly limit us.

I know the law of attraction to be; likes attract likes and focusing on what one really want.

The first amazing thing that happened in my life as a result of reading the secret online is my laptop. I was a village public call boy around 2009. I have only but small phones, table and cards for selling. I needed laptop to expand my business and increase in the services I rendered to the public because they needed it. 

As God may have it,  I have another friend Chukwuemeka popularly known as Niger in the village who travelled to abroad few years after knowing him. He suddenly came back from Canada and sold me a fresh fairly used laptop at a lower price. I would say, he nearly dashed me the laptop. Because of the laptop, I struggled and  bought a new office printer named 'three in one coloured printer' I got them because I have thought it and visualized them. I wished to grow, to offer more services. 

One thing am doing that I don't know it counts is gratitude. I was very grateful to any single thing that happens to me and for me. When one buy's from me I would say; thank you. When I exchanged anything from anyone I wouldn't fell to say; thank you. I was full of gratitude without knowing that gratitude is one of the secret Rhonda Bryne taught about. Because when you are grateful to what you have and have gained more good things will happen to you.

Remember, I have read the secret online though not all the pages and I have keep practicing it even as I have no idea of the power I was summoning when I thought and visualize in my thoughts. I was expanding in my thoughts so are the thoughts happening in my life as a daily experiences.

On 14th of December 2014, I went to a seminar at Owerre conference hall hosted by Jeffter Akaehie a motivational speaker and writter. I have no idea of their raffle tickets selling. I just reluctantly stood up from my feet and asked someone what's happening outside the hall. He told me, it's a try your luck ticket game. I decided to participate. I don't even know what I can get from it. I just went to buy an mtn simcard of #400 to enroll. I bought it because I even needed more simcards in my business despite that I have little money left with me. I was even arguing with them to remove small money for me. The only action I took  without knowing the effect is , I was so grateful and laughing and playing with the MTN sellers as I bargain.

Atlast, I went back to my seat. Within some hours of motivations by the speakers, it came as a rumour that the mtn sponsors of the Rise Network want to go. So, they have to offer what they have for the raffle tickets collection. And the moment matched with refreshment time.  The shaking of raffle bucket has started as many phone numbers were rapped in small pieces. As I got my own snarce, I ate it fast before everyone as if I knew something is about to happen. I was happy inside that's what I could noticed within me. What's my happiness, I don't know. All I knew was, something amazing wants to happen.

As the basket was shakes many times, someone needs to pick and whosoever she picks become the winner. So the unknown person picks a rapped number and opened it, hmm, guess what; it's my phone number. 

Many was looking around to see the poor me as I jumped up of my seat. At first, I don't know what they have for the winner. Besides, it was my first experience as a winner in public. I came out to shake the very rich man of MTN Nigeria representative as a new sealed 2000 modern window laptop was handed over to me. I was amazed.

I was celebrated like a celebrity as many people came out to shake hands with me. When they asked me to express my feelings, I wanted to share how it has happened but I was afraid. So I just thanked God and the sponsors of the program.

So, by this time in my life I was becoming more aware of my thoughts. I kept imagining, could this be a sign of the secret that I have used without knowing it? Many people at the event said somethings to my hearing that I used juju to get it. But they were wrong. I used what I know to get it. I knew the secret to be 'the law of attraction'. 

Now that I have gotten a new laptop, I know my desires has not finished. I took another step on how to get the books named; 'The Secret' and 'the power' written by one author Rhonda Bryne from Australia.

As I went home, I downloaded the secret in audio because it was offered for free. I tried to get the movie itself and found out that it need some dollars in your account. I downloaded the book and its related.

In 2015, I started looking for the secret book from book sellers in different parts of the States in Nigeria though it was only in Eastern region both the book and the movie.  It was not easy as I focused more of my energy in getting them because I knew it, I will get them one day.

One day, it came out that I would attend another seminar hosted by Emeke Nobis the author of  ' The Profound Life' at Enugu. The venue tends to be in book shop. I gat to know some people and know the book seller too.

As we relaxed and make some connections, I asked the seller about the book and the movie. Actually he did not have them but promised to get them for me, so we exchange contacts. It is then after other hustlings I gotthe secret and the power books. He could not get the secret movie for me. I thanked him for the ones he helped me reached my hands.

So, I keep on searching for the movie. Remember, I was focusing and talking about it to people I felt could help get it. 

On November 2015, I requested the movie from a close friend named Abel in form of asking him to get it for me using his phone after I have told him much of the secret I have learned. I encouraged him to read the books, watch the movie and learn from them.

On 15th of March, 2016, Abel came to my shop earlier in the morning while I was listening from the secret audio with my laptop. He can hear it because I left the speaker high open. He said; hmm, you and 'the secret'. My reply to him; I think I told you to download it for me that I would pay for the cost. Only that time he told me that he has it in his phone. And said, he got it since that November I asked him to download it. I was happy and eager to demand it quickly from him. He happily sent it to my laptop. That's how I got "the secret movie" I have been looking for years

Finally, I got what I was thinking and talking about most of the time. I believe that this movie would change my life in a great way because I'm already gaining from the knowledge.

" I agree within me that for many of my thoughts to manifest, it requires patience and sure it would come" - Batholomew Obienyi.

That's how I have gotten the books am still enjoying reading up to date. Thank you once more Rhonda Bryne for such a great gifts to humanity. Never will I play with your words. Ndewo in my own dialect. Thank you.

 

  

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DEADLY VISIT OF AN OWL IN MY INNER ROOM WITH WIFE ON BED

DEADLY VISIT OF AN OWL IN MY INNER ROOM WITH WIFE ON BED

Yes. I want to write an experience with an 🦉 that flew into our room at almost midnight at exactly 11.46pm and we struggled with it till 1.35am. Everybody knew an owl to be very much connected to evil, evil happenings either in one's life or a sign of bad omen in the near by future. This too, can be reversed, it could be a sign of prosperity or wisdom manifest or wealth on the way.

Let's start. I would say, though we left our two doors open. And it was a night of work and stress with my wife that led to our lateness to bed that day. But we are in our house, if we like we stay awake till morning. Our doors are open is not a good reason a bird many considered to be evil and crafty would find its way into our inner room. Now we are four in the inner room. Two have slept off to the other side of the world if not worlds while the parents are still laying in the bed discussing issues and how to bring more love and money into the family. Just then, what we don't know rushed inside and I felt something on my legs and jumped up as my wife keeps shouting blood of Jesus, blood of Jesus and continued to shout it till I do the fighting with the unknown. 

I have used many weapons on it until I catched it near our television stand tighten conner where it could not react to my beatings. I finally brought a cage we are using for catching bush rats. I used knife and strangled it inside the cage and locked it there. It was only then we know it's an 🦉 after several looks. We kept it one side around the house. We have flashes it touch and closely observed it and its fearful and strong may looking at it. 

The owl has long ears, flat head, curved mouth, big red mixed with yellow eyes, white and black rotating eyes with a coated white eye brows and white long wings that colors white all over. As we went to our bed, we wondered what the mission of this 🐦 could be. 

In the morning, out of fear or curiosity of what this bird could be, we let few people to know about it. We now face the confusion either to kill it, sell it or allow it freedom. What will you do if it's in your hands to decide? We wondered on the spiritual aspect of it visit and what people would say if we sell or give it back to life. Or could it be for a hidden message we need to find out or naturally it missed its way? Many people have heard it and have given us many interpretations of what it could mean. Many said; it's evil, destroy it. Pastor Chibuike who visited us on Sunday for three days prayers and fasting we have concluded with him shouted...Chinekemee! He advised us to let it go on fasting for two weeks and warn us not to kill it. 

My children have been calling it, our owl, personalizing it (daddy...ikgwkweanyi). And keep playing with it and seeing it innocently. 

After two days, many other people came to see it. I can't even imagine the number that came but they are many. Someone working as a colleague at my working place priced it five thousand naira as I keep considering what next to do with it. 

The 🦉 in the cage may be going series of thought challenges. Praying to its god not to allow it die. It faith is best known to it or may be unknown. 

The owl in the cage remains very silent, squatting with its two legs looking forward and around to its visitors. When I want to go out at night, I took water and sprinkled it on the head to all over the body and it leaks it. I wondered what the food could be but, I did not remember to browse it.

I wanted to preserve it alive. I don't want it to die. When I told my wife that I want to spay the 🦉, she shouted no in a serious way. I left home to my working place. I started browsing the internet for an answer. 

I hook up with Google, Google does alot of work in explaining flying owl inside ones room. See Google interpretations: Some say; it's evil, witch and connected to death or bad omen that cannot be figured out. Another say; it is a bird of wisdom, knowledge, insight and vision, expectation of something good and a sign of a huge prosperity and spiritual awakening. The big question is, what is the owl visitation all about? Earlier in the morning on Tuesday, I have pourd out water with kindness. Around 10.39am, a friend of my wife visited us and after some time, we took her to the 🦉 in the cage. She saw it and became very angry and wanted to kill it by all means. 

As she saw the eyes, she calls it all kinds of names such as; witch, devil, bitch and uses stick angrily on its eyes. I tried my best to stop her but my wife got me misunderstood because I was on the process of finding out the real mission of this white owl in our house that hour of the night. 

The owl on it own was trying to defend itself, making some angry noise, rejecting the stick point and looking for a way out of the cage.

Truly, few people told us to free it but, many other people advised us to deal with it. The painful part of the 🦉 was, after one week in the cage without food only but water gotten by struggle it gave up. I feel the pain inside. I have not wished for its death.

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MY FLYING DREAM EXPERIENCE MOSTLY ALL NIGHT

MY FLYING DREAM EXPERIENCE MOSTLY ALL NIGHT

If you must enjoy this dream story, simply read to the end.

I want to share with you the experience I heard in my night. Many people think that flying in dreams is witchcrafting. 

But the big question is;

who is the witch now, is it the dreamer or the dream itself?

What you are about to read now is a personal view of a live dream written by a free thinker like me.

I like reading in meaning to my dreams even as though, many of my dreams never come to pass. While some other dreams, manifest either in the present, past or the future because I have known it, I don't play with dreams any more.

It is true, God uses dreams to reveal His intentions of you - the dreamer. Many people  think that they don't dream dreams. But how can a living soul not dream dreams? I doubted it!

I think people who reason they dream not should think again. Stress can make you not to remember your dreams for years, but once you pay attention to your inner self, that revelation of the spirit self would start to show up. 

Now read down to see what meaning I have attached to this my flying dream experience.

I was 35 years when I dreamed this dream. Though it wasn't my first time of flying in my dream. This particular one make me to wonder within myself. 

When I remembered the way I felt imediately after I woke up, I told myself I must share it to my readers.

Flying in dreams appeared in many forms or parttern. You can fly with hands, seeing yourself over flowing up the sky, developing wings and using it fly. 

I have asked different people the meaning of flying in dreams what it means. Here what they say; 

Some said: "flying in dreams are demonic, others said: "flying in dreams is witch crafting, while some other people said: "it's not a good dream but it depends on what form appears the wings".

Let me tell you, flying in dreams is a spiritual power to over take others in life endeavour or in wisdom exhibition. Reflect deep meaning anytime you see yourself flying in your dreams. 

If you don't know the essence of a thing, you may call it evil. The essence of dreams many have forgotten and played with and it has been a very big source of humanity sorrows and destructions.

Your dreams are God's messages in your entire life. Remember even the gods are fond of plays. They too, dreams.

I dreamed this dream thus;

"I saw myself some where in our place. I noticed a sudden shock and my body changed. My conciousness exclaimed and I hunger far. 

At that point I wanted to fly. So, as I raised my hands as if I wanted to fly, I noticed that two wings flipped up from my shoulder top joint. And I became aware that the wings are good to fly. 

So I tried it. I tried the first time and fly but couldn't fly higher. I told myself to fly again which I did. This one, I fly more successful than before am down. 

As I was flying, I wanted to see what beyond my view point, I wanted to fly across my country because you have set to fly again to see other side of the universe. I wanted to see above the sky. I wanted to fly very faraway to know what was there. I imagined within me.

That how my spirit wished to do with the wings I have developed in my dream life. So, the moment I wanted to fly the final flying to the new areas of the world, to see the whole of the universe, I woke up".

Ahrrr! I exclaimed within me. This a dream?

As I woke up, I first enjoyed it as if it was real. Felt the deep connection that I have wings. Am an Angel I told myself.

Why could I not go the highway of sky rocketing like a rocket bird?

I was wondering alot of dimensions on the spiritual impact of this dream in my life. Well, if you are sure about the meaning it's either good or bad. I knew this dream to be a revelation of my greatness in my world.

I decided to check on Google dreams interpretation about flying in dreams. Here what I found out; "it's pretty good dream. To fly in your dream is good. Flying with wings in your bare dream denote; upliftment, high intelligent, more than others, high reasoning, and making use of your natural talent to praise God".

Google has answered my own meaning. If you happen to see yourself flying down ward you only would search for the meaning.

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8 simple important secrets almost every secondary and university students need to know

8 simple important secrets almost every secondary and university students need to know

There are simple knowledge and awareness that students in boarding school needs to be more aware off, because of its high rate in slowing or reducing students down mentally and it hidden influences have causes on the students minds especially those in boarding school. Though, some day students who with environmental challenges in everyday life faces the same setbacks in their studies. Even though University students are not left out.  

Here are the 8 simple important secrets almost every secondary and university students need to know:

1. GOSSIPS, STORIES AND TALES

Listening to gossips, formed stories, false tales and other video clips that corrupt the mind can greatly endanger students learning in the university/boarding school environments. Many students have friends in schools who are story tellers and fake history makers. Most stories told, are not healthy to the minds of the little children only but to occupy their learning abilities.

Stories and eye contacts took most of the students time, and distracts them throughout the night, even in some cases these tales by older students dorminate many parts of the brain and you know that the brain works like a memory card. Many at times it's hard to delete something bad in the brain file.

A free memory card can record and store up information both relevant and irrelevant for a very long time. What you put to your memory whether good or bad would come to stay and remember, it occupies space. 

If as a student you failed to monitor what comes into the memory, it magnet more unmotivated stories which set most children back in their academics endeavour in life. Start in time in controlling what comes inside your brain as a student that's the only way out of this coalition that faces the world.

2. INNER ENVIRONMENTAL GAMES

Boarding school students are exposed rapidly in learning the negatives especially if mixed with girls or boys. Hostel bullying, seniority respect and all other social vices learned at home are poured out to the innocent students while in hostel playing ground. 

There are also few students who learn wisely and have their lives changed drastically only by disassciating themselves from the lazy ones, that will be the only time they would attain to great height in such a colide schooling environment.

 

3. CORRUPTED MINDS FROM HOMES

There are people whose homes are morally damaged. Some parents do allow their children to watch and read corrupted movies, books and listen to songs that explicited taking it as freedom to enjoy their parents sweat. 

Children should not be exposed to corrupted things from homes, let them learn it from outside home and when they display it at homes, then parents should shape it with wisdom and understand. 

4. ASSOCIATING WITH WRONG CLASSMATES

When clever students argue with the unethical students, set backs in learning increased. Students should associate with their fellow students who wants to improve in their education and be ready to learn a new skill with  insightful minds through his/her classmates. Go to educative gathering and make some input. This too will change your life because it is through true faith that one get his desires.

5. LACK OF INSIGHTFUL TEACHERS

Some other students don't improve due to teachers inability to apply skillful teachings. Teachers should be creative and flexible in using many tactics in building and training of students both  day students and those in boarding schools.

 

6. OUTSIDE MUSIC SOUNDS

Many students have quick learning abilities that records songs and videos like memory cards. Learning how to handle what goes to the ear and what the eyes sees is a very big strategy in developing  yourself and helping your parents and school management as a sharp student because your growth is beneficial to the whole world.

7. INDECISION OF CAREER CHOICE

Some boarding school students have made wrong decisions on career choices due to improper friends and advices while in school. Students should be able to make wise choices on areas relating to their natural abilities, callings or talents from God which is from within. 

Not listening or following their parents directions because the decision  would be long term and may be difficult to change both in spirit or on the face of the physique in time to come.

8. HUNGER, BULLYING AND MALTREATMENT BY OTHERS

Hunger, bullying and maltreatment can stop a willing , ready to learn students, School management, wicked teachers in class, inability of parents to provide learning materials for the child or a total distraction or weakness from other students. 

Every student has the ability to change and reach out for greatness. It is the decision from within to be a unique person that gave many successful individuals the moral to fly higher like an eagle in the face of the universe. Make that decision today and be great forever.

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