FOUR SECRET MESSAGES MANY WIVES USED ON THEIR HUSBANDS TO TIE THEM DOWN TO THEIR WHIM

FOUR SECRET MESSAGES MANY WIVES USED  ON THEIR HUSBANDS TO TIE THEM DOWN TO THEIR WHIM

Many wives today do not know these simple and powerful four secret messages they can use in holding men's love to them. They have forgotten their power of words on men. Because of that, lots of women are having issues with their beloved ones. Women have love and voice influences on men though few men may be difficult but not so long if she continues.

My own woman have used many tactics of voice influence on me and get through many of the time. Nevertheless, these four secrets messages women used on men are powerful but is not a sure way of controlling every man and it still depends on the individual level of awareness both in reasoning and acceptance of characters portrait by most women at home.

Below are the four secret messages women used on men to tie them down to their whim:

1. "YOU ARE MY ENDLESS BUNDLE OF JOY. KNOWING YOU IS THE BEST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO MY LIFE. HAVING YOU AS A LIFE PARTNER IS MY GREATEST GIFT FROM GOD. I LOVE YOU".

There's no man you sent such message that will play with you as a wife, mind you - it is not guaranteed full time. Women open their hearts up for men who won't play with it. Men who want lasting love and happy homes appreciate their wives without compromise.

In truth, women hardly reject their life partners no matter how poor or bad the situation may seem. But for a woman to reject her man whole heartedly, it means he has broken the inner heart of her love.

Women pray to God for a good husband with an understandable attitude who would help unlock the gift they have inside.  As a true wisdom man, saying thank you for such beautiful message is highly recommended. Replying ''I love you too'' is much necessary.

2."SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPENED TODAY. WE SHOULD NOT BE DOING THIS. PLEASE FORGIVE AND FORGET".

Normally, only modern women of intelligent knew how to use the word "sorry, forgive and forget" in marriage. It is of a good character to use such words especially when crises arises.

Intelligent women use text messages to reach out while the unintelligent use mostly words and loyalty in puting the man in her whim. It is ethical for men to reason well in times of trouble especially matters that's concerns home management among spouses.

It is true, it is written for long, that the best revenge is to forgive and forget. But how real is it in the heart of humans? Men should let go and continue the process of building a happy family world-wide. When you get a gold, please do well to treat it like a gold.

3. "AM SO HAPPY TO KNOW YOU ARE MINE. I AM GRATEFUL TO THE MOST HIGH FOR GIVING YOU TO ME AS A HUSBAND. I LOVE YOU TREASURE".

If most women were grateful to the kind of men they married, the world would have been a changed and better world. It is an expected thing that man and woman should appreciate each other and be grateful for such togetherness.

If blames, suspicious and confusion filled the houses of men, how then can the children learn from such conditions? 

Gratitude should be the watch word of every member of the family in order to make a new progressive world. When we appreciate what we have with high esteem more shall be multiplied. Creating a happy home is in the hands of men and women who came together as one body from the creation of the universe.

4. "THANKS FOR YOUR LOVE, CARE AND UNDERSTANDING. MY STRENGTH, HERO AND KING".

When a woman or anyone else sent love and motivated text messages to your phone, as a man please do well to keep the fire burning. Don't allow the rolling ball to stop. Love finds it strength in communication and thanks giving to the Most High. But it started with insight and ends in practice.

It is only in thanks giving can we get more of the things we are grateful for and appreciate so much in our lives. The strength of love is openness, confessions and forgiveness. No love last without proper understanding of human heart.

It is the duty of man to study and know the strength and weaknesses of the woman he's staying with. When a woman shows your love, there's no need to doubt the love even though as things changes from moment to moment. 

In conclusion, only God can show men true love without compromising on how well or material riches he has. God's love is unconditional and has many impact in the lives of the people all over the world.

8 HIDDEN THINGS REAL WOMEN NEED FROM MEN BUT HIDE THEM

 

8 HIDDEN THINGS REAL WOMEN NEED FROM MEN BUT HIDE THEM

Real women need alot of things to uphold their dignity but rarely would they open their mouth to mention them before men. A real woman is she who opens her heart for her husband without hidden agendas.

Generally speaking, women tends to test men of their love through demanding material things even when they knew their men are financially challenged. Almost in every family, few women open up for their men while many are less concerned as long as their children are receiving their daily bread and basic training in education and other life endeavors.

Here are the 8 things real women need from men but hide them away in details:

1. COMMUNICATION 

Almost everywhere, even in relationship of young people nawadays, communication is of paramount. Married couples need it most. Many families today are in danger due to lack of communication skills and how to apply it.

Women wants effective communication from men. When men lack the charisma to talk to their wives, sudden family challenges tends to develop more. 

Sometimes, it is difficult for real women to expose or argue with their men when it comes to leading the family ahead. Men supposed to know their work when it's involves issues with their family members.

2. EXPOSURE 

Another thing real women want from their men is exposure. Women like to experience new things, go new places, visit new countries, even go for new hotels for swimming pool outings and also like visiting amusement parks for knowledge and enjoyment sake.

Hardly will a real woman opens up for traveling but the truth is, she wants it bad. Women naturally love travelling together with their families. No real woman in her innerself would not like to travel to a new place for enjoyment and realization of a new way of loving his man. It takes a real man to expose a real woman without grudges in heart.

3. PETTING 

No real woman would not like petting. Another name for women is petting. No matter how mean and determine a woman seems, if there's no petting from side ways, she tends to worn out. Women like petting and need it from their men. It takes courage for a woman to tell her man to pet her for more inner strength.

Women who receive petting from their men either in a relationship or in marriage, gradually builds up inner muscles for growth and success including in their characters. If a man can develop petting habits with his woman, hardly would misunderstanding arises from such a great relationship.

4. NEW UNDIES 

Real women no matter their pretence need new undies but will never tell you as a man. They want men to discover their wants. Men who are much caring understand that women need new things. To click the right button is to buy her new undies without her requesting for it.

Nevermind what they say, do what touches their heart's because it's a real woman thing. No matter how hard it is for a man, if he's not buying for her happiness, he has not started loving. To real women, they never push anyone to buy for them because they can manage. But always know that real women hide their feelings.

5. AVAILABILITY 

You can't be in love with realistic women and be so far to reach. They love available men who take charge of them the way they want it. Real women imagine the unimaginable that's a reason they can stay with all men the first time.

To be a real man in the eyes of a real woman, man must work smart with himself and reason like a co-worker with God he has born to be. Imagine Adam and Eve in the beginning of creation. What could be Adam reactions towards his wife when she is dull and sick?

6. NEW HAIR STYLES 

No real woman would not like new hair styles from time to time. Women generally love plating their hairs with costly hair style materials. It takes a real man to maintain that part of her life style. Even the so called fake women know that changing hair styles is a credit to themselves. 

Real women believes that changing hair styles is a credit to their men. Nevermind, men who know the secrets of real women make a good step in fulfilling all their hearts desires even though as it is difficult to satisfies them. Real women prefer to look good than to have money and be dirty. No matter your religion as a woman, you need to look good all way round.

7. TOLERANCE 

Real women love men who can tolerate their nonsense all the time. No matter how real a woman claims to be or appear, she knows within herself that there's a fault laying unnoticed about her. Every woman pray to have a tolerable man, a man that can endure and even to accept errors when they occur likewise men.

It is not easy to be at the range of real women who almost knew all the things men wants from women. But, if a man can tolerate a woman in all her fuck ups and messes, the real woman in her can easily boast out to benefit the man the more.

8. STRONG MAN

Whether fake or real, no woman would like a dull brain and strengthless man to be with. Women generally love strong men who appear to be physically and emotionally and mentally fit. 

There are men whose worth are high not because of their money rather because of their commitment in loving their wives and living their lives purposes with their families. Real men understands everything relating to women and their secrets.

Sometimes, it is even men who lack the knowledge of not being able to know that they are with real women. These real women love men who are unstoppable in accomplishing their goals. 

If you want to try a real woman's power start pushing your live dreams and get her involved with it. Upon playing your smart game with her, still know that she's a woman with her own little strength and support.

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HOW I HAVE COME TO KNOW THE SECRET by Rhonda Bryne

 

HOW I HAVE COME TO KNOW THE SECRET by Rhonda Bryne

The secret is working! The secret is the law of attraction. The law says; whatever you think about and talk about you will bring into your experience. Likes attract likes.

The story you are about to read now is an experiment I have done the moment I realized there was a secret on how to live the lifestyle you want on the face of the universe. The other phase looks like saying; earth has a principle to live in it.

I started browsing about the secret around 2012 with my small Nokia phone having no idea that there was a book called the secret. I just dive in with my mind, pressing the buttons until the word - the secret came to my mind and I decided to try it. Today, I'm telling a story about the secret knowledge I discovered myself. Read my experience.

I understood that my thoughts are very important when it comes to worldly and spiritual achievement.

I have a friend who is a copper member from Yoroba land. I have told Abel about the secret movie even as I have not watched it. I told him to download it for me that I would pay him. 

Sometimes, our lack of knowledge can greatly limit us.

I know the law of attraction to be; likes attract likes and focusing on what one really want.

The first amazing thing that happened in my life as a result of reading the secret online is my laptop. I was a village public call boy around 2009. I have only but small phones, table and cards for selling. I needed laptop to expand my business and increase in the services I rendered to the public because they needed it. 

As God may have it,  I have another friend Chukwuemeka popularly known as Niger in the village who travelled to abroad few years after knowing him. He suddenly came back from Canada and sold me a fresh fairly used laptop at a lower price. I would say, he nearly dashed me the laptop. Because of the laptop, I struggled and  bought a new office printer named 'three in one coloured printer' I got them because I have thought it and visualized them. I wished to grow, to offer more services. 

One thing am doing that I don't know it counts is gratitude. I was very grateful to any single thing that happens to me and for me. When one buy's from me I would say; thank you. When I exchanged anything from anyone I wouldn't fell to say; thank you. I was full of gratitude without knowing that gratitude is one of the secret Rhonda Bryne taught about. Because when you are grateful to what you have and have gained more good things will happen to you.

Remember, I have read the secret online though not all the pages and I have keep practicing it even as I have no idea of the power I was summoning when I thought and visualize in my thoughts. I was expanding in my thoughts so are the thoughts happening in my life as a daily experiences.

On 14th of December 2014, I went to a seminar at Owerre conference hall hosted by Jeffter Akaehie a motivational speaker and writter. I have no idea of their raffle tickets selling. I just reluctantly stood up from my feet and asked someone what's happening outside the hall. He told me, it's a try your luck ticket game. I decided to participate. I don't even know what I can get from it. I just went to buy an mtn simcard of #400 to enroll. I bought it because I even needed more simcards in my business despite that I have little money left with me. I was even arguing with them to remove small money for me. The only action I took  without knowing the effect is , I was so grateful and laughing and playing with the MTN sellers as I bargain.

Atlast, I went back to my seat. Within some hours of motivations by the speakers, it came as a rumour that the mtn sponsors of the Rise Network want to go. So, they have to offer what they have for the raffle tickets collection. And the moment matched with refreshment time.  The shaking of raffle bucket has started as many phone numbers were rapped in small pieces. As I got my own snarce, I ate it fast before everyone as if I knew something is about to happen. I was happy inside that's what I could noticed within me. What's my happiness, I don't know. All I knew was, something amazing wants to happen.

As the basket was shakes many times, someone needs to pick and whosoever she picks become the winner. So the unknown person picks a rapped number and opened it, hmm, guess what; it's my phone number. 

Many was looking around to see the poor me as I jumped up of my seat. At first, I don't know what they have for the winner. Besides, it was my first experience as a winner in public. I came out to shake the very rich man of MTN Nigeria representative as a new sealed 2000 modern window laptop was handed over to me. I was amazed.

I was celebrated like a celebrity as many people came out to shake hands with me. When they asked me to express my feelings, I wanted to share how it has happened but I was afraid. So I just thanked God and the sponsors of the program.

So, by this time in my life I was becoming more aware of my thoughts. I kept imagining, could this be a sign of the secret that I have used without knowing it? Many people at the event said somethings to my hearing that I used juju to get it. But they were wrong. I used what I know to get it. I knew the secret to be 'the law of attraction'. 

Now that I have gotten a new laptop, I know my desires has not finished. I took another step on how to get the books named; 'The Secret' and 'the power' written by one author Rhonda Bryne from Australia.

As I went home, I downloaded the secret in audio because it was offered for free. I tried to get the movie itself and found out that it need some dollars in your account. I downloaded the book and its related.

In 2015, I started looking for the secret book from book sellers in different parts of the States in Nigeria though it was only in Eastern region both the book and the movie.  It was not easy as I focused more of my energy in getting them because I knew it, I will get them one day.

One day, it came out that I would attend another seminar hosted by Emeke Nobis the author of  ' The Profound Life' at Enugu. The venue tends to be in book shop. I gat to know some people and know the book seller too.

As we relaxed and make some connections, I asked the seller about the book and the movie. Actually he did not have them but promised to get them for me, so we exchange contacts. It is then after other hustlings I gotthe secret and the power books. He could not get the secret movie for me. I thanked him for the ones he helped me reached my hands.

So, I keep on searching for the movie. Remember, I was focusing and talking about it to people I felt could help get it. 

On November 2015, I requested the movie from a close friend named Abel in form of asking him to get it for me using his phone after I have told him much of the secret I have learned. I encouraged him to read the books, watch the movie and learn from them.

On 15th of March, 2016, Abel came to my shop earlier in the morning while I was listening from the secret audio with my laptop. He can hear it because I left the speaker high open. He said; hmm, you and 'the secret'. My reply to him; I think I told you to download it for me that I would pay for the cost. Only that time he told me that he has it in his phone. And said, he got it since that November I asked him to download it. I was happy and eager to demand it quickly from him. He happily sent it to my laptop. That's how I got "the secret movie" I have been looking for years

Finally, I got what I was thinking and talking about most of the time. I believe that this movie would change my life in a great way because I'm already gaining from the knowledge.

" I agree within me that for many of my thoughts to manifest, it requires patience and sure it would come" - Batholomew Obienyi.

That's how I have gotten the books am still enjoying reading up to date. Thank you once more Rhonda Bryne for such a great gifts to humanity. Never will I play with your words. Ndewo in my own dialect. Thank you.

 

  

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THREE THINGS REAL WOMEN WANT FROM MEN AND THEY WILL BE SATISFIED WITHIN

THREE THINGS REAL WOMEN WANT FROM MEN AND THEY WILL BE SATISFIED WITHIN

To be a man is not a day job. The same way, to be a woman is not a day job. But, it's hard to be a man than a  woman. To be a man is one thing and to be a responsible man who handles situations appropriately is another thing. 

This is why many women put these three things into consideration before going into deep relationship with any man talk more of going into marriage that would last for a long time. 

These three things real women want from men to be satisfied in marriage or in a relationship are explained in details below: 

1. VISIONARY IN NATURE

Every real woman wants a man who is vision oriented. She wants him to be a decision maker who really knew where and what he wanted in life and how to go about it.

Real women know that a visionary man is likely to overcome many obstacles in life at the long run of life unseen. Women knew what they want. 

Women need men who will be encharge instead of being fearful of their children including the training, controlling family crisis at the long run, not willing to look back inspite of  friends influences and can be patient and tolerable at all times. That's what makes a real man in the eyes of every woman.

2. STRONG IN BODY AND SOUL

No real woman would like a slow, dull and mentally deterred man to be around her. All real creative women would like a man who is strong in body and is spiritually in control of the spirit self in him.

Men who are active in body but are weak in the spirit are not complete in the sight of real women. Women love real men who are more spiritual and very sound in what they are doing about the future.

No man would be active in the spiritual realm without physical strength. If you need women to love you wholely, kindly learn how to do push up and read your books of wisdom.

3. OPENNESS AT ALL TIMES

Real women love  deeply and mostly of men who are open hearted at all times even when they suppose to pretend.

There are men who like lying about their true personal identity, money in the bank, and business associates everywhere. 

Real women need men who are open always and can pour out truth about their real selves on their claimed lovers. This is a reason in many families today it seems as if women are running the activities. If men can wake up to peak courage to face their lives, women would be as sumissive as talked about in the Bible. 

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ONE HIDDEN PART OF EVERY WOMAN NOBODY WILL TELL YOU

ONE HIDDEN PART OF EVERY WOMAN NOBODY WILL TELL YOU

Generally speaking, women like one thing and it is common among married and aged ones. I am not accusing women of their infidelity behaviors rather am emphasizing on a particular part that is most dangerous to men but advantageous to women.

It is not right to say men are free of this one thing. But, women are highly engaged with it without mercy.

Don't be surprise if you know this one hidden part of a woman and don't try to abuse it unnecessarily in a common embarrassing way.

Many women like secrecy. 

How do you know what a woman wants in a relationship or marriage?

In the beginning of any relationship with a woman or a young lady, it is first started from the heart admirations and physical eyeing which may include many gifts.

Some men would approach a lady without waste of time once they discovered within themselves feelings and even if it's fake attractions many called lust.

Many other men would have feelings for a particular beautiful lady without shifting their love and there by keeping to one woman for a very long time.

Men tends to be more spiritual lovers connected than women, that's why when a woman breaks the chain of love in between, men lose control and can even be unstable mentally for a while if not years.

One thing is sure, young ladies who are single and educated knew the true love of men that came from the heart. They felt it and dreams of it when it comes.

All the behaviors that came from insightful single ladies who need a strong love not minding how rich or poor a man is, came from a secret corner of their hearts which means secrecy to them. It's after the knowledge that bold ladies can testify of his love to her friends. It is said that; "its takes two to tango".

Secrecy is an action every woman possessed even the ones that are not considered educated widely are hiding something from a close relationship.

A lady can only be proud of a man when he has undergone the test of love set for him by her. Though they say; " faint heart never won a fair girl". This unknown test is also done as a secret.

Insofaras a man's heart admires a lady  from the inner side of his heart, the man would do anything both physical and spiritual to click and follow her heart test set for him without grudges.

No matter the test a woman set for a man, deception can be attached at the back of the man's heart who claims to love her from the bottom of his heart. This too, is a secret kept by men.

Therefore I suggest, women should maintain their secrecy until a man truly proofs his real love for her through his commitment of all kinds. Giving, sacrificing, paying attention and being present when needed.

Women are highly secretive in nature and it's suppose to be so. There are special women with special knowledge who cares not how a man treat them but, pay much attention on faith and change in time to come even as though they believed men to be of the same kind.

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A WIFE LOVE LETTER TO HER HUSBAND

A WIFE LOVE LETTER TO HER HUSBAND

SHE FINALLY CONFESSES HER LOVE

My wife wrote a letter to me expressing her heart felt love fut to the character I have showed her from the day I met her in the field of teaching.

I couldn't believe what she wrote.

This praises letter is for loving husbands only. Women, if your husband shows you unconditional love, just thank him with all your heart either in writing or in words.

Here is her inner heart expression I can't hide.

Dear Treasure,

How are you and your work today? Hope all went well? To God be the highest glory. It is my pleasure to use this opportunity to say a very big thank you to what you have been doing for me ever since we met as friends.

First, let me start from the day I came to your house, you treated me fine and make sure I was safe. Thank you! 

You took me to"Poly Mama" the first time in my life to have entered there and you also felt free with me, despite the fact that I was dirty and not looking good. You made me feel accepted. Thank you ALOT.

You opened yourself to me despite the fact that you barly know me, you told me the story of your life, despite the fact that am still very new person to you. You made me your Friend, not minding that am a small girl and also ugly.

Despite how you were insulted and humiliated for my sake, you still stood by me and never gave up. Upon everything that happened on 12th August, 2019 in our house you still find pleasure in me and loved me. I really appreciate.

I thought you will deny me, but you accepted me and the pregnancy, despite how hard things are for you. You did not pressurize me to abort it and now it turn to be our son. Thank you so much.

You saw me through during pregnancy needs, never treated me bad, you took proper care of me and gave me the required treatment for a pregnant woman not minding how hard things are. I say thank you so much.

You accepted to walk with me even when I have baby in my womb. You accepted to carry my cross as yours without any complain of whatsoever. No matter what, you never treated me wrong. I therefore say, thanks allot. Thank you so much. 

On the day of delivery, you were there for me. You did not desert me. You stood with me to the end. You even went extra mile, going with me into the labor room and also stayed with me till I delivered. You proved your self a kind and loving husband.

You also went low before your age mates to make sure my baby and I were discharged from the hospital. You also make sure I fed well despite my stupid behavior of finishing my tea before I delivered. You still bought another one for me. I am greatful to you for all these.

You have been treating me like a queen ever since we met. You took me like your younger sister. You respected me like you do to your mother. Thank you so much my desirable treasure.

You are indeed a priceless jewelry, an expensive treasure, valuable diamond and more precious than gold. No amount of money can buy your type of person.

You are a precious gift given to me by God. Thank you so much my most valuable gift from the most high God. 

Let your love still rule in our family as I will always love, honor, obey and respect you. Let nobody come between us in Jesus name. Amen.

Once more, thank you for loving and accepting me as your wife. 

Much loves from Chikwado Vivian (wife and Silver)).

Article written by: 

Obienyi Ezinwanne Vivian

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THREE HARD THINGS BOYS CANNOT STOP WITH GIRLS

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THREE HARD THINGS BOYS CANNOT STOP WITH GIRLS

EVEN IF WISE BOYS ARE ABLE TO OVERCOME, OTHERWISE BOYS CANNOT OVERCOME THEM AFTER BEEN EXPOSED.

TO RUN AWAY FROM IT, YOU NEED TO BE AWAKE AND AWARE OF THESE THREE THINGS.

HERE ARE THE THREE THINGS THAT BOYS CANNOT STOP WITH GIRLS:

1. LOOKING AT THEIR TWISTLING WAIST

If there's a link between boys and girls, I guess it is 'twistling of waist'. Moving like snakes. 

Girls always move majestically though it's like beauty that is based on the eyes of the beholder. Young boys who have not seen much in life tends to appreciate girls that's twist their back yard weapon.

The hidden secret behind this attraction was, girls themselves have it as instinct and then intentionally add styles to it as they move along side the road.

To put yourself off as a boy,  better don't look at them while they move. How real can boys of these days do this - look away?

2. LISTENING TO THEIR SMOOTH VOICES

It is true women and girls have smooth and sweet voices during some intentional seductive conversations but, it's mostly catches the young unaware men or boys who are not aware of women voice tricking. 

If you must catch a woman in her tricks, pay bigger attention to her voice; the intonation changes from moment to moment especially when it comes to a conversation between the opposite gender. 

To so many men, they love sweet voices more than facial beauty. Like someone can say; Oh guy! If you hear her voice! 

Another can say; I just like hearing her sweet voice. To get ride of this, try to find a girl with good character rather than focusing on her sweet voice and body movement, they are all for deception.

3. TOUCHING WITH FEELINGS

Some young boys would tell you; guy if you touch her fingers, your feelings must arose. This touching and feeling is also applicable to girls as well.

Some girls would say; babe, he has smooth and long fingers. Touching with feelings is some times self deception where by the other person whose heart was not there may not receprocate as much.

So, if you are dying with feelings anytime you touch or you were touched, it is time for you to start controlling your emotions or be more aware when and when not  touching fingers are coming close to your sensitive body parts.

To fly away from it, creat more projects in your mind eyes and think thoughts on how to go about it in accomplishing the project. Remember to tell yourself, it's nothing much.

This trick is used by both genders to lure or seduce a novice  into the game of fake love-making or relationship whether wanted or not.

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8 QUALITIES OF A GOOD MOTHER

8 QUALITIES OF A GOOD MOTHER

Two questions we need to tackle is; who is a good mother and how do good mother's identified in public. Just read down to know how to be a good mother forever with any kind of man.

Who is a good mother?

What are the qualities of a good mother? Read down to see these two questions answered.

According to Mrs. Okezie Calista who has been a teacher for more than  fifteen years now in a seminar presentation with Uturu Heroes and Heroines platform described motherhood as the heart of the family.

As the heart gives blood to the parts of the body so the mother gives light to the family. A caring mother is as the same thing as a good mother. A mother manages her home in such a way that people will not notice what going on in the family whether smooth or tough. Nice mothers covers family faults and work hard to stop further errors done by children.

A good mother prays for the whole family as St. Monica did for her son St. Augustine in the Bible.

These 8 qualities of a good mother says it all. Below are the powerful good qualities of mothers in details:

1. A good mother is loving and caring at all cost and time. Mothers should love and care for everyone in the family without discriminating who runs the highest errands in the house among the kids.

2. A good mother is encouraging and motivating by nature. Mothers should be encouraging and motivating to their sons and daughters in living a good life through displaying good characters towards their fellow human beings in general. Mothers who lack such characters hardly raise up good children.

3. A good mother is peaceful all the time. Mothers should be insightful when it comes to promoting peaceful co-existence in the environment and household not supporting wars among family members. Mothers with insight and knowledge know that the only work they have in the family is to organize peace between father, mother, children and other members of the society for better tomorrow.

4. A good mother is neither a gossiper nor a talkative. Mothers should not be seen nor involves themselves gossiping about their families misconduct outside home, rather they should live for corrections and directions instead of talking rubbish with their blessed mouth.

5. A good mother is not jealous and hoting. Mothers are met to be appreciative and welcoming to everybody. Advancing and appreciating other people's wellbeing in a given soceity without compromising of personalities.

6. A good mother is helpful in the family. Mothers should help their husbands, children and others around the environment.

7. A good mother is trustworthy. Mothers should build trust and worthy characters before their children, so that they could be a living examples in the family.

8. A good mother should be neat in all round living non behind because a dirty wife makes the man looks outside for other women to trend.

In other way round, fathers too are not left out from the above mentioned qualities. A good father should not let the family lack anything materially and otherwise. The otherwise is the love of the man which suppose to be invested wholely in the family.l development.

 

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