THREE THINGS REAL WOMEN WANT FROM A MAN

THREE THINGS REAL WOMEN WANT FROM A MAN

To be a man is not a day job. The same way, to be a woman is not a day job. To be a man is one thing and to be a responsible man who handles situations appropriately is another thing. 

This is why many women put these three things into consideration before going into deep relationship with any man talk more of going into marriage. These are:

1. VISIONARY IN NATURE: 

Every real woman wants a man who is vision oriented. She wants him to be a decision maker who really knew where and what he wanted in life. 

Real women know that a visionary man is likely to overcome many obstacles in life at the long run of life unseen. Women knew what they want. 

Women need a man who will be encharge of any child bearing and training, controlling family crisis at the long run, not willing to look back inspite of  friends influences and can be patient and tolerable at all times.

2. STRONG IN BODY AND SOUL:

No real woman would like a slow, dull and mentally deterred man. All real creative women would like a man who is strong in body and is spiritually in control of the spirit self.

Men who are active in body but are weak in the spirit are not complete in the sight of real women. Women love real men who are more spiritual and very sound in what they are doing about the future.

No man would be active in the spiritual realm without physical strength. If you need women to love you wholely, kindly learn how to do push up and read your books of wisdom.

3. OPENNESS AT ALL TIMES:

Real women love  deeply and mostly of men who are open hearted at all times even when they suppose to pretend.

There are men who like lying about their true personal identity, money in the bank, and business associates everywhere. 

Real women need men who are open always and can pour out truth about their real selves on their claimed lovers.

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Obienyi B. Chinedu

A Creative Writer and Motivational Speaker

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ONE HIDDEN PART OF EVERY WOMAN

ONE HIDDEN PART OF EVERY WOMAN

Generally speaking, women like one thing and it is common among married and aged ones. I am not accusing women of their infidelity behaviors rather am emphasizing on a particular part that is most dangerous to men but advantageous to women.

It is not right to say men are free of this one thing. But, women are highly engaged with it.

Don't be surprise if you know this one hidden part of a woman and don't try to abuse it unnecessarily in a common embarrassing way.

Many women like secrecy. 

How do you know what a woman wants in a relationship?

In the beginning of any relationship with a woman or a young lady, it is first started from the heart admirations and physical eyeing. 

Some men would approach a lady without waste of time once they discovered within themselves feelings and even if it's fake attractions. 

Many other men would have feelings for a particular beautiful lady without shifting their love and there by keeping to one woman for a very long time.

Men tends to be more spiritual lovers connected than women, that's why when a woman breaks the chain of love in between, men lose control and can even be unstable mentally for a while.

One thing is sure, young ladies who are single and educated knew the love of men that came from the heart. They felt it and dreams of it when it comes.

All the behaviors that came from insightful single ladies who need a strong love not minding how rich or poor a man is, came from a secret corner of their hearts which means secrecy to them. It's after the knowledge that bold ladies can testify of his love to her friends. It is said that; "its takes two to tango".

Secrecy is an action every woman possess even the ones that are not considered educated widely are hiding something from a close relationship.

A lady can only be proud of a man when he has undergone the test of love set for him by her. Though they say; " faint heart never won a fair girl". This unknown test is also done as secret.

Insofaras a man's heart admires a lady  from the inner side of his heart, the man would do anything both physical and spiritual to click and follow her heart test set for him. 

No matter the test a woman set for a man, deception can be attached at the back of the man's heart who claims to love her from the bottom of his heart. This too, is a secret kept.

Therefore I suggest, women should maintain their secrecy until a man truly proofs his real love for her through his commitment of all kinds. Giving, sacrificing, paying attention and being present when needed.

Women are highly secretive in nature and it's suppose to be so. 

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SHE FINALLY CONFESSED HER LOVE

SHE FINALLY CONFESSES HER LOVE

My wife wrote a letter to me expressing her heart felt love I have showed her from the day I met her in the field of teaching.

I couldn't believe what she wrote.

This praises letter is for loving husbands. Women, if your husband shows you unconditional love, just thank him with all your heart either in writing or in words.

Here is her inner heart expression.

Dear Treasure,

How are you and your work today? Hope all went well? To God be the highest glory. It is my pleasure to use this opportunity to say a very big thank you to what  you have been doing for me ever since we met.

First, let me start from the day I came to your house, you treated me fine and make sure I was safe. Thank you! 

You took me to"Poly Mama" the first time in my life to have entered there and you also felt free with me, despite the fact B I was dirty and not looking good. You made me feel accepted. Thank you ALOT.

You opened yourself to me despite the fact that you barly know me, you told me the story of your life, despite the fact that am still back new person. You made me your Fri, not minding that am a small girl and also ugly.

Despite how you were insulted and humiliation bfor my sake, you still stood by me and never gave up. Upon everything that happened on 12th August, 2019 in our house you still find pleasure in me and loved me. I really appreciate.

I thought you will deny me, but you accepted me and the pregnancy, despite how hard things are for you. You did not pressurize me to abort it and now it turn to be our son. Thank you so much.

You saw me through during pregnancy need never treated me bad, you took proper care of me and gave me the required treatment for a pregnant woman not minding how hard things are. I say thank you so much.

You accepted to walk with me even when I have baby in me. You accepted to carry my cross as yours without any complain of whatsoever. No matter what, you never did me wrong. I therefore say, thanks allot. Thank you so much. 

On the day of delivery, you were there for me. You did not desert me. You caught with me to the end. You even went extra mile, going with me into the labor Ward and also stayed with me till I delivered. You proved your self a kind and loving husband.

You also went low before your age mate to make sure my baby and I were discharged from the hospital. You also make sure I fed well despite my stupid behavior of finishing my tea before I delivered. You still bought another one for me. I am greatful to you for all these.

You have been treating me like a queen ever since we met. You took me like your younger sister. You respected me like you do to your mother. Thank you so much my desirable treasure.

You are indeed a priceless jewelry, an expensive treasure, valuable diamond and more precious than gold. No amount of money can buy your type of person.

You are a precious gift given to me by God. Thank you so much my most valuable gift from the most high God. 

Let your love still rule in our family as I will always love, honor, obey and respect you. Let nobody come between us in Jesus name. Amen.

Once more, thank you for loving and accepting me as your wife. 

Much loves from Chikwado Vivian (wife and Silver)).

Article written by: 

Obienyi Ezinwanne Vivian

Published by: Obienyi B. Chinedu

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THREE HARD THINGS BOYS CANNOT STOP WITH GIRLS

THREE HARD THINGS BOYS CANNOT STOP WITH GIRLS

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EVEN IF WISE BOYS ARE ABLE TO OVERCOME IT, OTHERWISE BOYS CANNOT OVERCOME THEM.

TO RUN AWAY FROM IT, YOU NEED TO BE AWAKE AND AWARE OF THESE THREE THINGS.

HERE ARE THE THREE THINGS THAT BOYS CANNOT STOP WITH GIRLS:

1. LOOKING AT THEIR TWISTLING WAIST:

If there's a link between boys and girls, I guess it is 'twistling of waist'. Moving like snake. 

Girls always move majestically though it's like beauty that is based on the eyes of the beholder. Young boys who have not seen much in life tends to appreciate girls that's twist their backyard.

The hidden secret behind this attraction was, girls themselves have it as instinct and then intentionally add styles to it as they  move along side the road.

To put yourself off, better don't look at them while they move. How real can boys of these days do this - look away?

2. LISTENING TO THEIR SMOOTH VOICES:

It is true women have smooth and sweet voices during some intentional seductive conversations but, its mostly catches the young unaware men who are not aware of women voice tricking. 

If you must catch a woman in her trick, pay bigger attention to her voice; the intonation changes from moment to moment especially when it comes to a conversation between the opposite gender. 

To so many men, they love sweet voices more than facial beauty. Like someone can say; Oh guy! If you hear her voice! 

Another can say; I just like hearing her sweet voice. To get ride of this, try to find a girl with good character rather than focusing on her sweet voice and body movement, they are all for deception.

3. TOUCHING WITH FEELINGS:

Some young boys would tell you; guy if you touch her fingers, your feelings must arose. This touching and feeling is also applicable to girls as well.

Some girls would say; babe, he has smooth and long fingers. Touching with feelings is some times self deception where by the other person whose heart was not there may not receprocate as much.

So, if you are dying with feelings anytime you touch or you were touched, it is time for you to start controlling your emotions or be more aware when and when not  touching fingers are coming close to your sensitive body. 

To fly away from it, creat more projects in your heart and think thoughts on how to go about it in accomplishing the project. Remember to tell yourself, it's nothing much.

This trick is used by both genders to lure or seduce a novice  into the game of fake love making or relationship whether wanted or not.

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Obienyi B. Chinedu

A Creative Writer and Motivational Speaker

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8 QUALITIES OF A GOOD MOTHER

8 QUALITIES OF A GOOD MOTHER

Two questions we need to tackle now. Just read down to know how to be a good mother forever.

Who is a good mother?

What are the qualities of a good mother?

According to Mrs. Okezie Calista who has been a teacher for more than  fifteen years now on a seminar presentation with  Uturu Heroes and Heroines platform described motherhood as the heart of the family.

As the heart gives blood to the parts of the body so the mother gives light to the family. A caring mother is as the same thing as a good mother. A mother manages her home in such a way that people will not notice what going on in the family whether smooth or tough.

A good mother prays for the whole family as St. Monica did for her son St. Augustine.

The 8 qualities of a good mother  says it all. Below are the powerful good qualities of mothers;

1. A good mother is loving and caring at all cost. Mothers should love and care for everyone in the family without discriminating who run the highest errands in the house.

2. A good mother is encouraging. Mothers should be encouraging and motivating to their sons and daughters in living a good life through displaying good characters towards their fellow human being.

3. A good mother is peaceful all the time. Mothers should be insightful when it comes to promoting peaceful co-existence in the environment and household not supporting wars among family members.

4. A good mother is neither a gossiper nor a talkative. Mothers should not be seen nor involves themselves gossiping about their families misconduct outside home, rather they should live for corrections and directions instead of talking rubbish.

5. A good mother is not jealous. Mothers are met to be appreciative and welcoming to everybody. Advancing and appreciating other people's wellbeing in a given soceity.

6. A good mother is helpful in the family. Mothers should help their husbands, children and others around the environment.

7. A good mother is trustworthy. Mothers should build a trust and worthy characters before their children, so that they could be a living examples in the family.

8. A good mother should be neat in all round living non behind because a dirty wife makes the man looks outside for other women.

In other way round, fathers too are not left out from the above mentioned qualities. A good father should not let the family lack anything materially and otherwise. The otherwise is the love of the man which suppose to be invested wholely in the family.

 

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