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3 Things Real Women Want From Men To Be Satisfied In Marriage And Relationships
To be a man is not a day job. To be a woman is not a day job either.
But the truth is, being a responsible man who can lead, protect, and build a home is harder.
This is why real women don’t just enter any relationship. Before they commit deeply or say "yes" to marriage, they watch for these three key qualities silently.
If a man has these 3 things, a woman will respect him, love him, and stay loyal to him for the long run as long as he does not change in the way.
Let’s me break down these 3 things every real woman wants from a man both in marriage and in relationships.
A man is considered to be purposeful and full of energy if he has strong directions towards his goals in life. And every real woman is looking for a man with vision whose life cannot be swerved at any little challenge.
A visionary man knows where he is going in life. He has goals, plans, and the discipline to follow them. He doesn’t just drift through life waiting for miracles rather, he works out his salvation.
Many women would want these type of men because; a man with vision can make decisions for the family without fear, he can handle financial problems, raise children well, and control family crisis and he is not easily influenced by bad friends or peer pressure. Such a man knows how to stay patient and tolerant even when life gets hard on him.
To a woman, a man without direction is like a ship without a captain. He stays stand still even when he ought to move.
But a man with vision gives her peace of mind. She knows her future and her children’s future are safe with him.
Truly, real women don’t want a perfect man. They want a man who knows where he’s going and is working toward it without much noise.
2. STRONG IN BODY AND SOUL
Not just to say it, as a normal human being, physical strength and spiritual maturity supposed to be a must accomplishment in one's life.
No real woman wants a man who is weak, lazy, unintelligent or mentally dull.
Real women admire men who are strong in these two aspect of life struggle; such as physical strength. Yes, every normal man should take care of his body through daily exercises, do push-ups and eat well. A strong body shows discipline and the ability to protect his family.
Another life struggle a woman wants from a man is spiritual strength because a man who prays, reads wisdom books, and has self-control is attractive. Spiritual strength helps a man to overcome temptation, anger, and bad habits.
A man who is only physically strong but weak spiritually is incomplete.
A man who is only spiritual but lazy physically is also incomplete. Strong men have both. Women want a complete man. Strong in body to work and provide. Strong in soul to lead with wisdom and faith.
Sincerely, honesty and transparency is the foundation of every lasting relationship.
Real women hate lies. They hate men who hide their identity, lie about money, or pretend to be someone they are not.
An open-hearted man tells the truth even when it’s hard. He communicates about his finances, his struggles, his plans, and his feelings without compromise. This is important because
when a man hides things, the woman is forced to take control. That’s why in many homes today it looks like women are "running the family affairs".
But when a man has the courage to be open and honest, the woman can relax and be submissive and supportive like the Bible teaches.
Therefore, transparency builds trust. And trust is what makes love grow and last no matter the level of ignorance among the community members.
Finally, becoming the kind of man women respect demand awareness. The man must be aware of his spiritual growth and try his best to build on the physical realm as well.
As an old adage suggest: " Reading is for the mind as exercise is for the body". Never overlook a daily exercises in everything.
Dear reader, being a real man is about growth both internally and externally.
Try to;
Have a Vision i.e, Knowing where you’re going, Building strength in your body and in your spirit and be open to tell the truth and live with integrity at all time.
When you have these 3 qualities as a man, women will not only love you. They will be satisfied, peaceful, and proud to stand by you in marriage and in life struggle.
What do you think?
Ladies, is there any other quality you want to add?
Men, which of these 3 are you currently working on?
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