FIVE SIMPLE ACTIONS THAT TRIGGER A WOMAN'S LOVE INTERNALLY, EVEN IN MARRIAGE
Women, by nature, are soft-hearted beings who can be easily moved to do a particular thing by the men in their lives or by their children.
This is not a weakness, as many people have wrongly attributed it to be. Rather, it is a kind of gene that runs in a woman’s blood and it is placed there by the Creator of the Universe.
Internal love is equivalent to unconditional love. Don't doubt it. If women are moved easily, it is because they are deeply connected to the conditions that affect men and their children, just as God is connected to us. Some people even take God for granted because of His forgiving heart toward sinners.
Knowing these five simple actions that touch a woman’s heart greatly does not give you a license to abuse them. Be warned: too much use of anything weakens its power. Use these with sincerity, respect, and love.
Here are the five simple actions that trigger a woman’s love internally either in marriage or in friendship.
1. SOFT WORDS
Generally, in their natural state of being, women are soft and easy-going beings.
It is the love of a man expressed through his words that makes a woman’s love to overflow from within her bosom like a river. When spoken in harmony, those words cause her heart to grow around happiness, and she is able to love with all her heart and without evil thoughts.
Harsh and hard words never perform wonders in a woman’s heart. Instead, her heart gets thicker and stronger in hatred, bitterness, and jealousy.
If a man continues to use the harsh side of his voice on a woman, her love begins to shrink back.
This causes her pain and sorrow, and that pain can easily affect a man’s creativity, peace of mind, and even his success in many ways.
A woman remembers words longer than she remembers gifts.
The tone you use when you are tired, the way you speak when you are angry, and the words you choose when you are correcting her, all of these build or destroy her inner state.
Soft words do not mean weak words. They mean words that are gentle, truthful, and full of respect.
Tell her “I appreciate you.”
Tell her “I see how hard you are trying.”
Tell her “Thank you for standing with me.”
These are the words that water her soul.
When a woman feels safe in your words, she gives you access to the deepest part of her heart.
2. UNEXPECTED GIFTS
This one steals the heart. When a man shows unexpected concern through gifts such as; a birthday card, a small surprise, money for something she needs, or even her favorite snack, a woman finds it hard to reject such an attempt.
This single action alone makes a woman fall in love more deeply, no matter what kind of man he is.
Women do not always care whether a man is handsome or not, rich or poor.
What they care about most is a caring and heart-touching man.
Women like gifts, and they love the giver of the gifts because the gift carries a message: “I was thinking of you.”
You need to know that gifts trigger a woman’s love. And so it does for any human being on Earth. The Bible says: “A man’s gift makes room for him.” Proverbs 18:16
Learn how to give precious gifts, no matter how little. It does not have to be expensive. It has to be thoughtful.
A note she didn’t expect. A dress in her favorite color. Money sent with “take care of yourself.”
Unexpected gifts tell her: “You are on my mind even when you are not here.”
That is what makes her love grow from the inside.
3. DEFENDING HER
Another point most women will not openly tell a man is their need for protection. They often allow it to be a test. Women will test a man to know how truly he cares. Safety is their first priority.
When you defend a woman in public, even when she is wrong, her love for you develops more.
Publicly standing up for her makes her love for you rise. This does not mean you should lie or support her in doing evil. It means you do not throw her under the bus. You do not join others to shame her. You handle correction in private, and you present a united front in public.
Don’t “kill yourself” for a woman before you can agree that you love her.
Always play it safe, but also be a man of courage.
A woman wants to know: “If the world turns against me, will this man stand with me?” When she gets that answer through your actions, her trust in you becomes unshakable. That trust is the soil where deep love grows.
4. FEEDING HER
Showing a woman care through the provision of food triggers her love.
Women do not play with the man who feeds them and provides for them anytime, any day. There is a saying that says; “You should not bite the hand that feeds you.” When you feed a woman, she gives you her respect, loyalty, and care in return.
Feeding is not just about buying food.
It is about provision. It is about responsibility.
It is about making sure she and the children do not lack.
It is about asking, “Have you eaten?” and meaning it.
In many cultures, including ours, food is love. When a man ensures there is food on the table, he is telling the woman: “I will take care of you.” That assurance touches her heart in a place words cannot reach. And a secure woman loves freely, without fear.
5. EDUCATING HER
When you educate a woman, she falls in love with you without a second thought.
Women like to be exposed. They like to know things from scratch.
If you can provide that education for her through books, conversations, mentorship, or by correcting her with patience she will be there for you.
Good women like and respect their teachers and those who are able to correct them when they are wrong, and do so gently. Education here does not only mean formal school. It means helping her grow mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. It means sharing knowledge with her. It means telling her, let me show you how this works instead of saying, 'you don’t know anything.'
A man who educates his woman is building a partner, not just a wife.
He is raising the mother of his children to be wise. He is raising a woman who can think, who can contribute, and who can stand beside him as an equal.
That kind of investment makes a woman love you with all her heart, because you are helping her become a better version of herself.
In a nutshell, to be a woman is not easy. There are many unmentioned challenges women pass through in their lives in the form of physical, emotional, and spiritual matters.
Only men who are able to fulfill and meet up with these challenges can be fully trusted with a woman’s heart of hearts, without her being judgmental or afraid.
Love is not magic. Love is action. And these five actions - "Soft Words, Unexpected Gifts, Defending Her, Feeding Her, and Educating Her" are seeds. When you plant them consistently and sincerely, they grow into a love that is deep, loyal, and lasting. Do not use these to manipulate.
Use them to build and to honor the woman God placed in your hands.
Because when a woman’s internal love is triggered the right way, she will stand with you in storms, she will pray for you in secret, she will build with you in public and she will love you in a way that feels like heaven on earth.
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