THE THREE MOST NEGLECTED THINGS THAT DISTRACT OUR YOUNGER ONES

 

THE THREE MOST NEGLECTED THINGS THAT DISTRACT OUR YOUNGER ONES 

In the world today, many unreasonable things are happening in the lives of the younger ones without the intervention of parents idealogy. 

The mind is a spiritual thing. When it is not directed and guided within the soul, what the eyes sees controls the mind if not carefully neglected and gives it shape to develop. Minds actually don't easily get attracted to things unwanted unless the ones repeatedly occuring in its presence. 

It is always like that, minds magnets like virus. It is contagious in nature. Many times, it is the negative vibes that magnet easily because of its repetitive ocucurances in the society today especially with the phones in our hands.

Though, positive vibes that motivate the soul is hardly seen in the environment or in most social gatherings except in the area of churches and few motivated seminars many refused to attend. Being aware is better than  being ignorance. 

Below are the most neglected things that distract our younger ones:

1. HOME EDUCATION 

Yes, the kind of knowledge shared at home by most parents and senior brothers. Home suppose to be the beginning of all good especially from parents and elderly ones 'if' they are good people full of positivity. Go to many homes today, parents are misinterpreting each other while senior colleagues are busy misdirecting those children that supposed to be learning from them.

Many things are destroying the education system worldwide especially the ones from home. What about the playing ground? The playing ground should be a place of learning new stories that touches the heart through its constructive happenings. 

When we were young, stories are told generally for future references.  Nowadays, stories are told from another angel of education. Children are taught how to make quick money and start learning from hand held phones without a second thought.

To stop this nonsense, every thing parents and senior brothers are doing in the face of the younger ones should be informative and educative even though they grow to learn the evils themselves.

2. SEX

This is another dangerous character that's destroying our younger ones unnoticed and uncontrolled. Many young girls have dedicated their efforts in teaching sightless boys the evil way of development. It is not easy with young girls as well because guys of wicked heart are there too to mislead.

Sex has occupied many minds destructively, taking the reasonable heart out of shape. Destiny are quenched because of the involvement in the act of sexual intercourse among the younger ones who are suppose to be the future hope of the nation. The unwanted pregnancy and the risk involving in the abortion process are all ways of loosing one's vision in life.

Almost everything youths are practicing today are learned behaviours from either explicit videos or from corruptive minds that dwell among the people of the universe.

To stop this sexual attitude, attentions and exposure of the risk involved in sexual intercourse among youths need to be handled seriously by matured minds of intelligent through constructive ideas of impact.

3. ALCOHOLISM 

This type of attitude has led the bright future guys to stupor and many more to poverty. Alcoholism has been in the blood of men from the beginning of the world. Even the bible did not condemned alcoholism. It is the abusive attitude of alcoholism that makes it seem to be bad.

Nevermind, young ones are seriously learning the evil ways of their parents without minding the effects on their brain. Fermented substances are done in many ways but mind you, you have a destiny and purpose of coming into this world.

Don't be distracted by the things of the world and forget yourself and your greater future ahead of you.

It is through alcoholism that many learn betting. Nothing is bad in this universe except the ones that distract you from your life purposes. What are the things?

Think twince in your doings and make sure you are following the nice friends even if it involves making new friends as brotherhood individuals do. Nevertheless, follow your bliss. Don't be deceived. 

FOUR SECRET MESSAGES MANY WIVES USED ON THEIR HUSBANDS TO TIE THEM DOWN TO THEIR WHIM

FOUR SECRET MESSAGES MANY WIVES USED  ON THEIR HUSBANDS TO TIE THEM DOWN TO THEIR WHIM

Many wives today do not know these simple and powerful four secret messages they can use in holding men's love to them. They have forgotten their power of words on men. Because of that, lots of women are having issues with their beloved ones. Women have love and voice influences on men though few men may be difficult but not so long if she continues.

My own woman have used many tactics of voice influence on me and get through many of the time. Nevertheless, these four secrets messages women used on men are powerful but is not a sure way of controlling every man and it still depends on the individual level of awareness both in reasoning and acceptance of characters portrait by most women at home.

Below are the four secret messages women used on men to tie them down to their whim:

1. "YOU ARE MY ENDLESS BUNDLE OF JOY. KNOWING YOU IS THE BEST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO MY LIFE. HAVING YOU AS A LIFE PARTNER IS MY GREATEST GIFT FROM GOD. I LOVE YOU".

There's no man you sent such message that will play with you as a wife, mind you - it is not guaranteed full time. Women open their hearts up for men who won't play with it. Men who want lasting love and happy homes appreciate their wives without compromise.

In truth, women hardly reject their life partners no matter how poor or bad the situation may seem. But for a woman to reject her man whole heartedly, it means he has broken the inner heart of her love.

Women pray to God for a good husband with an understandable attitude who would help unlock the gift they have inside.  As a true wisdom man, saying thank you for such beautiful message is highly recommended. Replying ''I love you too'' is much necessary.

2."SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPENED TODAY. WE SHOULD NOT BE DOING THIS. PLEASE FORGIVE AND FORGET".

Normally, only modern women of intelligent knew how to use the word "sorry, forgive and forget" in marriage. It is of a good character to use such words especially when crises arises.

Intelligent women use text messages to reach out while the unintelligent use mostly words and loyalty in puting the man in her whim. It is ethical for men to reason well in times of trouble especially matters that's concerns home management among spouses.

It is true, it is written for long, that the best revenge is to forgive and forget. But how real is it in the heart of humans? Men should let go and continue the process of building a happy family world-wide. When you get a gold, please do well to treat it like a gold.

3. "AM SO HAPPY TO KNOW YOU ARE MINE. I AM GRATEFUL TO THE MOST HIGH FOR GIVING YOU TO ME AS A HUSBAND. I LOVE YOU TREASURE".

If most women were grateful to the kind of men they married, the world would have been a changed and better world. It is an expected thing that man and woman should appreciate each other and be grateful for such togetherness.

If blames, suspicious and confusion filled the houses of men, how then can the children learn from such conditions? 

Gratitude should be the watch word of every member of the family in order to make a new progressive world. When we appreciate what we have with high esteem more shall be multiplied. Creating a happy home is in the hands of men and women who came together as one body from the creation of the universe.

4. "THANKS FOR YOUR LOVE, CARE AND UNDERSTANDING. MY STRENGTH, HERO AND KING".

When a woman or anyone else sent love and motivated text messages to your phone, as a man please do well to keep the fire burning. Don't allow the rolling ball to stop. Love finds it strength in communication and thanks giving to the Most High. But it started with insight and ends in practice.

It is only in thanks giving can we get more of the things we are grateful for and appreciate so much in our lives. The strength of love is openness, confessions and forgiveness. No love last without proper understanding of human heart.

It is the duty of man to study and know the strength and weaknesses of the woman he's staying with. When a woman shows your love, there's no need to doubt the love even though as things changes from moment to moment. 

In conclusion, only God can show men true love without compromising on how well or material riches he has. God's love is unconditional and has many impact in the lives of the people all over the world.

6 PLACES UTURU GODS AND GODDESSES ARE STAYING WITHOUT ANY MAN WORSHIP

 

6 PLACES UTURU GODS AND GODDESSES ARE STAYING  WITHOUT ANY MAN WORSHIP 

In the beginning of the world, God the Father and the All Knowing has placed everything in order. He has created Uturu land in His chosen location around the world. 

Yes, there may be other places in the world more beautiful and powerful than Uturu though, gods and goddesses in Uturu are reigning today in the eyes of others not the indigens. There have been mountains and forest all over the world and different forms of waters around the world too.

There are other hidden places designed from the beginning of creation with fancy caves and artificial designs of past gods and goddesses properties and they lived there without interruptions of any human being. 

To cut it short, below are the six places Uturu gods and goddesses are staying without any man worship:

1. LOCAL VILLAGE STREAMS

Uturians have inherited many sacred sacrifices from their forefathers long ago even before my current fathers. Many of the streams from different villages do not dry up during the hamatan season and one dear not eat the fish that came from such waters.

There are still other streams one can eat its fishes and such streams can dry up during winter season. 

Many of the streams in Uturu are for sacrifices for those that believe in them to solve their problems. As it is believed from the origin, many have claimed to have received children from the water spirits called Mummy water and its' agents. Many others went there for business rituals and other personal problems with the faith of receiving answers.

2. GENERALLY OWNED TREES 

In Uturu land today, some trees are owned generally due to their spiritual attachment to the people and they are inherited from the past fathers and are active in the lives of the villagers who are not considered Christians. 

Truly, some generally owned trees serves public purposes through the seasonal fruits it bears for human consumption because of that, they grow huge and stay long without cutting them down. 

There are still trees that bear eatable fruits but, their fruits cannot be eaten due to its bad effects to the people around it. All these myth if I may say, depends on personal beliefs but few who break the rules hardly survive the visit of the unknown gods. Though, deeply connected Christians avoid such stories and break free in some certain actions.

3. CAVES, STONES AND OR MOUNTAINS

The gods and goddesses in Uturu land today have occupied many mountains and have formed caves almost to all the hidden far away from home places. These caves have been there from the beginning of the world.

In the time past, stories were told about the goddesses of the caves on how they helped the people in fighting wars against their enemies and being so close to the people who know a way of worshipping them. They have left parables with deep meaning and insight in the ears of the people many are still using up to date. 

Many of the parables cannot be found in the bible and it has been another knowledge to the people who remembered the so called Uturu gods and goddesses wisdom. I mean it, this new generation children of Uturu land today can't recall the wisdom of their goddesses.

4. MARKET REFUSE AND ITS SQUARES

Many markets dumping places and its squares are considered places of the gods and goddesses. In another way round, they are mostly visited if there 're something missing in the market place. Many Uturians don't know this talk more of believing in it.

Many considered it abomination or madness to be seen in the dumping places eating while the squares are used too to settle conflicts if lies are involved. Market cross roads, trees and junctions are also considered abnormal in the time of trouble and swearing because they are seen as goddesses dwelling places.

5. ABANDON BUSHES

Truly, in Uturu land as of then, there are bushes dead babies especially twins, men of young who died by unknown reasons are thrown inside the forest for their faith to be decided by the spirits of the ancestors. Such bushes are considered evil and abomination to enter and even to eat fruits from them.

In the olden days, Uturu people lost many of their lands because of fear of going into the abandoned bushes called evil forest.

It is civilization that opens the people's eyes if not, many more lands could have been lost into the hands of the foreigners who were not afraid of our gods and goddesses challenges.

6. TRIANGULAR CROSS-ROADS 

This is a three cross-roads joined together and mostly leads to different part of the community compounds. Many tribes in the world believe this type of the road-cross to be a place of the gods and goddesses. Many rituals are performed in such cross roads not only in Uturu land but, to many other places like Orlu and Anabara states.

As learned, it is believed that both spirits and humans are passing through the roads especially the ones that joined with each other. Many of the rituals done with biscuits, powder, chuwing gum, money, badoo, baby toys and other unmentioned white substances are scattered there after and some eatable things are eaten by birds, ants, or people who are considered unimportant.

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8 HIDDEN THINGS REAL WOMEN NEED FROM MEN BUT HIDE THEM

 

8 HIDDEN THINGS REAL WOMEN NEED FROM MEN BUT HIDE THEM

Real women need alot of things to uphold their dignity but rarely would they open their mouth to mention them before men. A real woman is she who opens her heart for her husband without hidden agendas.

Generally speaking, women tends to test men of their love through demanding material things even when they knew their men are financially challenged. Almost in every family, few women open up for their men while many are less concerned as long as their children are receiving their daily bread and basic training in education and other life endeavors.

Here are the 8 things real women need from men but hide them away in details:

1. COMMUNICATION 

Almost everywhere, even in relationship of young people nawadays, communication is of paramount. Married couples need it most. Many families today are in danger due to lack of communication skills and how to apply it.

Women wants effective communication from men. When men lack the charisma to talk to their wives, sudden family challenges tends to develop more. 

Sometimes, it is difficult for real women to expose or argue with their men when it comes to leading the family ahead. Men supposed to know their work when it's involves issues with their family members.

2. EXPOSURE 

Another thing real women want from their men is exposure. Women like to experience new things, go new places, visit new countries, even go for new hotels for swimming pool outings and also like visiting amusement parks for knowledge and enjoyment sake.

Hardly will a real woman opens up for traveling but the truth is, she wants it bad. Women naturally love travelling together with their families. No real woman in her innerself would not like to travel to a new place for enjoyment and realization of a new way of loving his man. It takes a real man to expose a real woman without grudges in heart.

3. PETTING 

No real woman would not like petting. Another name for women is petting. No matter how mean and determine a woman seems, if there's no petting from side ways, she tends to worn out. Women like petting and need it from their men. It takes courage for a woman to tell her man to pet her for more inner strength.

Women who receive petting from their men either in a relationship or in marriage, gradually builds up inner muscles for growth and success including in their characters. If a man can develop petting habits with his woman, hardly would misunderstanding arises from such a great relationship.

4. NEW UNDIES 

Real women no matter their pretence need new undies but will never tell you as a man. They want men to discover their wants. Men who are much caring understand that women need new things. To click the right button is to buy her new undies without her requesting for it.

Nevermind what they say, do what touches their heart's because it's a real woman thing. No matter how hard it is for a man, if he's not buying for her happiness, he has not started loving. To real women, they never push anyone to buy for them because they can manage. But always know that real women hide their feelings.

5. AVAILABILITY 

You can't be in love with realistic women and be so far to reach. They love available men who take charge of them the way they want it. Real women imagine the unimaginable that's a reason they can stay with all men the first time.

To be a real man in the eyes of a real woman, man must work smart with himself and reason like a co-worker with God he has born to be. Imagine Adam and Eve in the beginning of creation. What could be Adam reactions towards his wife when she is dull and sick?

6. NEW HAIR STYLES 

No real woman would not like new hair styles from time to time. Women generally love plating their hairs with costly hair style materials. It takes a real man to maintain that part of her life style. Even the so called fake women know that changing hair styles is a credit to themselves. 

Real women believes that changing hair styles is a credit to their men. Nevermind, men who know the secrets of real women make a good step in fulfilling all their hearts desires even though as it is difficult to satisfies them. Real women prefer to look good than to have money and be dirty. No matter your religion as a woman, you need to look good all way round.

7. TOLERANCE 

Real women love men who can tolerate their nonsense all the time. No matter how real a woman claims to be or appear, she knows within herself that there's a fault laying unnoticed about her. Every woman pray to have a tolerable man, a man that can endure and even to accept errors when they occur likewise men.

It is not easy to be at the range of real women who almost knew all the things men wants from women. But, if a man can tolerate a woman in all her fuck ups and messes, the real woman in her can easily boast out to benefit the man the more.

8. STRONG MAN

Whether fake or real, no woman would like a dull brain and strengthless man to be with. Women generally love strong men who appear to be physically and emotionally and mentally fit. 

There are men whose worth are high not because of their money rather because of their commitment in loving their wives and living their lives purposes with their families. Real men understands everything relating to women and their secrets.

Sometimes, it is even men who lack the knowledge of not being able to know that they are with real women. These real women love men who are unstoppable in accomplishing their goals. 

If you want to try a real woman's power start pushing your live dreams and get her involved with it. Upon playing your smart game with her, still know that she's a woman with her own little strength and support.

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UTURU LAND IS THE CENTRE OF KNOWLEDGE FOR TOMORROW BOTH IN ART WORKS AND EDUCATION

UTURU LAND IS THE CENTRE OF KNOWLEDGE FOR TOMORROW BOTH IN ART WORKS AND EDUCATION 

Truly, Uturu is the centre of knowledge for tomorrow both in art works and education because of its cool environment in accommodating many institutions in various forms and levels.

Come to think of it, many years ago more than 250,000 thousand years, when the white men invaded Uturu at its earlier stage as virgin lands. When the people are still in their timidity, still believes in their craftiness of their fathers and to make use of what they have in general as a common thing, like; rivers and forest revenues.

What do they have in common? Yes, Uturu have vast spaces of lands that can accommodate almost half billion parents and their children including their future investment and buildings just to say in minimum.

In the mean time, they started dashing it to the white men who came to them as helpers and teachers of knowledge of the universe and God. Because of how enlightened our parents are then, they accepted the white through donating their lands. That's how Western education penetrated Uturu land in the beginning of existence in good faith which liberated the children up to date.

I will not venture into the history or the origin on how Uturu land started to be important to the world at large, rather I would be talking about the development Uturians have made in education insofar as knowledge for tomorrow is concerned.

In the beginning of it all, education stopped in standard six. If you are trained up to standard six, you are there to go and be anything as in profession. Those who stopped in the standard six system of education as of then, are seen as our past heroes who tried their best in investing more energy in impacting to their children through adoptation of new educational system from the government of the white. 

In a nutshell, then and then, great Uturians cope very fast in learning and as well as very strong in manual laboring. The white men found out that Uturians are naturally gifted and decided to explore more in the land and lives of Uturu people and that mark the beginning of Marist journey up to today.

As time passes by, in struggle and insight, impactful Uturians who are spiritually alert started allowing more forms of education in its entirety through building of Nursery, Primary and Secondary schools for its children for enlightenment.

Uturu people develop fast in anything they set their eyes and mind to do. Few schools as earlier as before the war in Uturu were managed by Uturu people as head masters and head mistresses. That's how we have come to grow from then on.

To cut all history short, Uturu has two great universities now which are; Abia State University Uturu widely shortened as ABSU. While the second newly created or built is Gregory University Uturu widely known as GUU.

Nevertheless, there are more lecturers, professors, widely known writters, politicians, clergymen, great artists, world marketers, local and international engineers, all are trained in the institutions built in Uturu land for development and support of self growth.

I don't need to tell you the history of ABSU because the university has passed several challenges through cutists activities which are seriously tackled and defeated. The impact ABSU has left in the lives of many people all over the world are incomparable and with different imput in the development of this universe are coming from ABSU past students. My mother told me, to forget my struggles and focus on the gains. That's what ABSU is doing. Facing development in education and enlightenment inspite of the unforseen circumstances ahead of her.

GUU on its own has started where ABSU stopped. Currently, GUU is training much students from all over the world in different field of studies be it, doctors, engineers, agriculturists, pharmacists and many other unmentioned, all in the land of Uturu. Truly, Uturu is the center of knowledge for tomorrow both in art works and education.

What about the secondary schools in Uturu that scattered all over the communities and corners of the land? Not just secondary schools, they are filled with growing youths who are ready to learn from all field of human development and self discovery in all round. Most secondary schools in Uturu are filled up in populations with boys and girls, only one boarding school is for boys only which is Marist Brothers Juniorate as missionary school since 1962 up to date. 

Many other secondary schools in Uturu like; Marist Comprehensive Academy, Uturu; Holy Cross High School, Uturu; Achara Central School; Uturu Central School; Assumption Model and Technical Secondary School;  Dicksons Vocational College; International Secondary School; All Saint Methodist Secondary School; and other unmentioned schools in Uturu serving secondary purposes. Many of them are boys and girls while there are high hopes of having other boarding schools in Uturu.

In Uturu recently, there are few government schools with assorted private owned secondary schools all over the corners. Many of the secondary schools in Uturu are day schools while few are boarding schools.

Inspite of these schools in Uturu, many more Uturians travelled to other states to study and it is not made compulsory where one should attend his or her secondary school. All that matters to parents is getting the useful knowledge for tomorrow challenges and insight.

There are many others as well who do not go to school due to lack of money or a wrong decision made as a result of wrong self perception they stopped either half way or did not even start for the first time. It is a challenge to parents to train their children in the school system of education no matter the poverty level or background. Those who have more money make it a point to train all their children up to the university level.

It is a common adage in Uturu "that nobody knows the womb that carries a king".

It is true, there are assorted nursery,  primary and secondary schools in Uturu land today with different levels of school fees, uniforms, environment and styles of games e performances. It is not made compulsory to finish in one school one started with, even though as it suppose to be mandatory.

There are many who can start schooling but later in life dropped out as a result of not having enough money, connection or a helper in the community.

In Uturu land today, schools are managed like business centers or organizations to many people. Once you have what it takes to open either nursery, primary or secondary schools, who cares, you are free to start it as long as you gain approval by the government. And, why won't one get approval?

The government needs money to run its daily activities and seek help from individuals who can offer it in any forms. 

One big thing about some school management in Uturu is that, security personnels with different forms of guns are available within the choosen premises. Though, it is God who guard and protect His people always.

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YES, IT WAS THE MOON THAT SAVES ME IN MY DARKEST DREAM MOMENT THOUGH I KNOW GOD EXIST

 

YES, IT WAS THE MOON THAT SAVES ME IN MY DARKEST DREAM MOMENT THOUGH I KNOW GOD EXIST

It's a matter of dreams. I dream dreams most of the nights. There are many of my dreams that are untold but dwelleth in me for reflections. Many people dream dreams that sometimes serves as God's massages and directions. 

The type of dreams one dreams cannot be determined by one's conciousness or mind's power. It is either God or demon that send your dreams to you at at midnight or even in a sudden day dreams. 

Angels of God can save you in your darkest dreams but calling the name Jesus or blood of Jesus saves you more. The same way, demons can hurt or torment you in your dreams sometimes, that's exactly how evil men can manipulate your mind in your dreams using mind power tools strategies. Better learn how to fight against reality manipulations mentally through expansion of your knowledge.

Sometimes, our dreams are determined by our hearts desires and I know many won't agree with this. Some men of God will tell you that, dreams are nothing but revelations and charge you to stop bad dreams coming into reality.

There are still some claimed dream interpreters who can truly tell you the meaning of your dreams on daily basis. 

I believe in dreams but not always because some dreams cannot happen due to its phases of appearance. Like that of my flying dream experiences, it certainly sure that I cannot fly. But man is not God who knows everything and the reason why they happen.

For the sake of knowledge, am going to share how I was saved by the full 🌒 Moon who just appeared on the sky to show me the way out of the forest.

Read it here in full details without an addition:

Before you start, please I want to let you know that, observing the moon or the light of the world at night is considerable. Well, am sorry if I have provoked you. Here is the dream

"There a night in my dream. 

I withhold and noticed my spirit. 

I was running in forest filled in darkness and thorns. 

Legs fast on ground and fear all over my heart. 

I no not what to do, thinking this could be my consumption.

Lo and behold! I looked up. 

And I noticed. 

Light was shining for me. 

I looked up again. 

The moon in it full yellow size. 

Standing and fixing at the middle of the dark blue sky. 

Boldly shining for me. 

Running with me in the dark forest in the same direction am running to. 

As I ran out of the forest. 

I no not what happened again and I woke up or disappeared out of the scene".

That's the big dream that seems to be small. Could this this dream be a revelation? It came as a sign of light. Dear to show me her love. To many who dear to care about the moon, it is a thing of joy to remember to follow the light of the world.

Your joy is in your imagination know yourself inwardly. Search for a soul satisfying mate for unending love. You are loved not only by humans. The Creator is the one who saves with His creatures.

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THE FEARFUL DEATH DREAM THAT MADE ME DIED BUT SURPRISED I WOKE UP

THE FEARFUL DEATH DREAM THAT MADE ME DIED BUT SURPRISED I WOKE UP 

It's a death dream actually. Dreaming of death in a dream may mean alot to the enlighten soul. But to the poor brain, it may be a witch night that may warranty many to visit different men of God.

Most atimes in our lives, the weight of a dream to the dreamer determined the meaning attached to it. Much dreams in the universe today have not manifested while many other dreams have surfaced without appearing the second time. 

Many dreamers are known to be seers especially when they are connected with religion and its associates as self proclaimed prophets and prophetesses around the globe.

You know how most dreams are happening?

I will be sharing this my deadly dream experience that made me think twice the moment I woke up and know am still alive.

This dream is short but has left a memory I cannot easily forget in my life and thought. Anytime I remembered this dream, it seems to me am death before and just surprised living the second time.

Many believed that dreams are imaginations of the heart. Others agreed that dreams are visions or many atimes revelations from God. Still, dreams could be a message or insight coming from the other world unseen.

To cut a long story short, here is the dream I feared so much to talk about. Here comes the details if it is not illusion.

"There a night in my dream. 

I became hold of my spiritual self in the dream world.

I noticed I was inside my uncle's fenced house locked. 

Lo and hehold! 

I turned my back and known and seen a gun short straight to my belly. 

I cried in a loud voice and died! 

Ah! It's my heart. 

I withhold my spirit self. 

I saw myself going out from my body. 

I said to my innerself, so am death in silent! 

It sounds so clear and accepted. 

I noticed looking at my body on the ground unmoved. 

Saying in my heart, oh! Is it how I was out of the earth? 

I sensed my spirit who spoke in me like a real me.

Am out of body and waves took me. 

I was gradually flying up with back while my face was looking down ward to my body in surprise.

Looking down to my dead body and feeling regrets of things I cannot remember. 

Truly, I thought it was real. 

Then and only then, I woke up". 

Body and spirit on bed with an observed fast heart beats. Sound and sick less. Thinking upon thinking in silence. I deep breathed more than twice. 

Man! Hmmm! It's a mark and point. My spirit truly has experienced death. You never can tell, after death what? Ascending! Death experience is heart faint and it's a heart attack. 

If you have gone through this kind of dream before, sorry it shows hard time you work on yourself. It's a sign you are going a spiritual wakening, reminding you that one day you may be out of the body experience.

This dream opened my spiritual eyes to understand that am more than a conquerer. Make sure your spirit and mind do it work, less you are death already.

 

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FIVE SIMPLE ACTIONS THAT TRIGGERS A WOMAN'S LOVE INTERNALLY NOT EVEN MARRIAGE

 

FIVE SIMPLE ACTIONS THAT TRIGGERS A WOMAN'S LOVE INTERNALLY NOT EVEN MARRIAGE

Women generally are soft hearted beings who can be easily moved or pushed about to do a particular thing by men or their children. It is not weak point as many have attributed it to be, rather it is a kind of Gene that runs in women's blood from the Creator of the Universe.

Internal love is equivalent to unconditional love. If women are moved easily, it means they are connected to conditions that affects men and their children deeply as God do. Some people even take God for granted because of His forgiven heart towards sinners.

You knowing these five simple actions that touched women's hearts greatly does not guarantee abuse in anyway, be warned for too much use of anything weakens the power.

Here are the five simple actions that triggers women's love internally:

1. SOFT WORDS

Women in their natural state of being are soft and easy going. It is the love of a man through his words that make a woman's love to over flow from within her bossom like a river and in harmony to her growth around happiness causing her to love with all her heart without evil thought.

Harsh and hard words never perform any wonders in women's hearts rather it get ticker and stronger in hatred and jealousy. If the man continues to use the other side of his voice on a woman, her love tends to shrink back causing her pains and sorrow which can easily affect a man's creativity and success in many ways.

2. UNEXPECTED GIFTS

This one is heart stolen. When a man shows unexpected concern through gifts, birthday wishes card and money, women dear not to reject such attempt. This action alone make women to fall in love more deeply no matter the kind of man it is.

Women don't know whether a man is ugly, fine, rich or poor, what they care most is caring and heart touching man. Women like gifts and love the giver of the gifts. 

You need to know that gifts triggers women's love. And so does it to any human being on Earth. The Bible says that; "the gifts of a man maketh a way for him". Learn how to give precious gift no matter how little.

3. DEFENDING HER

Another point most women won't like to tell a man is their protections. They allow it as a test. Women will test a man to know how truly a man cares. Safety is their first priority.  

When you defend a woman in public even when she's wrong, her love developed more for you. Publicly defend a woman, her love runs up for you. Don't kill yourself for a woman before you agree you love her. Always play it safe.

4. FEEDING HER

Showing a woman caring through provision of food triggers her love. Women don't play with the man who feeds them, provide for her anytime any day. They knew that you should not bite the hands that feed you. When you feed a woman, she would give all her respect to you always.

5. EDUCATING HER

When you educate a woman, it makes her to fall in love without a second thought. Women like to be exposed, they like to know everything from scratch. If you can provide that education for her, she's there for you. Good women like and respect their teachers and those who tends to correct them when they are wrong easily.

To be a woman is not easy. There are many unmentioned challenges women pass through in their lives. Only men who could be able to fulfill and meet up with their challenges can they trust fully with their hearts of 💓 heart without being judgemental. Thank you for your understanding. You are great and precious.

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HOW SOCIAL MEDIA HAS INFLUENCED PEOPLE'S PERCEPTIVE AROUND THE WORLD BOTH MALE AND FEMALE.

 

HOW SOCIAL MEDIA HAS INFLUENCED  PEOPLE'S PERCEPTIVE AROUND THE WORLD BOTH MALE AND FEMALE.

The word social media explains itself. If anything is social, it means versatile and around the world. It involves expansion. The media is a way of communicating to the world. Therefore, social media is an online gathering of people both positive and negative personalities. Because it is worldwide, it involves relevant and irrelevant communications from dual mentality of good and bad people.  It is a way of combining the literate with the illiterate using application platforms such as; Facebook, Instagram, Tiktok and other unmentioned applications.

This social media technology invention has truly created a new set of world in existence. It is an influencial power that only the strong in heart, mind, and the insightful in nature can withstand. In this era, if the wise is not carefully constructed from within, foolishness will swallow him from side ways unnoticed.

Now let's see the good impact of social media influences around the world.

Here are the four impacts people have gained from social knowledge since its invention in details:

1. NEWS UPDATE

Social media truly has served a crucial part in reaching out news to people who are far away. It has served a very big purpose in information discimination around the globe. Without social media invention, the world by now would have been a very difficult place to stay. It has contributed alot even in politics, education sector, commerce and religious institution in awareness creation from far continent. If not social media, news wouldn't have been easy to spread out. But, due to the involvement of social media applications and platforms in different dimensions information communication has been a first hand awareness in view. 

2. RESEARCH PURPOSES

The introduction of social media as a way of  communication into the world has brought new history to its exposure. It has served students from all level including other scholars for easy retrieval of facts beyond human expectation.

It has brought hidden facts out of their sealed packs. Researchers easily connect to underneath the world in bringing updated news to the world. There are influences around the world today due to the availability of technical machines that can study the past and the present of human characters. 

3. BUSINESS EXPOSURE/ADVERTISEMENT

For business experts around the world, social media has make it fast and reliable both in delivery of goods and other services within expected desired date. Without social media involvement in business and politics today, so many businesses would have been death by now and by so doing, it would affect individuals, companies and countries leading to hunger and frustration among continents. War too, would have been rampant because of land conflicts.

4. HUMANITY ADVANCEMENT

In a nutshell, social media has helped the world in fast development of human minds. Many people around the globe have noticed that they can use their craft, gifts or talents from God to create tools, machines or even robots that can perform human works perfectly and even to make money without travelling far. This shows that, we human can co-create with God the originator of all things and be like Him but not him. Social media has brought a new system of operations in the mind of the people today and tomorrow.

Now let's see the bad part of social media influences around the world:

1. BRAIN DISABILITY

This is one of the destructive effect of social media influences to our youths, brain damage, misconception of many things. It doesn't not give room to experience the future without doubt due to the availability of wrong information here and there. Mostly, human abilities are now sometimes equate to that of machines causing devalue of mind power.

2. DISTRACTION FROM UNKNOWN SOURCES

This includes sad stories, fake news we heard and read from platforms displays from different friends who may be staying in different part of the world. The feeling one felt, the bloody pictures, posts and write ups that distract attentions. All the bad news that social media channeled to our head can drastically change ones focus, mislead and  misdirect in a particular business or personal development. Sightless beings hardly recover from this misconception of robotic world creation.

3. SUDDEN CHANGE OF DESTINY

Because of friends influences on most platforms and associates, destiny can be changed from better to worst. A true talents can be humiliated by a friend who may be a worker of the devil. It is on social platforms that good people learn how to be bad. Good personality can be mentored to be bad in order to have a flash car or live on frivolous life style.

 

4. IT WASTE TIME, ENERGY AND MONEY

Social media specializes in wasting people's time, energy and money without mercy of giving it back to them. Money and time can be wasted. People are addicted as if they were charmed by unnoticeable force they can not control. These are inflences of social media to the world that only few can benefit from it. 

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FOUR UTURIANS FOODS THAT MAKE THEM STRONG IN EVERYTHING

 

FOUR UTURIANS FOODS THAT MAKE THEM STRONG IN EVERYTHING

In Uturu land today, food is also a major challenge for the people. Nevertheless, from the beginning of their origin they are created strong or rather I would say, they inherited strength from their forefathers.

Uturians today believed that the type of food one eat contributed alot to the kind of strength he or she has. If you must work hard for survival, make sure you are eating strong foods that can last in the body because strength of the body is also strength of the mind.

Below are the four special and  powerful foods Uturu people don't play with:

1. FUFU (AKPU) 

Uturu people like fufu so much. Why like fufu? Because it is a strong food that last longer than any other food during performing hard works either farm work or building work. Such hard works include; mixing of concrete, clearing bushes for cultivation, tilling of hips and other unmentioned hard works.

Fufu is gotten from cassava roots and one needs to pill it, washed it and put it into big bucket or butter for it preparation of decaying. After four to five days, it becomes ready for eating once cooked. Fufu is a carbohydrated food which is the main energy food that produces glucose in abundance.

To cook fufu as food, the preparation depends on individual method. It has many methods. Fufu can get damaged but there are also a way of preserving it from decaying.

In the time of making choices, out of hundred, nitty eight percent would choose fufu out of gari its substitute. This is not all about fufu. Fufu is relevant to several people in the world today. It can be preserved if cooked for weeks if not months. If eaten with nice soup, you can be as strong as stone with a smooth nourishing body.

2. YAM (JI)

Yam is another strong food in Uturu land today and tomorrow. Yam due to its relevant is being celebrated as Uturu New Yam festival every year as a big ceremony around August to September down to October. As history tells, Uturians don't use to eat yam until they tested it with faithful indigens who lived at Onuzo community.

Yam can be prepared with beans and in many other methods as food. You can prepare yam as in; roosting, boiling, pounding it to form fufu kind of food and preparing it as pourage yam. It has its associate such as water yam, Coco yam, and Unna as in my native language but non can be compared as yam itself.

Yam is as important as fufu in the body system and the cultivation start around February till  May. People also plant yam around June and July as late planting. If you plant late, you don't expect big harvest and your harvest would be late as well.

Almost all tribes in Nigeria are cultivating yam in large quantities though the quantities depends on capital and strength investment. Much capital investment, more harvest. Yam can be preserved up to a year without decaying. Though alots of it in the yam bane may decay without signs.

3. PLANTAIN (UKAM)

Plantain is also a strong food in Uturu. But it's a kind of food that one must mixed it with another type of food before it can become a strong food. The combination of plantain and beans as in pourage, the roosting combination with yam and other vegetable ingredience for nutrition or by boiling plantain with red oil, and it can be fried like yam and be eaten with pap or fried plantain with jellyoff rice.

So, plantain is a strong food for Uturu people. Though, you can't compare it with fufu or yam. Many people would choose fufu or yam out of plantain if presented as a choice food.

It has been said that plantain has more nutrients but I think it depends mostly on the ingredients one used in preparing it. Plantain can be eaten either when ripped or unripped and be enjoyed.

4. BREADFRUIT (UKWA)

Ukwa is usually inherited as a planted tree from forefathers. Unlike other types of food I have mentioned above, they are all planted with season and time but, ukwa has been there as an inherited food. And it is very sweet if prepared very well.

To tell you how important is ukwa, it is only in big men occasions can one see prepared ukwa served. Few individuals don't like it because they have not inherited it and know not about the food. While many more are falling in love with its taste.

Ukwa is very scarce to get because of its value in the chain of Uturu food distribution. There's no season it cannot bear seed. This ukwa normally grow as huge trees and can last on the soil more than four hundred years without dying. It can only be cut down when a higher need arises. You can fry it and eat it with coconut. 

Sometimes, the choices of food depends solely on the individual. But as for me, I prefer the food I have listed above to be my best selected foods in Uturu because they make me strong any time I eat any one of them.

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HOW TALENTED PEOPLE FEEL WHEN NOT KNOWN IN MUSIC WORLD INTERVIEW

HOW TALENTED PEOPLE FEEL WHEN NOT KNOWN IN MUSIC WORLD INTERVIEW

Unnoticed artiste interviewed locally at the backyard of great stars building 2018. I have brought out precious time to intervene on the private success of this unnoticed artiste named Eweke Christian Nkemakolam (stage named - Kotex, Street Lover boy and Nwa Abia) from Nigeria down east side near Abia State Uturu.

When I was interviewing him, he tried his best not to deny his personality rather he shows how trustworthy he has in himself and trust in God Almighty. 

Here is the interview carefully arranged for upcoming young artistesade by Batholomew Obienyi and Eweke Christian the unknown artiste: Here it comes..

Chinedu 

Why do you go into music the first time? Is it for the money, the fame, popularity, or helping the poor or just that you think you have a message to pass across the world?

Christian

Music is in our linage from my forefathers. It has been long in our blood. Then, I have a message to pass across to the world.

Chinedu

What type of message?

Christian

To inspire the poor who thought there's no other hope. There's hope for everybody because God bless everyone. My songs are inspiring by nature and I love it.

Chinedu

What do you do if others try to follow your songs pattern?

Christian

I changed it. But I will not change my intro and what I use as my logo like; I normally use - sail on and the street lover boy. It because anywhere either featuring others, if you hear it you will recognize the voice. That a secret some of the upcoming artistes do not know.

Chinedu

What are the problems you encounter and why didn't you quit?

Christian

Lots of problems. I don't know which one to talk about. Is it money to produce, family setbacks, lost of love ones and others. It's many. I remained in music because am ready to work with God who encourages me spiritually.

Chinedu

How did you believe in God?

Christian

Ha! My brother, if no be God I don't know where I for dey. Because I don't even understand what is going on in my life in the time of troubles but God who knows everything saved me and shows me the way of his enternal blessings. I don't bear grudges in mind and not been envious in other people's success because I knew it is their blessings as I have mine too.

Chinedu

But, who has really helped you out in your songs so far?

Christian

If I am to say, it is my producers. Because many atimes they are the ones who gave me much inspirations to voice and revoice without giving up on me till I make a meaningful song(s) that only bears my name. Producers are the main source of my power because without them directing me - I don't know where I for dey.

Chinedu

What could be your advice to other upcoming artistes?

Christian

They should remove enviness and jealousy and do their own thing their way.

Chinedu

Can you teach someone how to sing even if when singing is not his talent?

Christian

I can teach anybody and he becomes successful. One thing you should know is, not everybody that sings is a musician and not everybody that isn't a singer is truly not a singer. Some singers sing while some other talented self made singers don't sing. The reason is that, not everybody is called up to shine. Shining is the work of God. Because of that, even if you are not a singer I can teach you how to sing and you become perfect. But know that most songs learners stop singing after releasing either blown songs or not sellable because they are not called up singers from the beginning of their creation except by persistency of their own hearts.

Chinedu

What could stop one from becoming a singer after learning it?

Christian

Shame and unnecessary styles of stage performances and imitating others. Another one is not been concentrated on a particular type of songs or lack of self trust and or dry pocket.

Chinedu

Wow. But as the thing be now, what is your fear in the music world?

Christian

My fear? Hmmm. Well, atimes its talking about myself in crowd. I prefer singing and jarating on stage than talking only. But am working towards it's eradication.

Chinedu

How is people close to you view your life as a musician especially as a street lover boy singer? Any idea?

Christian

Yes. Always. I have little idea. Not even my close people also the publics. I noticed those who don't value me through their gossips, tricks, blind communications and unmotivated eye looks on me. Though, I don't actually know because many that I don't expect to hurt me - do hurt me while many I thought hate me sometimes show me love. So, it's by His grace I live life.

Chinedu

Well, in everything I believe you are going to help people as so many prophecy has revealed your abundances to be too numerous.

Christian

Yeah man. By God grace. You know, with God all things are possible.

Chinedu

What type of songs or music do you play?

Christian

Na wao. Hmmmmm. I love to call it hip-up-reggae or hipregg but it seems so many people don't understand it. It's a kind of combination of hip up songs and reggae and I believe they are good to those who listen to my songs everyday. That why I never give up in playing it to the world.

Chinedu

Thank you for your time.

Christian

You are welcomed.

This the end of the local interview. But it's a revelation to upcoming artistes who fear the music world because of selling of souls to the unknown claimed good people of the universe. To live is to reign I would always remind myself. It is a remarkable adage for heroes that, stars only shines in the darkness. Yes, you must pass through hard processes for an upliftment to follow.

 

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TEN UNBELIEVABLE REASONS ROAD ACCIDENT OCCUR MOSTLY IN RURAL AREAS

 

TEN UNBELIEVABLE REASONS ROAD ACCIDENT OCCUR MOSTLY IN RURAL AREAS

There are many unnoticed reasons road accident occurs mostly in villages and developed towns. Some people relate road accident as signs of rituals by evil men or bloody suckers of the dark world or spirits that enters or operate through human being knowingly or unknownly.

Others believes that road accident can be caused by the recklessness of some rough drivers who might be under an influence. Still, when we don't know the root of a thing we don't need to tell stories that affect even the unseen world. Laying blames where there's no blame can be misleading.

Down here are the ten unbelievable reasons most road accident occurs without mercy.

Here they are in details:

1. OVER SPEED

Too much speed can cause a fatal road accident. What could cause over speeding? It could be as a result to meet up for something or just the enjoyment of over taking other vehicles without a second thought of what might happen after.

To control or prevent it, young drivers at heart should think of how precious life is, so that it could not be easily lost.

2. BREAK FAILURE OR ABSOLUTELY NO LIGHT IN THE CAR

This too can be a reason road accident occur by sudden. What could cause break failure? Well, it could be shortage of highdronic oil around some places that needed it and greasing not enough. It could also be lack of vehicle maintenances when necessary. Light is another factor that can contribute in road accident.

To stop this, properly check up on the break, light and see if they should be maintained by drivers without giving flemsy excuses.

3. BEING IN THE INFLUENCE OF DRUGS OR ACHOHOLISM

Some drivers don't know their gage and because of that, they even think that being in the influence would help them drive well. But this is not true. Some even take it as pleasure to be under the influence of drugs while driving. It is not acceptable to be drunk and be on the steering because of the way innocent people who know nothing are dying out of carelessness of drunked drivers.

To stop this, drivers should always drive with passion and caution without been under the influence of too much intake of toxic liquor into the body.

4. STRESS OF THE BODY AND MIND

It is true that people over stress themselves in order to meet up with demands of their services. Due to too much stress of the body and mind at the hours of work, tasks not finished, bosses sending errands and all that's reasons many lives have been wasted.

It is advised dear, when the body and mind are weak, please rest. You can take the horse to the stream but you can't force it to drink water. Likewise, you can manage to take your body to the seat but you can't handle your mind. What is mind if not under the control of a concious man?

5. DARK SUPPER NATURAL MANIPULATIONS

Many drivers have claimed after an accident that it is a super natural manipulation on their steering. They blame God for allowing it happen on them. 

Drivers should know that their beliefs can affect their entire lives, so be intelligent both physically and spiritually to avoid costly road accident. Your inner world controls your out world. Be warned reckless drivers.

6. PHONE CALLS WHILE HANDS ARE ON THE STEERING

This particular one has damaged innocent souls who are drivers. There are drivers who have doudged all other road signs and instructions of things that can cause road accident but have fallen victim to this one - phone calls while driving.

To prevent it, avoid answering calls even if you are looking for directions while driving. Pack to a place and finish your calls for your safety and others too.

7. ROMANTIC INFLUENCE

Careless drivers do romance girls in their car while driving. They take it to be a chance to touch a lady romantically knowing fully well that some girls would close their mouth just to reach to their destination. 

Such idea is not ethical in a developed country. Save your life and help others for a true service of humanity.

8. WICKEDNESS OF THE HEART

There are some drivers who are naturally wicked and arrogant. They rather allow an accident than to give way for over taking.

Wickedness can not make one get what he wants fast nor improves on the peace of mind, please avoid arrogancy and love one another.

9. UNABLE TO CONTROL TIME

Time has been another serious factor road fatal accident happens. Due to rush and hurry to meet up with a sheduelled appointment many have fallen victim. There have been people who are in a hurry to meet up with flight ticket and finally did not meet up due to unprepared time concious. 

Stop been in a hurry to go to a place either with your car or legs. Always prepare in the mind before setting up the moves.

10. BAD ROAD

The last but not the least is bad road.  Bad road has contributed much of the accident in the process of traveling long distances. Another point is errossion, gallops and unnoticed damaged bridges on the way. But in all, road accident occurs when it is not expected.

It happens mostly to drivers who are under influence, wickedness of heart, romantic engagement, phone calling while driving, stress of the body or mind, break failure, tire damage, time run out and sometimes from  super naturally dark manipulations.

Road accident no matter what the cause may be, can be prevented through carefulness of the drivers, thoroughly checking car up before taking off and avoiding all other road  signs not observed. Prayer can still stop unwanted and unprepared accident. As the Bible told us to pray without season. Road accident is one of the biggest reason why we should pray without season because of our dear precious gift of life.

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