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Saturday, March 19, 2022

LEADERSHIP AND CAREER PURSUIT






















LEADERSHIP AND CAREER PURSUIT


The word leadership is the ability to achieve a set goal. It is also the ability to lead, plan and organize others exceptionally well with or without complaint. 

Leadership skill knowledge is the pillar of all successful for men and women who wants to become great in the career of leadership. 

To be a leader one needs to be visionary in nature. To ascertain leadership, one needs to think and act. Visualization and imagination are the most credential ingredients in leadership.

Michael Porter said; Good leaders need a positive agenda, not just an agenda of dealing with crisis’’. John C. Maxwell said; all leaders are followers”

Leaders are courageous people. A leader makes a decision and pursues it together with his team for accomplishment. Leaders think in order to avoid mistakes. Leaders ask questions in order to find the way. 



Leaders don’t fear failures for they know that failures are nothing but pillars of success.

A Career is an occupation or profession, especially one requiring special training, followed as one’s lifework (According to Dictionary.com online).


Being clear about your career gives you inner power to face the challenges on the way. A career is an individual’s journey through learning.

To discover your career, look within yourself. Don’t allow people to choose your career for you, but think before you decide.
Carlton Fisk said; it’s not what you achieve, it’s what you overcome. That’s what defines your career.

Edith Wharton said; there are two ways of spreading the light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it. Your career is what you choose to do, be or follow in life. 

Your career can be wrongly or rightly be influenced by friends, celebrity’s achievement, and social media attachment or online gambling. You must define your career by yourself.

Warren Bennis said; ‘’Leadership is the capacity to translate vision into reality’’. Being aware of your feelings about a particular career in your field of study will help you make the right choice in life. Smart leaders know what they don’t know. Being aware of your knowledge on leadership is the key.

Learning is a constant process throughout your profession in life, and it does not stop when you have become a team leader.

Albert Einstein said; “The only thing that interferes with my learning is my education”. It is the learners who will inherit the earth in times of inheritance and internal life. There is no luck without you being prepared.

Developing leadership skill will help you in your career achievement in life. The question is; what would you do if you weren’t afraid of choosing your career? Be bold enough to choose one particular area in your life to develop. 

The first person to lead is your spirit. when you catch your mind you catch your insight and when you catch your insight you can run far with your followers.


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Saturday, January 5, 2019

UNFORGETTABLE MOTHER WHO LAUGHED AT ALMOST EVERYTHING


UNFORGETTABLE MOTHER WHO LAUGHED AT ALMOST EVERYTHING


She told us to laugh at almost everything.



This is a beautiful poem written for a legendary mother on her sick bed which nature nurtured her. Remembering what my mother did for the world, we couldn't be able to express our feelings only in mere words, so we write just to please her soul in the land of the living. 

This poem depicted love from mother to children. Make sure you show your own love to your mother. How can we forget you Bridget Obienyi?


UNFORGETTABLE MOTHER
This is unforgettable story
I heard from my mother
This is unforgettable story
I heard from my mother

My mother said to me
Son, never you get worried
About things       
Laugh in all situations-
You are not the cause
Work hard to eat;
Love people, help people
God is the one that pays.
God is the one that reward
In all you do, just eat your meals

My mother struggles in life
Because of me
My mother said to me,-son;
Don’t leave your sister alone;
Help her finish her education
I have tried my best for you
Try for your sister too

Mother, in all she do
Was for me
 She‘ll work;
She‘ll beg;
She‘ll ask
She‘ll cry;
She‘ll fight;
She‘ll laugh
All for me;
So that I can live my life
In my freedom.

Mother, I thank you for your love
Mother, I thank you for your love
You‘re so great, so kind!
God will bless you
First for me
God will reward you first for me
I‘ll make your name, your face,
Your smiling face will be  immortal to men
I‘ll see your smiling face

And remember; the wisdom of smile
You taught me
 I will not allow hunger
To beat you; 
I will never put shame
On your face
I will never see you dirty
Oh-ohooooo-ooooo sweet
Mother; my unforgettable mother
I promise you
I will never forget the wisdom of smile
You taught us
Only God can reward you
For me

Mother, wherever you are,
You are a blessing to humanity.



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Tuesday, October 30, 2018

FIVE SECRETS OF GROWING PERSONALITY





















FIVE SECRETS OF GROWING PERSONALITY


   
Personality is your identity and the way you present yourself to the world. It is how you carry and express yourself. It is your beliefs about yourself. It is how you allow others to express themselves towards you and around you. 

Your personality visibility may not really be who you are because it can be faked. But how do you want to pose before the masses? What and who do you want to be?

Building personal personality depends on intellectual capacity to think, your IQ rate of imagination, perception and the level of awareness of knowledge you possess

The understanding of the word 'personality' or individuality has various advantages to the person in view.
Your personality can be influenced by your mentor or life coach if you have or the environments. You may decide to live your life following foot steps of someone you admire to be your role model.

You could also decide to grow your personality yourself without being influenced by anyone despite what going on around you.
There are some technical inventions that can make you want to change your inborn characters thus:   Technologically and scientifically already made developments.

Developing your standard personality start from earlier stage for many individuals. Those who change alongside others as they advance in life are the learners and to be a learner is good. 

They do not allow their growth to depend on friends, religious gathering pattern or family and environmental influences invade their mental privacy. 

Because of that little blockage from others, they change their perceptions from who society want them to be, to who they want to really become. And this is common but expensive shift from their original self, it brings in blessings in their lives.

Changing your real personality is not good because it has led many men and women to greediness, wickedness, loneliness and unhappy because they are not living their true inner selves expression of who they are naturally.
 
There are few things I will share with you that can cause one to divert from the original personality that one held in mind.
These are:


1. FRIENDS AND FAMILIES INFLUENCES:

These are the main reasons many individuals change their views and their original selves in life. 

When one looked around one's friends and families behaviors as in dressing codes, worship or social participations for examples and their interactions with the environments are totally different from your own, inferiority set in, and because of that, one quickly decide to join instead of leaving them and trusting intuition. 

You join because of shame of criticizing, laughing out, and the fear of rejections. To take your stand in the world allow nobody to change your personality views because if you do, you will not be happy, either achieve your heart desire and moreover you have not truly lived a life of boldness and fulfillment. 
Don't allow their influences to work on you.


2.     SOCIAL MEDIA MISUSE OF TIMELINE UPDATES: 

Due to one attachment with friends on social media wrong activities and associations, changes of pictures every hour and every day, which made some people to appear in different styles every minuets of the day, you decided to join in their crew in order to follow up. 

Once you give in to their whim, you gradually turn your characters and views on your preferred personality. Avoid push up of friends on social medial interactions and postures. 

Decide to become yourself and live life according to your own principles which must for sure has it own consequences and beauties nut let it be of your own making. In all these things, be committed to your personality advancement. 

Follow your heart beat calling in everything you do. Show your gifts. Promote yourself.


3. CHANGE OF BUSINESS IN ORDER TO MEASURE UP:

Growing your personality start from kid. The ability to stick to your chosen career  or decisions. 

The power to live your world the way you believe it to be is your ultimate right. The power to give life your own meaning. 

Many, because of measuring up or contracts allocated to them made them change their views from who they really are to who they really don't want to be. 

Rhonda Byrne said in the Secret movie; ‘’follow your bliss”. Serve the world with what you have inside. Your gifts Not one but Many. Be rooted in your business. 



4.    PRIDE DURING MATURITY: 

The sense of been matured always linked itself with pride. When you discover that dressing code, a set pattern of behavior and a particular life style always causes a setbacks and once the mind get hooked up, personality begins to thwart. 

The problem with priding during maturity is that the person involved becomes so blind to his real life visions because of lack of maintenance and conception on personal power of concentration on personality which aids human development. 
Humble yourself so that you will not fail woefully. 




5. RELIGIONS AND POLITICS INVOLVEMENT: 

Religion or politics does not change you. It is the people that you follow inside it that helps you in redirecting your perceptions of your individual personality wrong concept. 

Discovery and following your inner vision can boast personality. Don't forget the small still voice in you. Listen very attentively. 

As you read to this extend, It is expected of you to take charge of your world by building and rebuilding your every angle of self development. Moreover don't forget to drop a comment let's see how you feel. To work with us simply visit here  




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Monday, October 15, 2018

FIVE RESPONSIBILITIES OF ANY ARTISTE


FIVE RESPONSIBILITIES OF ANY ARTISTE  

 


                                     
                                            

To understand yourself is to recognize your gifts of nature. The  gift in you is very special. And it needs to be treated with ultimate care. We have gotten this inspired responsibilities of singers who which to sing more,  be more, and do more with what they have within.  

To reap the fruits of your talents discipline should be a watch word. These days, artistes find it difficult to be popular or make enough income with their songs due to the level of education needed to excel in music industry this present time is not there.

Crafty artistes hook up with  insightful managers who bear almost the progress of the artiste at heart. If there is one thing an artiste must need - good manager not necessarily money. Just a nice manager. 


As you  go through this article find a way to communicate with us. We can help you archive your music career by sharing you information that motivate your soul to achieve more with your songs. 



These five responsibilities are listed below:



This take place on your social Medias interactions with your fans. For instance; creating a dedicated account with Facebook, Instagram, Youtube, Twitter, LinkedIn Skype, and Google plus and lots more. 

How you hold or build fans here matters in your growth. Be careful because your real friends surely may not belong to your list of fans in line. Again, learn how to interacts with your fans because they are your big income at least your beginnings.



This is a compulsory survival rule for all artistes to develop. Any show performer must value himself first whether popular or not. Loving oneself is the core ‘thing’ for an artiste to be valued by others.  

I will not tell you here the kind of dressing you are to appear, just wear your best, let your dressing be inspiring from within. It’s a spiritual inspiration and attraction that brings favor to you. 



Learning how to interact with others is necessary. Musicians of all kinds are able to interact with others especially with fans that come from foreign countries to follow him or her up on social medias. 

Making connections is necessary for crafty singers to rise above their competitors who don’t measure up. Mastering interactions and interviews with the world language pushes the singer above every other celebrity in line.


 4. SOURCES OF KNOWLEDGE:  

It is the work of any singer to redeem himself because disappointment hurt the heart of any star-artiste. Even though most claim to be busy on studio work but that not enough reason to be dull about your talent development. 

No matter what the  reason could be, it is not an excuse for any person who fails to recognize his  own sources of inspiration. 

Whatever that is inspiring you to act in public, should be honored greatly. Your source could be a musical company or a grown known fellow artiste.

 

It is the responsibility of show-guys to know their best help platform and select the type of friends to maintain. 

Since stars beings have many fans and friends who claim to love them. Artiste don’t easily recognize the ones that come for their good or destruction. 

So it is his duty to protect himself mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually first before any other thing come in the process. 

If you are a made-artiste or up coming, it is good you keep on improving in your talents  till the day you will be tired.  

Remember you should finish what you started through raising other artistes like you. Keep your linage and pattern of songs going.  


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Friday, October 12, 2018

SINGLE REASON AN ARTISTE IS DOOMED TO FAIL























SINGLE REASON AN ARTISTE IS DOOMED TO FAIL 


If you are looking for the one person who can make you blow in the music world, look for a manager who understands your mental state and life styles when it runs out of control. 



Any manger who really know the power of his artiste mind, indeed  has the key of success. 

Managers possess the powers of reading artiste's mode or state. That's why obeying manager's instructions for artiste is the only key of survival for upcoming artiste mostly.  


 A musician has many opportunities to succeed and many challenges to fail as well. But there’s one single reason a well talented singer fail to become popular in the society he lives in.

Many singers today think that they are talented and because of that, they refuse to obey any person that comes around to help especially when it turns on agreement. 

A singer who wants to succeed in the music industry has to be discipline and intelligent and crafty too. To be intelligent is to recognize other people’s talents. 

He should be able to know when his environment is changing form, so that his pride will not push him backward.

The single reason could be fake talent or educational background some may say. Another  may think on monetary aspect or lack of songs promotion


Well, all these are reasons but here is the only hidden reason a well talented artiste fail to grow in the industry.

The single reason is management!

A musician thought in his heart that he is everything and complete since he’s talented among others and thinks he can do it all.

To succeed as a singer, one needs a manager.  A manager takes control of all the activities of the singer without a hidden self gain or pride. 

A manager over sees everything, plans everything, connect everything, spread everything, accept everything good for the growth of the singer without compromising his personal interest. 

The manager reasons about success because that where he specializes. He knows how to do it all well including hosting of shows.

Many artistes today who failed in their career or gifts failed because they did not recognize others talents as a talent. Nobody succeed alone. Managers are high gifted in the music industries today. When it comes to promotion online they are there.

Few who succeed do so because they do the opposite. They have managers who take control and direct them in time. This happens mostly in undeveloped countries or cities especially artistes that are not well socially educated.

To overcome this single failure, a singer or even a dancer succeed fast and easy simply by having a strong bold intelligent manager who are visionary in nature and are insightful in all areas of new technological inventions.

Singers who are versatile tends  to  choose an open minded manager who is vast in social media networks and other areas.  

Crafty managers fuel the success of their singers who have bend down his spirit and ego for public services not priding around like say he’s the most famous and talented guy in town.




Finally, managers in the other hand have been blessed with characteristics of making an artiste or ready-mad- singer blow to the air and or to the internet as if to say the world is too little. 

Artistes who want to make it in music industry are ready to obey manager’s commandments. 

While managers amd promoters who want to help any artiste do so because they are insightful and visionary by nature. They are God’s sent people to musicians.



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