PURSUING SHADOWS OF PERSONALITIES

    

PURSUING SHADOWS

BE MORE SELF REALISTIC TO THE REAL WORLD.

STOP PRETENDING AND BE MORE FOCUSED TO WHOM YOU ARE CREATED TO BE.

But I tell you today that it is the fake beliefs about whom we are not in real life that causes many of us hearts bleeding and much pains.

Stop, and look deeply into the kind of knowledge and people you follow, you will know that all your days you have been busy pursuing a faked lives. 

       

PURSUING SHADOWS OF PERSONALITIES

Man is busy on earth, laboring and acquiring what he cannot keep, but the fundamental issues of life has he neglected.

Truly life is sweet, and the pleasant things is for the eyes to behold the sun shines, but if a man live many years, and rejoice in them all, yet forget to remember the days of darkness, he lived but not fully.

All that cometh is vanity. (Eccl 11:7-8).

Sometimes you are unsatisfied with your life, while many people in this world are dreaming to live your life.

A child in a farm sees a plane fly over his head and dreams to fly.  

But the pilot in the plane sees the farmer's house and dreams of returning home. That’s life! So, enjoy yours today.

We are living in a generation where men desire to be given money without the zeal to know the sources of money. 

It is said that one dollar earned is better than the ten dollars gotten.

This is a generation where virtually all men are striving so hard pursuing shadows of personalities that almost all men have become “professional shadow chaser”.

There have been total misconception and misconstructions about the real things of life, but the truth remains that every reality of life has a shadow part of it side.

Which shadow are you pursuing?

The Apostles of Christ once pursued shadows, preferring to remain in Jerusalem just for them to maintain their “close-contact-relationship”.

Until Steven was tired they did not want to separate from each other. Remember the instruction was for them to go “go to the world and preach the Gospel to all Nations”. (Matt 28:19-20, Mark 16:15-16).

But then, when that great piercing “lightening” of persecution came against them, they all took to their heels and that marked the beginning of the real journey to their vision in life - a mandate from God.

What do you pursue and what should you pursue?

Don’t pursue ambition for it is only the shadow of vision!

Don’t pursue money for it is only the shadow of hard work!

Don’t pursue fame for it is only the shadow of diligence.

Don’t pursue position for it is only the shadow of integrity.

Don’t pursue salaries, wages, stipends, and pension for they are only the shadows of the great wealth buried in you!

Don’t desire to secure a job which can be lost at anytime, rather pursue to create jobs which will employ as many as possible and put their visions through in life.

Live your real life. Stop fake living. Be more realistic. Be flexible!

It is disheartening how the youths and everyone are running away from their responsibilities. 

People who are only looking forward to be employed in already made jobs. 

We have been trapped in this mess for so long that we also desire everything to be already made for us. 

We desire our food, cloths, language, job environment to be already made only for us to enjoy.

The only thing left is for us to ensure our lives into the hands of others to live for us while we rest in the grave.

Everyone is turning to the pursuit of shadows. 

Why?

Pastors who are called for a primary purpose of preaching the gospel to all nations, (Matt, 28 and Mark 16) have turned the visions of God into their own ambition. 

They are now preaching money to all nations not minding whether the souls are saved or not. 

They are not caring whether the multitudes they are living in their pockets have any source of livelihood or not. 

The preachers of this generation have their conduit pipes streamed down into the pockets of their congregations to fatten their bank accounts through establishing of schools and other firms which should be targeted at alleviating the poor standard of living.

Others engaging in one diabolic activity or the acquiring of powers to perform magic in the name of miracles and the ability to convince people to donate into their own pockets. This  was the same error that  Jesus Christ corrected in the lives of the Apostles who were sent to go and preach the Gospel only to come back rejoicing, not because of the souls that was saved nor their names that was written in God’s book of life; rather because demons were cast away and miracles performed. 

In response, Jesus told them to rejoice because of the vision of God which was carried out and fetched them their names being written in the book of life and not for the ambition of popularity in ministry which flooded their minds (Luke 10:1-24).

The pursuit of shadows and frivolities of life leads to frustration, disaster, shame, everlasting regret and unfulfilled vision in the life of many human beings.

Still in the ministry! There are still many “Judas Iscariot” in the house of God who are still looking for their victims, people whom they will sell their conscience to enrich their “suicide pockets”.

Awake! Be aware!  Be renewed in the mind.

Stop pursuing shadows! Come to light.

Men have been so intoxicated with the wine of ambition that they seek for every available means of catching the shadow called money; and can do anything just to have some raps on their palms. 

The ambitious state of man had turned him into a ritual killer.

Killing those who are meant to celebrate them and only leaving those who will make mockery of them behind. 

So we hear some works like: “be careful with that man before he changes your destiny.

Others embarking on robbery and fraud that they have turned the government and the society into their enemies, several others are swayed out by the taste of the “pea-nut” in their mouth that they don’t see the real food before them.

If money is the secret of happiness, the rich should be dancing on the street by now.

But only the poor kids dance on the road.

The rich in our society has been blinded by the food on their table that they don’t even recognize the presence of  Lazarus who has humbly brought Heaven to their table, but today, they gnash their teeth of suffering and regrets living in past glory.

If beauty and fame bring ideal relationships, then celebrities should have the best marriages but those who live simply, walk humbly and love genuinely.

Politicians are so conscious of money that they don’t even know their constitutional duty less to talk of their own mandates.

If power ensures security, then officials should walk unguarded but only those who live simply sleep soundly.

Which profession is free of this shadow pursuit?

Medical practitioners prefer money to saving lives and are always ready to change life with money.

The legal practitioners are so conscious of “pea-nut money” that they see the truth and turn it upside down. 

Others are willing to but because of “who has interest in the case”. Like Pontus Pilate and Cephas in the case of Christ.

Is it not because of money and fame that many are been lured and trapped in the occultism circle just to remain in position and maintain their money?

The pursuit of shadow ends in disappointment and frustration at a point in a man’s life.

Many have been so blind that they don’t know the differences between the real things of life and the shadow in their entire life because they are busy pursuing fake and abominable things of the heart.

Imagine yourself walking in darkness, and then looking forward, you saw an image in human form and you earnestly pursued it because you were so afraid of the darkness and what it comes with.

Therefore you needed a companion to walk and talk to. On getting closer, with that full assurance and confidence that “at last, you found a companion”, a very mighty lightening struck only for you to discover that you have been pursuing shadow. 

Oh! What a sadness, pain, regret and depression that will fill your heart?

That is how life is.

A great philosopher Dr. J. Okorafor from his book ‘Rivers of Wealth’ said; “No water keeps running in season and out of season if it had no fountain, only a fool would believe to have gotten a pool of water for quenching his thirst knowing fully well that it has no fountain”.

Money is a shadow of wealth. When the light of sickness, economic meltdown, and lack of planning, fraudulent actions struck, the shadow disappears. 

Focus in digging out this treasures in you then money will follow up. 

First seek the kingdom of God and every other things shall be added unto you said Jesus Christ.

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TALENTS ARE NATURALLY GOTTEN

TALENTS ARE NATURALLY GOTTEN

USE YOUR TALENTS TO SERVE THE WORLD

Talent is a natural ability to do something very well. 

There are as many talents in the world as there are sands in the ocean.

Think about Wood Carvers! The stress they passed through before accomplishing a particular goal.

Talent is a gift from God. When you discover the potentials in you, you become unstoppable. And moreover, you become more alive. In other words, your talent is your inborn instincts. They need to be guided and worked on for development.

Living life according to your own principles and believing in God with all your heart in doing what you call truth is what I called Liberty. 

''Follow your bliss'' - very old adage  that great men never abandoned outside their heart. Follow your heart even if you meet failures on the way. The more you fail, the more you learn.

Talent is a natural ability to do something well and everyone has it. Discovering and believing in your talent is your job and a great job indeed. It is true that talents can be cultivated and learned even when we thought we have no talent. Just pick one or two out there, you are on your way.

Lary Bird said; "A winner is someone who recognizes his God-given talents, works his tail off to develop them into skills, and uses these skills to accomplish his goals".

A goal is something you hope to achieve in life. You may have short or long time goals. It all depends on who you think you are and what you thought you can accomplish.

Look at what the Bible says about talent..

One of Jesus’ most significant parables regarding work is set in the context of investments (Matt. 25:14-30). A rich man delegates the management of his wealth to his servants, much as investors in today’s markets do. 

He gave five talents (a large unit of money) to the first servant, two talents to the second, and one talent to the third. Two of the servants earn 100 percent returns by trading with the funds, but the third servant hides the money in the ground and earns nothing. The rich man returns, rewards the two who made money, but severely punishes the servant who did nothing.

No talent is useless no matter who has it. Putting your talent into work is the starting point of growth. 

It is the recognition of this talent that gives life meaning.

Positive and negative actions are the only two powerful forces that can either hinder your progress in life

or take you to another step of prosperity.

 These influences are the only two words that can change one's views in life.

 They may be inform of your friends, peer groups, your church, your family or even your environment or the things you watch or do in social media. 

It is your duty to choose. You are giving this 'powerful chance of choice' to make.

Erica Jong said; "Everyone has talent. What rare is the courage to follow it to the dark places where it leads". 

You must believe in actions, consistency, work and in yourself too.

F. E. A. R. according to Zig Ziglar means: "False Evidence Appearing Real". 

The best way to grow in life is to be goal oriented individual. So many people trust in luck without knowing that luck is a matter of preparation meeting opportunity. 

To shine, one needs positive people around him. To grow more, one needs to develop one's idea and the potentials in him. 

Potentials are undeveloped talents in you. Potentials means the power to change everything.

There are many more talents to talk about. There are people who have great talents without recognizing it. Do not doubt your inner self for what It tells you. You are who you say you are. Know thyself the bible tells us.

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SIX STEPS ON HOW TO SET A GOAL AND ACHIEVE IT

SIX STEPS ON HOW TO SET A GOAL AND ACHIEVE IT

To set achievable goals in life, one needs to know what his or her goals are within oneself.

A goal is simply described as one's desire to have, do or achieve a particular thing in life within a specific period.

A goal could be reached and also could be denied by nature or by God. Nevertheless, your inability to meet up some necessary challenging situations in your life time can also be another factor of not reaching out for the goal.

So, know you too well that once a goal is set, the next mile is unknown. 

It is your faith and work in yourself that would contribute to the success of that goal.

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The six steps on how to achieve set goals are your gate way to succeed in what ever it is that you would want to have in life.

Here are the six important steps to take:

1. KNOW WHAT YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE

Yes! The first thing to know is to be aware of whatever it is for you that you want to achieve. Know the goals you want to reach. After that, apply sets of strategies towards some guided directions.  You can do this, success must come through your endurance and perseverance without complaint.

2. WRITE IT DOWN

This too is a powerful way of reaching your goals. You must write your goals down before achieving it. Many people who fails to reach out to their goals in life is as a result of not applying a written down steps. 

Not having a follow-up rules which would be in books is flawed. All great achievers know this number two as a necessary step to follow. Always write your actions down before going for what you might want.  

Write whatever you wish to accomplish in your life down in a book only for the goal and see how fast you reach that goal.

I named it, 'Your Goals Book'. This book is important in your entire life existence. If lost or stolen, create another goal book.

3. REVIEW YOUR WRITTEN DOWN STEPS ALMOST EVERY DAY

It is good you have taken the first bold actions by knowing your gaols and having the ability to pen it down. 

Nothing is left out only but you need to review your written down steps from time to time with out delay not allowing friends and families to distract you from reaching that powerful goal you have set. Obstacles will come, but by His grace you will jump and pass them.

4. MAP OUT DATE AND TIME

Date and time is what shows your progress in setting out for a goal set. You should always check dates and the time you have planned to actualize any goal you have set up. With consistency and trials, your set goals must surface on Earth one day.

Be time conscious in any  gaol you have decided to set. Without time frame, you could spend your life time pushing wrong heart desires. Your goals are your true heart desires and should not be played upon.

Without heart desires accomplishment, happiness maybe difficult to attain. Follow your heart bliss.

5. VISUALIZE PEOPLE AND EVENTS

This is a secret. This is the real thing we must know and practice every day by day by 'visualizing everything you want to come your way' many great people in the world would not be able to reveal to you this secret. It's simple and common but being neglected for years.

But if one put visualization to test or work, marvelous will be the person's name. You need to visualize your set gaols inspite of every other hidden challenges you are passing through in life. Visualisation is a good thing to practice and be a professional participant in reviewing your life in your mind first and foremost.

6. BE AN ACTION ORIENTED PERSON

YES! You must be action oriented person. You must be ready at all time to sacrifice your body and spirit for the universe to see how dedicated you are in service of your call or destiny.

To take actions is to be bold enough to love the process you have chosen to attain. To achieve happiness and be fulfilled inwardly without regrets of any kind is to work tirelessly in your daily life experiences. 

Therefore, to set a goal in life is necessary for personal growth and happiness.

What is crucial is to set a meaningful gaol so that if achieved would be a worthy decision one has made while in the entire big room of the universe. 

Your purpose is to help provide inspired solutions for the masses.

Follow your heart and live long life.

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MUSICIANS CONFERENCE PHASE ONE

                                                               

MUSICIANS CONFERENCE - PHASE ONE   

Here are two great ideas shared by  Mr. Eweke Christian and Mr. Sunday Chilagbara about music and its appearances in a conference.

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You may be surprise why we want you to read down the post to see whether you are truly a called up artiste or not.

Naturally, every born person on Earth is an all weather artiste. You are filled up with bundles of creativity inside of you. 

Those who failed to recognize this gift in them but hunger for it are the real people music exist for because it's only true listen of songs they can be recalled back.

This musicians conference pointed out some of the hidden points why so many singers failed to achieve their target as  called up artistes. 

So as you patiently read scroll down the page, you will see how these artistes break through in the industry though still coming up and they have jumped in to the moving train.   

This is the gathering of musicians from different homes who have decided to take the bull by the horn.

It is a conference of artistes sharing ideas on how to move forward in music industry.

Many things about music will be revealed and the secrets about artistes making more money with their gifts both online and offline will be exposed.

Christian Eweke  - Kotex Get it all here

As a born artiste he said, you have lots of opportunities to survive in taking music as your best career or making it a hobby. 

Most failures in music industries today are due to lack of concentrations in one’s song.

As we are going to read what a newly signed artiste by Ugo Best Global Entertainment said about his experiences so far in his entertainment struggling field. 

There are other great artistes you will hear their stories as you continue reading.

First, Eweke Christian like I said is newly signed artiste in the town of Uturu Isuikwuato Abia State. He’s the happiest young artiste in town. 

He was signed in Ikorodu Lagos State on August 10^th, 2018.  He has tirelessly worked from his childhood without giving up in taking music as his life calling career. 

He believes that one day as God may have it, his success and legendary life journey will start.

Though, Kotex has tried working as a team with other singers and rendering his support to other musicians who want to grow like him. 

As a matter of fact, he stayed first in one Local Entertainment named Mvoice Entertainment.

He was the Director of Music as of that time. He taught others how to sing freely without obstruction of tune cracking.

Kotex believes that destiny can be delayed but cannot be denied. He reveals in this conference that his mother – Uzoamaka the wife of Elisha Eweke who in her earlier age was a football star. 

His mother according to him went through life in her adolescence with the hope of becoming Nigeria African league player but it turns out to be as God plans it, she was attacked which led to her downfall as a football star in the world.

Christian explained that her mother was blessed and strong as well, that he believes some of her blessings from God are what gave birth to him as a born artiste star. 

Since this discovery of truth between him and the mother, he doesn’t play with his mother because of the natural connection from her mother’s womb and gene.

In this gathering of musician’s conference 2018, Christian’s speech about music inspires many of us that were present. 

He finally said that; for you to make it in the music world you have three things to work on:

1.   Be  focused

2.   Develop endurance as a skill

3.   Have faith in God.

Focus, endurance and keeping my hands out of anything called ‘Juju’ are the keys of any artiste to be a happy musician who want to make a huge impact in the world of music. 

Unlike others who believes in ‘Jaz or juju’ and failed on the way, kotex in this musicians conference reveals that his breakthrough  mostly is as a result of his endurance and cooperations with others and God.

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Mr. Sunday Chilagbara

Here is another great multitalented and not noticed gospel artiste who shared his experiences as a keyboardist player since childhood stage named Nyomis Mlk. 

He’s serving God’s servant in the Power of God church Uturu.

This great artiste though has not met with his expectations in the music industry shared his ideas so far in the music world.

He said that music is as a result of combination of sounds and vibrations that when skillfully combine together produce a meaningful song.

Music has a spirit that controls it. Musicians are carriers of life. Sunday said, if you must excel in music world, you should focus on your targeted audience and the message your songs carry.

He centers his idea on how an artiste can make a good songs. 

YOU ARE YOUR TALENT CLICK HERE. 

He made mention of few strategies that could lift up any novice in any part of the world to great height.

Things he made mention of includes:

1.   Finding a Good Title for Your Song

2.   Structuring Your Song

3.   Rewriting or Re-reproducing Your Song

4.   Continuously Practicing Until Perfection

Having a good song has to do with your discipline towards people that you come in contact, people you follow, and people who you think are your role models. 

You, having good songs have to do with your lyrics, rhymes, patterns and the intonations of the singer.

How he/she twist his voice during production is very much necessary to the growth of that singer.

            Build yourself here

For you to have a good song, you need to learn how to relax, think, make solitude your friend, copy less artistes and focus in your own inspirations of the messages you want to pass across the universe. 

To grow in music industry, you must follow other great artistes and learn from them.

Follow this link to listen, download and stream #NyomisMlk songs.

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BEST ADVICE FOLLOW IT

BEST ADVICE FOLLOW IT

YOU ARE GREAT!  YOU DON'T NEED TO COMPLAIN!

Hello my people of this world, for long now many individuals are complaining about the hardship of the country currently.

I want to give my best advice now only for the people in this world only if you can read down the post that would be great and good.

I don't want you to complain even if you are dying. Because, what you focus your attention on for a long time get bigger. Do not look at the hard side of the situations, look for solutions.

If what you are doing currently is not going well with you and you are hurts by the way things are rapidly changing, you can put a stop to it and look for another thing to do without waste of time. But, you need to be patient and pay attentive to your innerself.

There's no need hanging in there. The great Edison was the greatest quitter - he quit many times before his success.

If you have failed in many things please don't give up, keep trying new things,
keep believing, keep pushing, keep learning new ideas, keep saving money for the unexpected business that would soon jump out from the conner for you to trend on,
keep loving others in truth, keep educating the young ones, keep your good works on, keep focusing in your talents, keep dreaming high and keep obeying the rules of God, because failures are nothing but pillars of success!

Uturians has great talents but they are lacking promoters. I know this content would serve a very big purpose in the lives of the people in the future.

If you have read down here thank you for that.

Still share your talents, gifts, ideas to the public.

You must and should serve as a motivational and inspirational person for people who are getting down spiritually, emotionally, physically and otherwise. That's what God wants us do for other people.

If you want Uturu people to move forward in life especially the talented ones (remember everybody is talented).

Know thyself the Bible let us know that.

YOUR TALENTS MUST SHINE BEFORE YOUR END

IF YOU MUST LIVE, LIVE TO REIGN TO YOUR END

YOU ARE BORN GREAT AND TO FOLLOW YOUR INNER GIFTS FROM GOD. 

You need to do great things with YOURSELF!

If you don't believe yourself  you will not grow.

You need to know that there's someone somewhere who trust you, agrees with your good works and automatically don't  judge you. 

Knowing this is good enough to trust yourself first. 

If somebody somewhere can believe you, what of you not believing in yourself?

Believe yourself first is the best courage you need to meditate within oneself especially in this hard times.

If you believe yourself you would see the good things in the world even if many are not seeing it for you.

The world is good.

The world is organized.

The world has many good people in it.

The world is a world of wisdom.

The world is a principled world.

The world has talented  people everywhere.

The world provides for it dwellers.

The world saves.

The world knows itself.

You can eat fruits and be satisfied

but you cannot eat money and be satisfied.

Fruits is more valuable than money. 

You can use money and buy fruits

But money cannot produce fruits.

It is even good to have excess fruits at home than excess money that cannot be used on humanity welfare.

Only war without end would  make you believe the importance of fruits

To Live Is To Reign....

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His Crafty Thinking I Record

HIS CRAFTY THINKING I RECORD

My behavior marvels my parents - said my little boy named 'Success Chinedu. They  thought I would not be serious and mean until I showed them this WAHALA. This was my idea on how I understood my boy mentally. And I tried my best to make him up.

My wife would be surprised if she read this peice of story I have told and written down about her son she named CHimerenkea right when he was inside the womb.

I just decided to write my experience about my son I named, Success from womb.

So, read this designated life observation. I know you would learn with such stories.

My name is Success Chinedu Obienyi from Agbama Amaidi Achara Uturu, Isuikwuato Abia State, Nigeria. 

My parents loved me and I loved them too.

Always they try to do their best for me as I try my own best to be obident to do their will and also follow my own heart desires as a three years old boy.

Since I realized myself as a little child, I have watched my parents on their discussions about my education or more so my training in school. 

This short video was part of  his attitude we cannot over look. Just watch it now!

I have indicated my interest about my schooling any time I saw my fellow little children going to school. All the time, I would cry to my nearest friend who is my mother, that I want to go to school. Normally, I pronounce it as, shukulu (school) and she laughed at me on the prounciation.

 

About two weeks ago, my mother promised to persuade my father for registration into nursery one but to start from third term. I know my father would agree inspite of it's urgency. 

I pray always in my heart for my father to make a lot of money before I grow up and I know God will answer me as a little child of his beloved parents.  

As days passed on, I over heard my parents talking about my schooling. Though they was planning big for me but I would accept their short coming now because I knew things were hard this period. 

So, I would accept any school they decided to register me as a pupil.

Days passed as schools resumption approaches, they HUSTLE WITHOUT REST FOR ME TO JOIN OTHERS IN SCHOOL. I know it.

And I am willing to make them proud. Despite their struggle, I continued to practice within me what my mother has long taught me when we are free. She wants me to learn the English Alphabet that's; A, B, C, D, E, F, and the numeric counting of 1, 2, 3, ...

Infact, to cut the whole story short, they have sowed my school uniforms first as PE, though my registration money was six thousand five hundred naira only excluding books, bags, water bottle, feeding flask, hand basket, pencils, seat, a pair of white shoes, and was planning to buy umbrella for me during the  raining days ahead.

It was not long enough when I know the name of the school they want me in; St. Michael Nursery and Primary School Achara Uturu Isuikwuato, Abia State.

On 2nd of May, 2023, that faithful day, my mother was preparing me for the first time in school around 6.am as I was filled with joy and happiness inside me. 

My dady was busy taking pictures and short videos that am not aware of then. It was after some days they showed it to me.

They accompanied me to the venue of St.Michael school premises for the unbelievable registration due to my hunger to go to school and their zeal to train me is there. Some would say, the vibe is alive!

My parents and I celebrated our victory with the teachers as we laughed and laughed and they get me registered. 

I was eager for class room discussions in my heart. I thought school is easy.

Every body was watching my behavior as a kid. 

I did not cry after my father left us. Soon my mother left with a good bye words and hands. I replied her in boldness and she left the school compound.

I enjoyed my stay the first day with other children as some are older than me while I was older to others in that nursery one. Though I was flugged by the faty antie who said am making nurse too much in the class.

When I told my mother at home my school experience that first day she encouraged me to learn what my teacher was teaching us. 

Other days passed as normal, I was eager to go and I did go to school.

But on 9th of May, 2023, I did not want to go to school with no reason. My father left for work early in the morning and my mother hurried to dress me up but I was dulling and boning face. 

My dear mother do not look my face as she was busy preparing my food and other necessery things I needed to go with. 

My face frowned and legs slow to move towards the direction necessary for it. I knew it, my mother would wonder.

Lo and behold,  that day our teacher did not come to school with a reason I no not about. Class were boring. No entertaining teachers to teach, for a long time we were playing in class. 

A time came around 11:30am, some of us are going home without permission or dismissal and no one was watching neither asked to return. Therefore, I set home myself. Even the primary pupils I was handed over to bring me back were not aware that am leaving school premises on my own.

I do not know the feeling of my mother when she went to the school to check on me but I were nowhere to be found. She later told my dady that 'she run mad in her memory when they came to her house to asked her if Success is back from school as they did not know his where about.

When my father heard this, he trembled. He was afraid the action and decision I have taken. He thought of changing me from that school to Marist but the cost of maintaining it is high.

He put me in the hands of God and asked his wife to be patient enough till next term. When we see his performance, we shall know what to do my father adiviced my mother.

Could it be that this little boy knew beyond his age or what?

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8 QUALITIES OF A GOOD MOTHER

8 QUALITIES OF A GOOD MOTHER

Two questions we need to tackle is; who is a good mother and how do good mother's identified in public. Just read down to know how to be a good mother forever with any kind of man.

Who is a good mother?

What are the qualities of a good mother? Read down to see these two questions answered.

According to Mrs. Okezie Calista who has been a teacher for more than  fifteen years now in a seminar presentation with Uturu Heroes and Heroines platform described motherhood as the heart of the family.

As the heart gives blood to the parts of the body so the mother gives light to the family. A caring mother is as the same thing as a good mother. A mother manages her home in such a way that people will not notice what going on in the family whether smooth or tough. Nice mothers covers family faults and work hard to stop further errors done by children.

A good mother prays for the whole family as St. Monica did for her son St. Augustine in the Bible.

These 8 qualities of a good mother says it all. Below are the powerful good qualities of mothers in details:

1. A good mother is loving and caring at all cost and time. Mothers should love and care for everyone in the family without discriminating who runs the highest errands in the house among the kids.

2. A good mother is encouraging and motivating by nature. Mothers should be encouraging and motivating to their sons and daughters in living a good life through displaying good characters towards their fellow human beings in general. Mothers who lack such characters hardly raise up good children.

3. A good mother is peaceful all the time. Mothers should be insightful when it comes to promoting peaceful co-existence in the environment and household not supporting wars among family members. Mothers with insight and knowledge know that the only work they have in the family is to organize peace between father, mother, children and other members of the society for better tomorrow.

4. A good mother is neither a gossiper nor a talkative. Mothers should not be seen nor involves themselves gossiping about their families misconduct outside home, rather they should live for corrections and directions instead of talking rubbish with their blessed mouth.

5. A good mother is not jealous and hoting. Mothers are met to be appreciative and welcoming to everybody. Advancing and appreciating other people's wellbeing in a given soceity without compromising of personalities.

6. A good mother is helpful in the family. Mothers should help their husbands, children and others around the environment.

7. A good mother is trustworthy. Mothers should build trust and worthy characters before their children, so that they could be a living examples in the family.

8. A good mother should be neat in all round living non behind because a dirty wife makes the man looks outside for other women to trend.

In other way round, fathers too are not left out from the above mentioned qualities. A good father should not let the family lack anything materially and otherwise. The otherwise is the love of the man which suppose to be invested wholely in the family.l development.

 

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Batholomew Obienyi

A Creative Writer and Motivational Speaker

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