SOCIETAL PROBLEMS AND ITS REMEDIES

SOCIETAL PROBLEMS AND ITS REMEDIES

Due to lack of seriousness on parents, youths are unable to unlease their potentials. There's no child worth doing without parental care services during the time of his growth. 

“Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it” Proverbs 22:6

2.YOUTH AND SOCIAL MEDIA INFLUENCES

Social medias (such as facebook, instagram, youtube and others) have been the most destructive and constructive aspect of civilization in our present time. But many adults youth misuses them. 

Youths need exposure on how to make use of these social media mediums so that it would be one of the instrument of development in a growing community.

Erik Qualman said; “We don’t have a choice on whether we do social media, the question is how well we do it”.

3.YOUTHS, SEX AND RELATIONSHIP IMPAIRMENT:

Due to lack of understanding of what sex and relationship are, many youth have indulged themselves in the act of sexuality and watching unreasonable photos like porn on the internet and its influence and impact are wrongly misunderstood.

Napoleon Hill said, “If you don’t control what you think, you can’t control what you do”.

4.YOUTH AND THEIR VISIONS ACCOMPLISHMENT

Every son and daughter born of a woman has something great and something special in him or her and if unveiled and nurtured with the love of the parents can bring a great change and development in the society and the nations at large. 

Warren G. Bennis said, “Leadership is the capacity to translate vision into reality”.

THE FIVE SUGGESTED REMEDIES ARE EXPLAINED IN DETAILS BELOW:

1.HOSTING OF MONTHLY/QUARTERLY YOUTH SEMINARS

One of the solutions to our youths problems today is sensitization of how to solves youths misconception of the world in different areas of life. 

Organizing seminars has been a way many insightful leaders around the world use to control their societies because what goes around mostly in front of any youth is what his mind will comprehend and henceforth leads toward the shaping of their mental pictures. 

The pictures they normally hold, is what they grow up with. So, there is a great need that our youths are exposed to different kinds of educative programs not only the ones they gain at the university level. 

2.   WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A PARENT?

It involves many challenges to be a parent. First, the raising of children from childhood demands patience.

Secondly, the controlling of what is going on in children’s lives until the age of maturity. Third, the parental advice that must surely be an example of parent’s life. 

3.   HOW TO CONTROL SOCIAL MEDIA ACTIVITIES

It is the responsibility of parents to find a means of educating their children on social activities especially in their tender age through words of encouragement, creating of an award program that benefits the youths and supporting everything that brings up enlightenment.

4.WHAT TO KNOW ABOUT SEX AND RELATIONSHIP

Sex is one of the reasons why so many youths go into relationship, without knowing the essence or the need of being sexually attracted to each other. 

Though it is love or lust if I may say, that leads to sex but it is essential to know how to manipulate the forces of emotions so that it would not bring disappointment, disgrace and shame to the people concerned and their parents and societies. 

It is necessary that we must educate the youth on sex and marriage issues. It is through the help of their parents that they are going to learn that. No one else except  one’s lover that could tell truth a youth would understand and accept.

5. GOAL ORIENTED

Some of our youths don’t know where to start in life. It is after discovery who they are that the education they receive will be beneficial to them and to the community. 

It is important to teach them how to set a goal and accomplishes it no matter what that goal may be. The Bible said, my people perish because of lack of knowledge. Help us accomplish this mission oh parents.

There's no need running away from our troubles. Its better to face our daily challenges that contributes to our growth in life than to left everything to chance.

Imagine your world. Visualization is everything as great men would always believe it. Try new things every day.

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LEADERSHIP AND CAREER PURSUIT

LEADERSHIP AND CAREER PURSUIT

The word leadership is the ability to achieve a set goal with or without a group of people called organized team. It is also the ability to lead, plan and organize others exceptionally well with or without complaint. 

Leadership skill and knowledge is the pillar of all successful men and women who want to become great in the career of leadership.

To be a leader one needs to be visionary in nature. To ascertain leadership, one needs to think and act. Visualization and imagination are the most credential ingredients in any leadership career pursuit.

Michael Porter said; "Good leaders need a positive agenda, not just an agenda of dealing with crisis’’. 

John C. Maxwell said; "All leaders are followers”.

Leaders are courageous people. A leader makes a decision and pursues it together with his team for accomplishment. Leaders think in order to avoid mistakes. Leaders ask questions in order to find the way. 

Leaders don’t fear failures for they knew that failures are nothing but pillars of success.

A Career on the other hand, is an occupation or profession, especially one requiring special training, followed or seen as one’s lifework (According to Dictionary.com online).

Being clear about your career gives you inner power to face the challenges on the way. A career is an individual’s journey through learning and achieving goals. 

To discover your career, look within yourself. Don’t allow people to choose your career for you, but think before you decide. Your career sometimes is your instincts.

Carlton Fisk said; "It’s not what you achieve, it’s what you overcome. That’s what defines your career".

Edith Wharton said; "There are two ways of spreading the light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it. Your career is what you choose to do, be or follow in life". 

Your career can be wrongly or rightly influenced by friends, the church you attend, environmental inflences, peer groups, and social media attachment or online gambling. You must define your career by yourself. Moreso, you can trust a mentor or caoch for directions.

Read Warren Bennis books here

Warren Bennis said; ‘’Leadership is the capacity to translate vision into reality’’. Being aware of your feelings about a particular career in your field of study will help you make the right choice in life. Smart leaders know what they don’t know. Being aware of your knowledge on leadership is the key".

Learning is a constant process throughout your profession in life, and it does not stop when you have become a team leader.

Albert Einstein said; “The only thing that interferes with my learning is my education”. It is the learners who will inherit the earth in times of inheritance and internal life. There is no luck without you being prepared".

Developing leadership skill will help you in your career achievement in life. The question is; what would you do if you weren’t afraid of choosing your career? Be bold enough to choose one particular area in your life to develop. 

The first person to lead is your spirit. when you catch your mind you catch your insight and when you catch your insight you can run far with your followers.

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UNFORGETTABLE MOTHER WHO LAUGHED AT ALMOST EVERYTHING

UNFORGETTABLE MOTHER WHO LAUGHED AT ALMOST EVERYTHING

She told us to laugh at almost everything.

This is a heart touching poem written for my legendary mother on her sick bed which nature nurtured her. Remembering what my mother did for the world, I couldn't be able to express my feelings only in mere words, so I write just to please her soul in the land of the living. 

This poem depicted love from mother to children. Make sure you show your own love to your mother. How can we forget you Bridget Obienyi?

Here comes the words;

UNFORGETTABLE MOTHER

This is unforgettable story

I heard from my mother

This is unforgettable story

I heard from my mother.

My mother said to me

Son, never you get worried

About things       

Laugh in all situations

You are not the cause.

Work hard to eat

Love people, help people

God is the one who pays

God is the one who reward

In all you do, just eat your meals.

My mother struggles in life

Because of us children

My mother said to me, son

Don’t leave your sister alone

Help her finish her education

I have tried my best for you

Try for your sister too.

Mother, in all she do

Was for me I think so

She‘ll work

She‘ll beg

She‘ll ask

She‘ll cry

She‘ll fight

She‘ll laugh

All for me

So that I can live my life

In my freedom.

Mother, I thank you for your love

Mother, I thank you for your care

You‘re so great and so kind!

God will bless you

First for me

God will reward you first for me

I‘ll make your name, your face,

Your smiling face will be immortal to men

I‘ll see your smiling face again.

And I remembered the wisdom of smile

You taught me

 I will not allow hunger

To beat you

I will never put shame

On your face

I will never see you dirtying around

Ohhooooo-ooooo sweet mother.

My Mother my mother

My unforgettable mother

I promise you

I will never forget the wisdom of smile

You taught us

Only God can reward you

For me

Oh mother of my womb, wherever you are

You are a blessing to humanity.

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FIVE SECRETS OF GROWING PERSONALITY

FIVE SECRETS OF GROWING PERSONALITY

   

Personality is your identity and the way you present yourself to the world. It is how you carry and express yourself. It is your beliefs about yourself. It is how you allow others to express themselves towards you and around you. 

Your personality visibility may not really be who you are because it can be faked. But how do you want to pose before the masses? What and who do you want to be?

Building personal personality depends on intellectual capacity to think, your IQ rate of imagination, perception and the level of awareness in knowledge you possesses.

The understanding of the word 'personality' or individuality has various advantages to the person in view.

Your personality can be influenced by your mentor or life coach if you have or the environments. You may decide to live your life following foot steps of someone you admire to be your role model.

You could also decide to grow your personality yourself without being influenced by anyone despite what going on around you.

There are some technical inventions that can make you want to change your inborn characters, thus are;

Technologically, religiously, politically and scientifically already made developments.

Developing your standard personality start from earlier stage for many individuals. Those who change alongside others as they advance in life are the learners and to be a learner is good and necessary.

Learners do not allow their growth to depend on friends, religious gathering pattern or family and environmental influences which invaded people's mental privacy to cause change.

Because of that little blockage from others, they change their perceptions from who society want them to be, to who they want to really become. And this is common but expensive shift from their original self, it brings in blessings in their lives.

Changing your real personality is not good because it has led many men and women to greediness, wickedness, loneliness and unhappy because they are not living their true inner selves expression of who they are naturally.

 

There are few things I will share with you that can cause one to divert from the original personality that one held in mind.

These are:

1. FRIENDS AND FAMILIES INFLUENCES

These are the main reasons many individuals change their views and their original selves in life. 

When one looks around one's friends and families behaviors as in dressing codes, worship or social participations for example, and their interactions with the environment are totally different from your own, inferiority set in, and because of that, one quickly decide to join instead of leaving them and trusting intuition. 

You join because of shame of criticizing, laughing out, and the fear of rejections. To take your stand in the world allow nobody to change your personality views because if you do, you will not be happy, either achieve your heart desires and moreover you have not truly lived a life of boldness and fulfillment. 

Don't allow their influences to work on you.

2.  SOCIAL MEDIA MISUSE OF TIMELINE UPDATES

Due to the attachment with friends on social media wrong activities and associations, changes of pictures every hour and every day, which made some people to appear in different styles every minuets of the day, you decided to join in their crew in order to follow up. 

Once you give in to their whim, you gradually turn your characters and views on your preferred personality. Avoid push up of friends on social medial interactions and postures. 

Decide to become yourself and live life according to your own principles which must for sure has it own consequences and beauty. In a nutshell, let any action be of your own making. In all these things, be committed to your personality advancement. 

Follow your heart beat calling in everything you do. Show your gifts. Promote yourself?

3. CHANGE OF BUSINESS IN ORDER TO MEASURE UP

Growing your personality start from kid. The ability to stick to your chosen career  or decisions. 

The power to live your world the way you believe it to be is your ultimate right. The power to give life your own meaning. 

Many, because of measuring up or contracts allocated to them made them change their views from who they really are to who they really don't want to be. 

Rhonda Byrne said in the Secret movie; ‘’follow your bliss”. Serve the world with what you have inside. Your gifts Not one but Many. Be rooted in your business.

4.    PRIDE DURING MATURITY

The sense of been matured always linked itself with pride. When you discover or become aware of  your dressing code, a set pattern of behavior and a particular life style set in. And it always causes a setbacks and once the mind get hooked up, personality begins to thwart. 

The problem with priding during maturity is that the person involved becomes so blind to his real life visions because of lack of maintenance and conception on personal power of concentration on personality which aids human development. 

Humble yourself so that you will not fail woefully. 

5. RELIGION AND POLITICS INVOLVEMENT

Religion or politics does not change you. It is the people that you follow inside politics that helps you in redirecting your perceptions of your individual personality in a wrong concept. 

Discovery and following your inner vision can boast personality. Don't forget the small still voice in you. Listen very attentively. 

As you read to this extend, It is expected of you to take charge of your world by building and rebuilding your every angle of self development. Moreover don't forget to drop a comment let's see how you feel.

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Batholomew Obienyi

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FIVE RESPONSIBILITIES OF AN ARTISTE

 

                                     

                                    

FIVE RESPONSIBILITIES OF AN ARTISTE  

        

To understand yourself is to recognize your natural gifts. The  gift in you is very special. And it needs to be treated with ultimate care. We have gotten this inspired five responsibilities of artistes who wishes to sing more,  be more, and do more with what they have within.  

To reap the fruits of one's talents, discipline should be a watch word. These days, artistes find it difficult to be popular or make enough income with their songs due to the level of education needed to excel in music industry in this present time is not there.

Crafty artistes hook up with  insightful managers who bear almost the progress of the artiste at heart. If there's a one thing an artiste must need - good manage is needed not necessarily money. Just a nice manager. 

As you  go through this article find a way to communicate with us. We can help you archive your music career by sharing you information that motivate your soul to achieve more with your songs and followers.

These five responsibilities are listed below:

1. BUILDING FAN BASE SYSTEM

This take place in your social Medias interactions with your fans. For instance; creating a dedicated account with Facebook, Instagram, Youtube, Twitter, LinkedIn Skype, and Google plus and lots more. 

How you hold or build fans here matters in your growth. Be careful because your real friends surely may not belong to your list of fans who are motivated by you.

Again, learn how to interacts with your fans because they are your big income generation at least  in your beginnings.

2.  SELF-CARE OR LOVE

This is a compulsory survival rule for all artistes to develop. Any show performer must value himself first whether popular or not. Loving oneself is the core ‘thing’ for an artiste to be valued by others.  

I will not tell you here the kind of dressing you are to appear, just wear your best, let your dressing be inspiring from within. It’s a spiritual inspiration and attraction that brings favor to you. 

3. INTERACTIVE SKILLS

Learning how to interact with others is necessary. Musicians of all kinds are able to interact with others especially with fans that come from foreign countries to follow him or her up on social medias. 

Making connections is necessary for crafty singers to rise above their competitors who don’t measure up. Mastering interactions and interviews with the world languages pushes the singer above every other celebrity in line.

 4. SOURCES OF KNOWLEDGE

It is the work of a singer to redeem himself because disappointment hurt the heart of any star-artiste. Even though most claim to be busy on studio works but that not enough reason to be dull towards your talent development. 

No matter what the reason could be, it is not an excuse for any person who fails to recognize his  own sources of inspiration. 

Whatever that's inspiring you to act in public, should be honored greatly. Your source could be a musical company or a grown known fellow artiste.

 

5. SELECTION OF FRIENDS AND PLATFORM

It is the responsibility of show-guys to know their best help platforms and select the type of friends to maintain along the line. 

Since star beings have many fans and friends who claim to love them. Artiste don’t easily recognize the ones that come for their good or destruction. 

So it is his duty to protect himself mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually first before any other thing may  come in the process. 

If you are a made-artiste or up coming, it is good you keep on improving in your talents  till the day you will be tired.  

Remember you should finish what you started through raising other artistes like you. Keep your linage and pattern of songs going.  

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Batholomew Obienyi

A Creative Writer and Motivational Speaker

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