THE SECRET TRUTH ON MENTORSHIP

THE SECRET TRUTH ON MENTORSHIP

An Online Live Interview With a special person named, Mute Efe a coach, writter and motivational speaker.

Once in a life time in any interesting want to grow individual will need a guide by a higher intelligent personality of the kind of person he or she wants to become. 

To grow larger in life its good one start from low to high but not necessarily compulsory with any person. 

There was a time in my journey to the next ladder when it seems the road is dark, not clear or confusing per say, so I seek higher knowledge and more wisdom from the source I prefer.

 So I paid Mute on Facebook chart to lick secrets on mentoring for that was what I needed that time to grow. Below are powerful charts between me and Mute who is a personal leadership coach as I wanted to be.

A PERSONAL INTERVIEW I CARRIED OUT WITH MUTE EFE

Mute Efe is a Personal Leadership Coach, Social Media Entrepreneur, Blogger and an Author. An Electrical Engineer by training and a Certified Safety Professional.

He is also certified in Basic and Advanced Leadership.

He is committed to teaching people how to lead themselves.

His online School for Personal Leadership, a class that holds on Facebook,

has trained participants from across the globe on life transforming principles. His very simple way of writing connects him with the hearts of people.

 Mute Efe is the author of The Beautiful

Life: Classic Notes on Personal Leadership.

You can connect with Mute on any of the following:

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Twitter: @Mute_Efe.

Email: mute.efe@gmail.com.

Me:

Does a mentor need to charge money before mentoring?

Mute Efe:

It depends.

If it is one on one mentoring, No.

Me:

Explain please.

How does one choose a life mentor not yearly?

Mute Efe:

But if it is a mentoring program where there are many people being mentored by one person he can charge a fee. Just like coaching.

If you find someone who represents everything you aspire for you can make him a life mentor.

Me:

Is it necessary for one to have a permanent mentor to succeed in life?

Can a mentor be selective or choose his/her mentee?

Mute Efe:

Yes

Me:

Do you still at your age now have a mentor?

Mute Efe:

Yes.

Even Oyedepo has a mentor.

Me:

Can one have many mentors?

Mute Efe:

You can have several mentors in different areas

Me:

Should one choose a person he is above in age as a mentor?

Mute Efe:

It's possible. It is called reverse mentoring.

Me:

Me:

What is the demerit of mentoring?

Mute Efe:

Sometimes conflicts can arise.

And if the mentor is not really mature he can become hostile when the mentee starts making fast progress.

Me:

Can one's wife or husband serve as ones' mentor?

Mute Efe:

Many ladies have married their mentors

But it is common with men. Most men choose men as mentors. But ladies also choose men, too.

Me:

Can it serve as a life mentoring after marriage?

Can one's mentor intentionally mislead his mentee?

Mute Efe:

Yes.

Me:

If it happens, how could one possibly find out in time?

Mute Efe:

A wife can regard her husband as her mentor for life.

I have never heard of such but it is possible. However, there must have been an issue in the relationship and the mentee would have known that all is no longer well.

Me:

If a mentee has a multiple vital purpose in life, should he/her listen or follow the mentor's advice?

Me:

If I ask you now to be my mentor and it happened that you said yes. What would you expect to be your reward - my success in life or in monitory aspect?

Mute Efe:

If the mentee does not want to follow the mentor's advice he should not have chosen him.

For your second question, I am not accepting mentees right now.

Me:

Thank you for your time. Please answer the last question. Thank you once more.

Mute Efe:

I will have to find out if I am the right mentor for you.

For example, a musician cannot come and ask me to be his mentor. I will decline.

Me:

What reward mentors accept from their mentees' mostly?

Mute Efe:

Even though mentors may not demand any reward, it is expected that a mentee should appreciate his mentor.

The mentee should use his discretion to determine the form of appreciation.

Me:

Thank you very much.

Should one seek to be someone's mentor?

Mute Efe:

No.

But one can start a mentoring program and let people decide whether they want him to be their mentor.

I have one mentor that I pay to be in his program. I have another one that I don't pay.

Me:

Is it advisable to be a musician and as well be a public motivational speaker?

What secret should I know about mentoring?

Mute Efe:

A public speaker can be in any profession. Once you are successful people will want you to come speak to them

Chinedu, we have exceeded your time.

Me:

Yes. Thank you. I learn.

Mute Efe:

The secret about mentoring is that everybody needs a mentor in one area or another.

Mentorship is the influence, guidance, or direction given by a mentor. A mentor is someone who teaches or gives help and advice to a less experienced and often younger person. In an organizational setting, a mentor influences the personal and professional growth of a mentee. Wikipedia

A mentor is person who has more knowledge than you do. A mentor gives you direction and mostly motivate you when the bridge seem tiny to cross to the next phase of life.

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WHO I THOUGHT I WAS - BIOGRAPHY - Biography

WHO I THOUGHT I WAS - BIOGRAPHY

My name is   Batholomew Obienyi from Agbama Amaidi Achara Uturu, Abia State Nigeria.

I am an Author, Coach, Talent Spotter and a Free Thinker. 

I believe so much in enlightenment and entertainment.

I like music and gym exercises. I practice gym as a hobby and easing myself in listening to songs that I like. I grew up in a very poor family lifestyle and background. 

My father died when I was 3 going to 4 years. My mother could not pay for my school fees again in my class three and that led me to made a decision to follow my gifts which I discovered in my JSS2 class.

I found out that people lack motivation but many do not want to be motivators themselves. I promised myself to be a changing individual. And, I choose to be a motivator.  

I have written more than three unpublished books now such as: 

Our Little World, 

Deep Down I Came Up 

and  A Witch Encounter etc.

They all came as an inspiration and life experience lessons in my earlier twenties.

I turned to a hustler by choice not by force,  I was forced by no one. In my secondary school I recall, our seniors don’t come for us for motivations.  I struggled till I reached 19years.  So, I dedicated my journey here on earth for fulfilling that purpose during my life time which I know would  appear in different forms and level of phases. 

I love speaking in public especially to secondary school students and village rutted individuals whose mindset have been reshaped by poverty and ignorance.

I love discovery and sharing of new ideas with people. I tried my best to be friendly but not listening to what people are telling me on how to live my life unless my mentor or decided one.  I decided to choose my life. To be the change I want to see in the world today. And I followed my bliss.

I decided to do a research about myself in the physical realm and also in the other realms of life. Everything about me! I started learning me. I called it - Mastering Myself from within. 

As am still growing up in my findings, I found this secret that gave me more confidence to live my best life doing what I love and wanted to do. I trust in Buddha words:  

“Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.” - Buddha

But for long, I was working hard jobs to feed and train myself and those things I considered are my responsibilities. I was surviving without fear but having faith in my Creator. I knew it too well that my challenges are always in front of me and I have ways of jumping over them even if I got hurt. 

I became like a giant that wandered at the desert seeking for food and survival. I moved by forces of hunger of knowledge, growth, riches and living a mark on the face of the universe. 

I searched for the secrets of riches and I found my good ways of making a living at age 33.

Nature has lots of good things for us if only we could bend down to master ourselves and do what we love no matter who kicked it off.

"Seek you shall find. Knock the door shall be open. Ask and it shall be given. Believe and you shall receive" - Said Jesus Christ.

We are in a versatile and dynamic world.

I strongly believe that one who follows the Light shall not be afraid of the dark and one who has a map shall not fear the road. One who endures conquers. He who waits has everything.

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THE INFLUENCE OF TALENTS

 

THE INFLUENCE OF TALENTS

The more talents are used the more it's multiplied.

Your talents will make you a wonderer.

It will cause you to imagine and create.

It is your talents that would make you happy and satisfied within yourself.

The question remains, what is talent all about? The word talent is a gift and it is  given by God or to some extent, some believed that it can be acquired through learning, practicing or a drastical personal decision to be who you wanted to become.

The power to determine one's goal in life is always written in one's inner heart of seeing or your mind eyes others called it third eye.

To live and enjoy your full potentials you truly need to discover what talent is all about. To follow your talent is to live fully on earth and serve humanity and yourself with what is within you. Live your life as you follow your intuition. 

DISCOVERY ONES’ TALENT

Talent is a natural ability to do something well and everyone has it.

Discovering and believing in your talent is your job.

Lary Bird said; “A winner is someone who recognizes his God-given talents, works his tail off to develop them into skills, and uses these skills to accomplish his goals”.

A GOAL IS SOMETHING YOU HOPE TO ACHIEVE IN LIFE.

YOU MAY HAVE SHORT OR LONG TIME GOALS. IT ALL DEPENDS ON WHO YOU THINK YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU THOUGHT YOU CAN ACCOMPLISH.

No talent is useless no matter who has it.

Putting your talent into work is the starting point of growth.

It is the recognition of this talent that gives life meaning.

Positive and Negative Actions are the only two powerful forces that can either hinder your progress in life or take you to another step of prosperity.

These Influences are the only two words that can change your views in life. They may be inform of  your friends, peer group, your church, your family or even your environment or the things you watch or do in social media

It is your duty to choose. You are giving this ‘powerful chance of choice’ to make.

Erica Jong said; “Everyone has talent. What rare is the courage to follow it to the dark places where it leads”. You must believe in action and yourself.

F. E. A. R. according to Zig Ziglar mean: “False Evidence Appearing Real”

The best way to grow in life is to be goal oriented individual.

So many people trust in luck without knowing that luck is a matter of preparation meeting opportunity.

To shine, one needs positive people around him.

Self discovery has to do with you knowing that you are a multidimensional being. You exist in more than one planet of the universe. 

You have mind, soul, spirit, and body. It has to do with you becoming aware that you are that which most call God. It is you knowing that you are a part of God and everything in the universe.

It is this awareness and or knowledge most don’t recognize to accept or agree that the Infinite potentials of who they are truly is in them. 

Loving yourself unconditionally means loving yourself with all your heart. Every human being on earth has all the characteristics of everything on earth; be it animal, child, woman, man, insects, water or other elements. You are everything if you only knew it. Why worry? Do and follow your bliss.

Follow the small still voice inside you. “Be still, and know that I am God”.  You have greatness within you. You are good. You can do undoable.

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To grow more, one needs to develop one’s idea and the potentials in him.  Potentials are undeveloped talents in you. 

Potentials means the power to change everything about you using what you have within. Human beings have the gifts of multiple talents to exhibit.

Talent, motivation, and attitude work together to unlock your true potential in all aspects of life. 

Your talents are your natural gifts, things that come easily to you and bring you joy. Take a moment to reflect on what you excel at and what others appreciate about you.

Motivation comes from finding fulfillment and happiness. What drives you to go above and beyond? Identify those factors that ignite your passion.

Attitude is everything! Embrace positivity and watch your potential soar. Surround yourself with positivity in words, images, sounds, surroundings, and people. You have the power to shape your mindset.

So embrace your strengths, and stay calm in believing in yourself.

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