FIVE SIMPLE ACTIONS THAT TRIGGERS A WOMAN'S LOVE INTERNALLY NOT EVEN MARRIAGE

 

FIVE SIMPLE ACTIONS THAT TRIGGERS A WOMAN'S LOVE INTERNALLY NOT EVEN MARRIAGE

Women generally are soft hearted beings who can be easily moved or pushed about to do a particular thing by men or their children. It is not weak point as many have attributed it to be, rather it is a kind of Gene that runs in women's blood from the Creator of the Universe.

Internal love is equivalent to unconditional love. If women are moved easily, it means they are connected to conditions that affects men and their children deeply as God do. Some people even take God for granted because of His forgiven heart towards sinners.

You knowing these five simple actions that touched women's hearts greatly does not guarantee abuse in anyway, be warned for too much use of anything weakens the power.

Here are the five simple actions that triggers women's love internally:

1. SOFT WORDS

Women in their natural state of being are soft and easy going. It is the love of a man through his words that make a woman's love to over flow from within her bossom like a river and in harmony to her growth around happiness causing her to love with all her heart without evil thought.

Harsh and hard words never perform any wonders in women's hearts rather it get ticker and stronger in hatred and jealousy. If the man continues to use the other side of his voice on a woman, her love tends to shrink back causing her pains and sorrow which can easily affect a man's creativity and success in many ways.

2. UNEXPECTED GIFTS

This one is heart stolen. When a man shows unexpected concern through gifts, birthday wishes card and money, women dear not to reject such attempt. This action alone make women to fall in love more deeply no matter the kind of man it is.

Women don't know whether a man is ugly, fine, rich or poor, what they care most is caring and heart touching man. Women like gifts and love the giver of the gifts. 

You need to know that gifts triggers women's love. And so does it to any human being on Earth. The Bible says that; "the gifts of a man maketh a way for him". Learn how to give precious gift no matter how little.

3. DEFENDING HER

Another point most women won't like to tell a man is their protections. They allow it as a test. Women will test a man to know how truly a man cares. Safety is their first priority.  

When you defend a woman in public even when she's wrong, her love developed more for you. Publicly defend a woman, her love runs up for you. Don't kill yourself for a woman before you agree you love her. Always play it safe.

4. FEEDING HER

Showing a woman caring through provision of food triggers her love. Women don't play with the man who feeds them, provide for her anytime any day. They knew that you should not bite the hands that feed you. When you feed a woman, she would give all her respect to you always.

5. EDUCATING HER

When you educate a woman, it makes her to fall in love without a second thought. Women like to be exposed, they like to know everything from scratch. If you can provide that education for her, she's there for you. Good women like and respect their teachers and those who tends to correct them when they are wrong easily.

To be a woman is not easy. There are many unmentioned challenges women pass through in their lives. Only men who could be able to fulfill and meet up with their challenges can they trust fully with their hearts of 💓 heart without being judgemental. Thank you for your understanding. You are great and precious.

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HOW SOCIAL MEDIA HAS INFLUENCED PEOPLE'S PERCEPTIVE AROUND THE WORLD BOTH MALE AND FEMALE.

 

HOW SOCIAL MEDIA HAS INFLUENCED  PEOPLE'S PERCEPTIVE AROUND THE WORLD BOTH MALE AND FEMALE.

The word social media explains itself. If anything is social, it means versatile and around the world. It involves expansion. The media is a way of communicating to the world. Therefore, social media is an online gathering of people both positive and negative personalities. Because it is worldwide, it involves relevant and irrelevant communications from dual mentality of good and bad people.  It is a way of combining the literate with the illiterate using application platforms such as; Facebook, Instagram, Tiktok and other unmentioned applications.

This social media technology invention has truly created a new set of world in existence. It is an influencial power that only the strong in heart, mind, and the insightful in nature can withstand. In this era, if the wise is not carefully constructed from within, foolishness will swallow him from side ways unnoticed.

Now let's see the good impact of social media influences around the world.

Here are the four impacts people have gained from social knowledge since its invention in details:

1. NEWS UPDATE

Social media truly has served a crucial part in reaching out news to people who are far away. It has served a very big purpose in information discimination around the globe. Without social media invention, the world by now would have been a very difficult place to stay. It has contributed alot even in politics, education sector, commerce and religious institution in awareness creation from far continent. If not social media, news wouldn't have been easy to spread out. But, due to the involvement of social media applications and platforms in different dimensions information communication has been a first hand awareness in view. 

2. RESEARCH PURPOSES

The introduction of social media as a way of  communication into the world has brought new history to its exposure. It has served students from all level including other scholars for easy retrieval of facts beyond human expectation.

It has brought hidden facts out of their sealed packs. Researchers easily connect to underneath the world in bringing updated news to the world. There are influences around the world today due to the availability of technical machines that can study the past and the present of human characters. 

3. BUSINESS EXPOSURE/ADVERTISEMENT

For business experts around the world, social media has make it fast and reliable both in delivery of goods and other services within expected desired date. Without social media involvement in business and politics today, so many businesses would have been death by now and by so doing, it would affect individuals, companies and countries leading to hunger and frustration among continents. War too, would have been rampant because of land conflicts.

4. HUMANITY ADVANCEMENT

In a nutshell, social media has helped the world in fast development of human minds. Many people around the globe have noticed that they can use their craft, gifts or talents from God to create tools, machines or even robots that can perform human works perfectly and even to make money without travelling far. This shows that, we human can co-create with God the originator of all things and be like Him but not him. Social media has brought a new system of operations in the mind of the people today and tomorrow.

Now let's see the bad part of social media influences around the world:

1. BRAIN DISABILITY

This is one of the destructive effect of social media influences to our youths, brain damage, misconception of many things. It doesn't not give room to experience the future without doubt due to the availability of wrong information here and there. Mostly, human abilities are now sometimes equate to that of machines causing devalue of mind power.

2. DISTRACTION FROM UNKNOWN SOURCES

This includes sad stories, fake news we heard and read from platforms displays from different friends who may be staying in different part of the world. The feeling one felt, the bloody pictures, posts and write ups that distract attentions. All the bad news that social media channeled to our head can drastically change ones focus, mislead and  misdirect in a particular business or personal development. Sightless beings hardly recover from this misconception of robotic world creation.

3. SUDDEN CHANGE OF DESTINY

Because of friends influences on most platforms and associates, destiny can be changed from better to worst. A true talents can be humiliated by a friend who may be a worker of the devil. It is on social platforms that good people learn how to be bad. Good personality can be mentored to be bad in order to have a flash car or live on frivolous life style.

 

4. IT WASTE TIME, ENERGY AND MONEY

Social media specializes in wasting people's time, energy and money without mercy of giving it back to them. Money and time can be wasted. People are addicted as if they were charmed by unnoticeable force they can not control. These are inflences of social media to the world that only few can benefit from it. 

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FOUR UTURIANS FOODS THAT MAKE THEM STRONG IN EVERYTHING

 

FOUR UTURIANS FOODS THAT MAKE THEM STRONG IN EVERYTHING

In Uturu land today, food is also a major challenge for the people. Nevertheless, from the beginning of their origin they are created strong or rather I would say, they inherited strength from their forefathers.

Uturians today believed that the type of food one eat contributed alot to the kind of strength he or she has. If you must work hard for survival, make sure you are eating strong foods that can last in the body because strength of the body is also strength of the mind.

Below are the four special and  powerful foods Uturu people don't play with:

1. FUFU (AKPU) 

Uturu people like fufu so much. Why like fufu? Because it is a strong food that last longer than any other food during performing hard works either farm work or building work. Such hard works include; mixing of concrete, clearing bushes for cultivation, tilling of hips and other unmentioned hard works.

Fufu is gotten from cassava roots and one needs to pill it, washed it and put it into big bucket or butter for it preparation of decaying. After four to five days, it becomes ready for eating once cooked. Fufu is a carbohydrated food which is the main energy food that produces glucose in abundance.

To cook fufu as food, the preparation depends on individual method. It has many methods. Fufu can get damaged but there are also a way of preserving it from decaying.

In the time of making choices, out of hundred, nitty eight percent would choose fufu out of gari its substitute. This is not all about fufu. Fufu is relevant to several people in the world today. It can be preserved if cooked for weeks if not months. If eaten with nice soup, you can be as strong as stone with a smooth nourishing body.

2. YAM (JI)

Yam is another strong food in Uturu land today and tomorrow. Yam due to its relevant is being celebrated as Uturu New Yam festival every year as a big ceremony around August to September down to October. As history tells, Uturians don't use to eat yam until they tested it with faithful indigens who lived at Onuzo community.

Yam can be prepared with beans and in many other methods as food. You can prepare yam as in; roosting, boiling, pounding it to form fufu kind of food and preparing it as pourage yam. It has its associate such as water yam, Coco yam, and Unna as in my native language but non can be compared as yam itself.

Yam is as important as fufu in the body system and the cultivation start around February till  May. People also plant yam around June and July as late planting. If you plant late, you don't expect big harvest and your harvest would be late as well.

Almost all tribes in Nigeria are cultivating yam in large quantities though the quantities depends on capital and strength investment. Much capital investment, more harvest. Yam can be preserved up to a year without decaying. Though alots of it in the yam bane may decay without signs.

3. PLANTAIN (UKAM)

Plantain is also a strong food in Uturu. But it's a kind of food that one must mixed it with another type of food before it can become a strong food. The combination of plantain and beans as in pourage, the roosting combination with yam and other vegetable ingredience for nutrition or by boiling plantain with red oil, and it can be fried like yam and be eaten with pap or fried plantain with jellyoff rice.

So, plantain is a strong food for Uturu people. Though, you can't compare it with fufu or yam. Many people would choose fufu or yam out of plantain if presented as a choice food.

It has been said that plantain has more nutrients but I think it depends mostly on the ingredients one used in preparing it. Plantain can be eaten either when ripped or unripped and be enjoyed.

4. BREADFRUIT (UKWA)

Ukwa is usually inherited as a planted tree from forefathers. Unlike other types of food I have mentioned above, they are all planted with season and time but, ukwa has been there as an inherited food. And it is very sweet if prepared very well.

To tell you how important is ukwa, it is only in big men occasions can one see prepared ukwa served. Few individuals don't like it because they have not inherited it and know not about the food. While many more are falling in love with its taste.

Ukwa is very scarce to get because of its value in the chain of Uturu food distribution. There's no season it cannot bear seed. This ukwa normally grow as huge trees and can last on the soil more than four hundred years without dying. It can only be cut down when a higher need arises. You can fry it and eat it with coconut. 

Sometimes, the choices of food depends solely on the individual. But as for me, I prefer the food I have listed above to be my best selected foods in Uturu because they make me strong any time I eat any one of them.

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