Connect with Obienyi Batholomew as a writer, talent spotter, free thinker and motivational speaker.

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Tuesday, February 25, 2025

THREE THINGS REAL WOMEN WANT FROM A MAN










THREE THINGS REAL WOMEN WANT FROM A MAN


To be a man is not a day job. The same way, to be a woman is not a day job. To be a man is one thing and to be a responsible man who handles situations appropriately is another thing. 

This is why many women put these three things into consideration before going into deep relationship with any man talk more of going into marriage. These are:


1. VISIONARY IN NATURE

Every real woman wants a man who is vision oriented. She wants him to be a decision maker who really knew where and what he wanted in life. 

Real women know that a visionary man is likely to overcome many obstacles in life at the long run of life unseen. Women knew what they want. 

Women need a man who will be encharge of any child bearing and training, controlling family crisis at the long run, not willing to look back inspite of  friends influences and can be patient and tolerable at all times.


2. STRONG IN BODY AND SOUL

No real woman would like a slow, dull and mentally deterred man. All real creative women would like a man who is strong in body and is spiritually in control of the spirit self.

Men who are active in body but are weak in the spirit are not complete in the sight of real women. Women love real men who are more spiritual and very sound in what they are doing about the future.

No man would be active in the spiritual realm without physical strength. If you need women to love you wholely, kindly learn how to do push up and read your books of wisdom.


3. OPENNESS AT ALL TIMES

Real women love  deeply and mostly of men who are open hearted at all times even when they suppose to pretend.

There are men who like lying about their true personal identity, money in the bank, and business associates everywhere. 

Real women need men who are open always and can pour out truth about their real selves on their claimed lovers.




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7 THINGS TO KNOW TO BE UNBEATABLE IN ANY COMPETITION





7 THINGS TO KNOW TO BE UNBEATABLE IN ANY COMPETITION



To be unbeatable in any competition, there are certain strategies one must not play with. Such strategies are open for everyone but only the few first class winners make use of it as of when due.

These are the seven things if put to practice will make one unbeatable in any competition one may involves himself.


1. DRESSING

Let's start with your dressing. You should know the type of competition you are going and know some of your competitors strength.

Though you are not bragging but your appearance create the first fear in the eyes of your challengers and the judges can be lured into attraction simply because of your attire. Know the best suits to be on  or ask your manager questions about your dressing code.


2. FOLLOW UP PROCEDURE

You should endeavour to know the phase or structure lay down for the competition and moreso, ask questions or watch related or previous events before hand.

Failure to acknowledge the procedure set up can lead to your dismissal or reduction in marks.


3. TRUE IMITATION OF ROLE MODEL

Yes. In any competition, your actions and reactions before your judges matters much. If you have someone to imitate, kindly do all you can do to make it real about the person you are role modeling. 

Remember what you are imitating; hair style, attire, voice presentation and pattern of body gestures.


4. BOLDNESS TO PRESENT YOURSELF

Boldness alone is a mark. Be bold enough to present yourself including your eye contacts, your walks and voice control for singers.

All these tends towards revealing who you are from within inspite of your dressing, and imitating abilities. 

Try to show who you are, what you are and how good you can become if declared or selected as the bearer of the golden cap before the judges.


5. BEAR IT IN MIND - YOU ARE NOT ALONE

Sometimes in tough competitions, your judges judge based on people's reactions and how correct you trust your intuition. 

So, whether you are good or not, others can uplift your sensible calculations during performances. Besides, trust God who will make you shine in the eyes of your watchers.


6. BE ON THE KEY

You need to be at the master key. You need to know exactly what the competition is made up of. The does and don't of the organizers. What actually are you expecting not to do in the cause of performing or displaying your skills.


7. YOUR MISTAKES STAYS WITH YOU

Don't dear to fear your mistakes. Without mistakes, there will be no corrections. Failures are nothing but pillars of success. 

You fail a particular race challenge is not enough reason for you not to go for another phase of dragging competition. 

Infact, the more mistakes the more chances of becoming unbeatable challenger before your competitors. And from too many mistakes and triyals, you become perfect and unbeatable. 


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