3 THINGS IRRELEVANT PEOPLE HATE
This article is for you. It is written so you can know exactly the things irrelevant people reject and that rejection is exactly what makes them irrelevant in the first place.
There are two kinds of people in this world
1. People who are ever ready to learn new knowledge at any time.
2. People who are not willing to learn new things, and are not even willing to relearn old ones.
It is important to form the habit of learning new skills at any age. The moment you stop learning, you start dying. The moment you reject growth, you become irrelevant.
Here are the three things irrelevant people hate:
1. ADVICE
Irrelevant people hate advice. They hate to be advised. They reject corrections. They do not appreciate good words directed to them. People who are not doing well with their lives would want others to be like them. That is the first reason they hate advice so badly.
Why? Because hearing good advice would change their hearts and minds.
And when they change, they would likely start to do good things which naturally, they do not want to do.
Irrelevant people know what is right. They know what is good for themselves and for others. But they won’t do it. They prefer to stay in a place of complaint. They like seeing people suffer. They like saying, “The world is too hard to survive in.” That mindset is what makes them irrelevant from the very beginning.
Run from such people. They are contagious in nature and in words.
Negativity spreads faster than any virus.
If you sit with 5 people who reject advice, you will soon become the 6th person who rejects advice.
A person who rejects advice is indirectly saying; “I already know everything.” But the truth is, he knows nothing. The wisest people in the world still have mentors. The richest people still have coaches. The greatest leaders still ask questions.
If you want to grow, you must be teachable. If you are not teachable, you are not reachable. And if you are not reachable, you will remain irrelevant.
2. MOTIVATION
Irrelevant people hate motivation. They hate it because deep down, they know that motivation can make them change and become better people because of that, they don’t want to be motivated by others even by people who are genuinely willing to help them grow. Even when you try to wake them up spiritually, mentally, or financially, they resist it. They fail to understand that “Iron sharpens iron.”
Proverbs 27:17. Yes, people grow when they are around people who push them.
The problem with irrelevant people is this; They hate the people who are running the town forward. They forbid the company of good leaders, good teachers, and good preachers who would have changed their mindset for a big breakthrough.
Bringing a message of change into their world hurts their ears. So what do they do?
They gossip, share false stories, attack any action that aims to correct them, either directly or indirectly and fails to ask questions.
The big question is:
Why do irrelevant people motivate others to be irrelevant?
Because misery loves company. Because if everyone is down, no one will notice that they are down.
Because it is easier to pull others down than to climb up yourself. That's a negative mindset.
Nobody will motivate you more than yourself. You are your own motivator.
Your talents and gifts are from God and they are untouchable. No one can take them from you except you give them away through laziness and bad company.
Be careful who you follow and listen to. Mind what you read online and offline.
Guard your ears. Guard your eyes. Guard your mind. Motivation is food for the soul. If you refuse to eat, you will starve.
3. ORDERLINESS
The last but not the least is ORDERLINESS. Irrelevant people hate order. They hate rules and hate principles that govern this universe.
What many of them don’t know is this: The Earth has principles you must live by. Failure to adhere to the order of life, you are doomed to bleed heavily in times of challenges.
These people like to be called “the author of confusion.” They know what to do, know how to do a thing, know how to make the most useful of anything but, they won’t do it.
They prefer the opposite and even encourage corruption in society.
Why?
Because their minds are full of wickedness and laziness. Because of frustration they quit without repentance. Because of their refusal to learn new skills, new knowledge and failed to improve in their lives. They reject new positive actions and decide to be who they chose to become.
Irrelevant people hate all of that and want to live anyhow. These kind of people want results without process. They want harvest without planting.
But life does not work that way. There is a law for everything:
The law of sowing and reaping.
The law of discipline.
The law of consistency and the law of cause and effect. Even the law of vibration that no one can escape from it.
If you break the law, the law will break you.
HOW TO MAKE SURE YOU DON’T BECOME IRRELEVANT
Now that you know what irrelevant people hate, here is how to make sure you are not one of them:
1. Love Advice; When someone corrects you, say “Thank you” instead of “Who are you to tell me?” Advice is free wisdom. Don’t reject it because of pride.
2. Chase Motivation Daily; Read books. Listen to messages. Watch people who are 10 steps ahead of you. Surround yourself with people who make you uncomfortable in a good way because they are growing.
3. Embrace Orderliness; Create a routine. Set goals. Keep promises to yourself and others. Discipline is the bridge between goals and achievement.
Without order, talent is wasted. Life may be valueless and unreasonable.
If I'm to encourage you, I would say; be
courageous. Be still and know that YOU are God’s creation. We carry divine power. We are called gods in the scripture because we have the ability to create, to choose, and to change.
Trust yourself.
You can be superhuman. You can learn new skills at 20, 30, 40, or even at 60.
You can start again and again. It is never too late to learn. You can become relevant. You can make it. Your life is not an accident. Your future is not by chance. It is by choice.
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