6 ADDICTED CHARACTERS THAT DESTROYS A MAN'S DESTINY

 

6 ADDICTED CHARACTERS THAT DESTROYS A MAN'S DESTINY 

Man on earth has a purpose and a destiny to accomplish before the end of his life time on earth. No man is born without a destiny so large if developed. 

All men are centered on creativity and design. The world is built and ruled by men of great leaders who believes in the intelligent design processes. "As a man thinkth in his heart, so is he" is an old adage I found in 'Think and Grow Rich' By Napoleon Hill the great writer of his time.

Men of destinies are men of great characters. But, there are six attitudes that destroys the man of ignorance. I believe in the statement "awareness is power". One must be aware of these six attitudes that damages a man's vision inspite of how rich and protected he thought he's destiny is.

Here are the six characters that destroys a man's destiny for real

1. WOMANIZING 

Womanizing is an act of flirting by men with different women who may be mentally disfigured through their insight of reasoning. It has always been said; one thing must kill a man. Many men claims that, womanizing the right woman can enrich their pockets. Though in this world today, people see womanizing as pleasures while the women themselves sees it as business.

To some urban places, it is the women who lure visionless men with money into the game. But men with great zeal of their destiny look not sideways. 

The dangers in womanizing is numerous. For example; men who womanize have a very big chance of loosing focus of their destiny, expose to different kinds of sexual diseases, leading to unwanted insults, the risk in given one's blood to a stranger who never appreciated it and causing infidelity among married couples.

2. ALCOHOLISM 

The word alcoholism is the act of been addicted to drinking and not been able to stop it. The level of acholic people take in their bodies these days, truly is not encouraging. Many individuals both men and women cannot do a job without been under the influence of alcoholic intoxication.

Too much intake of achoholic substances has brought down personal values and even cause a lot of disorders in people's brain and health at large. People who take it excess are considered  unimportant in the rural and urban areas.

Many people who have given way to achoholism in the village where I lived, are not thinking aright always due to the influence of alcohol in the body system. It even affect them in presenting themselves before the public.

The problem is, young adults are mostly seen in the act more than the old men. Saying no to achoholism no matter the push of a friend or peer groups is a sure way of taken new decisions that can help one to shape his destiny and build his character for success.

3. CRITICISM 

Criticism is another way a man's destiny can be quenched. There's nothing in this world that man will not criticise about. If a man listens to what negative people are saying, or involve himself in the act, he goes down to the way of darkness.

It is said, if you have a map you will not be afraid of the road. Men of great visions don't listen to critics. When people want to destroys us at our back, they use criticism to our hearing. But, no matter the level of criticism we receive, our good characters will surpassed them all. 

It is better we are aware of our destines and how to defend it among enemies of progress. One thing with criticism is that, it's about people's perception about who we are. And if time is not taken, one's destiny can start there to diminish.

4. PHONE GAMES 

This one may seem to be fake but, phone games is seriously making a very big negative impact in people's lives especially the young teenagers. Many phone games are centered in fighting, accomplishing a set goal and reaching some unrewarded scores. These things can help greatly in denying someone his or her destiny if not properly guided.

To many, phone games is a never let go attitude because it has became an addiction in the brain. Mind controllers uses phone games to engage and cage young brains in a circle that looks like entertainment and  recreation. Phone games are good if you map out time to play them. What is bad is allowing games to cluster your reasoning abilities.

5. DRUGS ABUSE 

Drugs are hard substances that has an influence to the body if taken it abusively. Abusing drugs simply means, taken excessive drugs more than the prescription of a doctor. 

There are different kinds of hard drugs  people take in order to forget their sorrowful life situations. The bible says; 'be sobber' that doesn't mean we cry rather it means reflection on your destiny. It is the bible that says; 'my people perish due to lack of vision.'

Drugs abuse is the chief reasons many people forget their destinies and talents. To succeed in our life endeavours today, we must be up and doing in controlling what we eat, and what we abuse. The best option would be to abstain from drugs in the  tender age.

6. NOT KNOWING HOW TO READ

Yes. Not knowing how to read and write can stop one from achieving his dreams in life. Not knowing is a fault. If one do not read the positive words written in books, how can he comprehend the wisdom of the great?

Reading is good. Like it was written; reading is for the mind while exercise is for the body. The power of the soul depends on the volum of information or insight it received. What is a man who don't read?

From the beginning, God gave man everything he needs to serve Him and make his life a better in everything. Man has the creative force in him, to learn, relearn and do all that he wanted.

Published by:

Obienyi Chinedu Batholomew

A Creative Writer and Motivational Speaker

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