THE THREE GREATEST HINDRANCES OF HUMAN DEVELOPMENT
The three greatest hindrances of human kind development have eaten deep in the lives of many youths around the world today. They are the reasons many people refused to venture into their real life callings.
To overcome these greatest damaging fears in our heart of hearts, one needs self encouragement, self motivation, be insightful in nature and accept Self-Containment as God has commanded. Knowing these hindrances is the only way we can tackle shame, mistakes and fear.
Lao Tzu, a Chinese philosopher said; " Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is true power".
These are the three hindrances humanity faces:
These are the greatest hindrances of human kind. It is only the timid in heart that these three things would affect greatly without mercy.
Be courageous To Face Mistakes and Fear
Fear leads to mistakes and mistakes leads to shame and shame leads to failures. Your inability to act or move forward because of your errors is the beginning of all doubt. Forget your shame and mistakes and run to your success. No pain no gain is an old adage that's work best here.
This word mistake, can be seen as an error in action, calculation, opinion, or judgments caused by poor reasoning, carelessness, insufficient knowledge or misconception of an idea.
In spite of your fears to act, to try new things out, to invade your world and to explore the unknown, it is better to act in boldness and kindness and fail than never to make a move.
Focusing on fear of what you will face, what people will say, or how poor you would have belittled yourself at the moment will cause more harm than you may imagine. It is easy and better to move on, to keep trying, to work and to learn from past failures of others.
Fear is what lead men to be greedy and greedy leads to war as war put the world into unending conflicts and tumors.
Fear comes in many phases: it could be because of lack of education, self confidence, belief system, cultural and individual differences, racism, and other unmentioned hatred among people.
No matter what form it may appear, always cloth your face with boldness because it covers a lots of faults. Enoch Tan the creator of MindReality said in one of his article that there’s magic in boldness. Why fear?
On the other hand, mistakes are temporary occurrences that do not happen all the time. Mistake is not always but it occurs sometimes in one’s daily activities.
Those who fear mistakes are of the little minds and spirits and lack self courage and determination to move forward in life and its' challenges. Any action done by mistake is met to be repeated in mind. Your mistakes today is your success tomorrow. Infact, make mistakes. The more mistakes, the more knowledge.
When you made a mistake in any of your daily activities, don’t dwell or focus on the mistakes so long because it has been committed there’s no need to cry over split milk.
Be bold. Encourage yourself and move on. Besides, nobody is above mistake even if there’s, do not look away your eyes on growth and focus attention on development.
We all are working towards perfection not that we are perfect. You should know that we are not perfect, always whisper it to your heart silently.
One step to take to avoid mistakes is to move slowly in your consciousness before speaking out or doing anything worthwhile at the moment. Sometimes we need to slow down. Mistake is good to our growth. Not too much of it. There are some deathly mistakes that need to be avoided in time.
Even too much mistakes without giving up attitude leads to greater success. It teaches us how to stop criticism from others because none is faultless. Frequently occurrences of mistakes cause fear and leads to failure.
SINK OR SWIM
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But to learn how to swim, we must first of all sink with the waters. We must feed ourselves with the ability to wait. Commit thousands of mistakes in uncommon places with uncommon people but let it be in boldness and you will discover that they will still appreciate you. But you must strive to grow to help yourself.
Shame as a Root Cause
Lastly, shame is the root cause of mistakes and fear. Try to over come shame in order to fly with your invisible wings.
Shame is an unpleasant self-conscious and emotion often associated with negative self-evaluation; motivation to quit; and feelings of pain, exposure, distrust, powerlessness, and worthlessness. Shame - wikipedia
Forget the accusing fingers. You are good. Go on the way you are good. You are beautiful and you are also a hero.
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